{"id":69512,"date":"2020-05-28T11:50:28","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T11:50:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69512"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:46","slug":"se-si-e-impegnati-a-cogliere-le-benedizioni-non-ce-tempo-per-il-rancore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-si-e-impegnati-a-cogliere-le-benedizioni-non-ce-tempo-per-il-rancore\/","title":{"rendered":"Se siete impegnati a cogliere le benedizioni, non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 tempo per il rancore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si dice che si attrae ci\u00f2 che si pensa, il che significa che siamo responsabili delle cose che ci accadono.<\/p>\n

Well, I disagree. I say that you can\u2019t control your surroundings.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control everything that\u2019s happening to and going on around you. As much as you try, bad things will happen.<\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 essere la persona pi\u00f9 attenta del mondo ma persone tossiche<\/a> vi raggiunger\u00e0 di soppiatto.<\/p>\n

They will find a way to lure you into their spider\u2019s web.<\/p>\n

Potete proteggere il vostro cuore con tutte le vostre forze, ma in qualche modo verr\u00e0 fatto a pezzi.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto siate amorevoli e premurosi, ci saranno sempre persone che vi useranno.<\/p>\n

Persone che non vi tratteranno come meritate di essere trattati e persone che vi spezzeranno il cuore.<\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Whether we accept it or not, life is not always fair. There are some things you simply can\u2019t run away from.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, even though you can\u2019t control the world around you, you can control the way you react.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though you can\u2019t control people\u2019s behavior, you have the power to control yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quindi, in fin dei conti, tutto dipende da voi.<\/p>\n

Potete decidere se lasciare che una cosa negativa rovini la vostra intera vita, se una persona tossica roviner\u00e0 tutte le vostre potenziali relazioni e se una cosa negativa distrugger\u00e0 tutta la positivit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sarete tristi per il fallimento della vostra relazione?<\/p>\n

Or you will be happy that you got rid of the man who obviously wasn\u2019t meant to be yours?<\/p>\n

Vedrete il vostro crepacuore<\/a> come la fine del mondo? O sarete grati per le lezioni che vi ha insegnato?<\/p>\n

Sarete distrutti per non aver ottenuto quella promozione che desideravate tanto?<\/p>\n

O sarete grati di avere un lavoro che mette il cibo in tavola, un privilegio che molti sognano soltanto?<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

La scelta \u00e8 tutta vostra!<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s look at things from this perspective: if you had 1440 dollars but someone took away one dollar, would you throw away the rest? I\u2019m sure you wouldn\u2019t even contemplate it.<\/p>\n

Well, one day has 1440 minutes. Therefore, every time you allow one minute of sadness and negativity to ruin your entire day, you\u2019re actually doing the thing mentioned above.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re wasting the rest of your minutes. And, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that time is much more valuable than money.<\/p>\n

Quindi, I\u2019m begging you to change your focus. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Smettere di pensare troppo<\/a> tutto ci\u00f2 che di negativo accade intorno a voi e concentratevi sulle cose positive.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow a moment of sadness to destroy your happiness. Don\u2019t allow one tear to ruin all of your potential laughter and smiles.<\/p>\n

Invece di concentrarvi sulle vostre maledizioni, concentratevi sulle vostre benedizioni. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Siate grati per tutte le cose buone e le persone positive che avete nella vostra vita, invece di sprecare le vostre energie con le cose negative.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly: forget about the past. Yes, you can and should learn from it but you can\u2019t change it.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Non ha assolutamente senso serbare rancore. Non ha senso rivedere nella propria testa alcuni scenari precedenti.<\/p>\n

Non ha senso pensare a tutti i \"se\". Non ha senso essere arrabbiati e risentiti per alcuni eventi che sono andati come sono andati.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you can\u2019t do anything about it now \u2013 besides allowing your past to ruin both your present and the future.<\/p>\n

Guardatevi intorno: Scommetto che ci sono molte cose per cui dovreste essere grati. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ci sono molte persone che dovete considerare fortunate di avere nella vostra vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Concentratevi su questi aspetti.<\/strong> Concentratevi sulle vostre benedizioni e sulle piccole cose che possono rendervi felici.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not trying to minimize whatever pain you might be feeling.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not trying to tell you that you\u2019re not allowed to be angry or sad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just trying to remind you that ci sono persone l\u00e0 fuori che vorrebbero avere le vostre giornate storte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People who are struggling in battles you can\u2019t even imagine and who would give everything to have your worries and hardships.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

They say that you attract what you think, which basically means you\u2019re responsible for the things that happen to you. Well, I disagree. I say that you can\u2019t control your surroundings. You can\u2019t control everything that\u2019s happening to and going on around you. As much as you try, bad things will happen. You can be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":69556,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69512"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69512\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/69556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}