{"id":6991,"date":"2020-05-17T12:25:33","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T12:25:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6991"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:29:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:29:58","slug":"quando-dai-a-un-uomo-tutto-e-lui-non-ha-ancora-la-decenza-di-scegliere-te-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-dai-a-un-uomo-tutto-e-lui-non-ha-ancora-la-decenza-di-scegliere-te-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando dai a un uomo tutto e lui non ha ancora la decenza di scegliere te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un vero uomo<\/a> non vi lascer\u00e0 mai indovinare il ruolo che intende svolgere nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Un vero uomo \u00e8 sempre sincero sul ruolo che vuole che tu svolga nella sua vita.<\/p>\n

Only a toxic man plays with a woman\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

Solo un uomo tossico ha l'audacia di ottenere il meglio da una donna e poi lasciarla a bocca asciutta.<\/p>\n

Dio solo sa quante donne sono rimaste a bocca asciutta nella vita. E solo Dio sa quante donne sono state lasciate a bocca asciutta per molte volte nella loro vita.<\/p>\n

Just because there are women who are ready to wear their hearts on their sleeves, just because there are women who are more than ready to choose one man and devote themselves wholly to him, that isn\u2019t a green light to use them and then just leave them as if they were the most irrelevant thing in your life.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Dove trovano il cuore gli uomini che lasciano questo tipo di donne? E come dormono la notte questi uomini?<\/p>\n

Come dormono la notte sapendo di aver spezzato il cuore delle donne che speravano di essere scelte, che meritavano di essere scelte?<\/p>\n

Le scuse pi\u00f9 vili provengono sempre da uomini che non sono pronti ad assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How many times have you heard, \u201cShe was the one who wanted to give me her all, but I never asked for it!\u201d? This is a load of crap, excuse my French.<\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want anything from you, he should’ve made sure you were aware of that.<\/a><\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want to use you as he said, he should have stopped taking your kindness, because in his acceptance of your kindness and all the things you did for him was a silent promise that you two were meant to be something more.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

When a real man wants you, he\u2019s upfront about it. When a real man has no interest in you, he\u2019s also upfront about it and would never send you mixed signals. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Only a coward, a poor excuse for a man, would lead you on for a long time without any intention of being with you. But it\u2019s not your fault, as he mastered this kind of game a long time ago.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gli hai dato i tuoi anni<\/strong>. What you had going on wasn\u2019t just blink and it\u2019s over. It was so much more than that. It was days, weeks, months, years of your time and of your hope.<\/p>\n

Sono state molte le notti insonni in cui hai aspettato di essere scelta e in cui c'erano molti segnali che indicavano che lo meritavi, ma la sua decisione finale non \u00e8 mai arrivata.<\/p>\n

Gli hai dato il tuo amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gli avete regalato il vostro sorriso, la vostra risata, la vostra mano e il vostro cuore. Eravate l\u00ec per lui.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Eri in grado di percepire quando c'era qualcosa di sbagliato nella sua vita e sapevi sempre cosa dire in un determinato momento.<\/p>\n

Era sempre pronto a salvarlo quando veniva da lei, ferito dal mondo.<\/p>\n

Qualunque cosa gli servisse, voi l'avevate. Anche quando a volte non aveva idea di cosa avesse bisogno, tu lo sapevi per lui.<\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 stata la sua stella guida nella vita. Sei stata tu ad aiutarlo a raggiungere il luogo in cui si trova ora.<\/p>\n

Avete investito cos\u00ec tanto in lui<\/a> e cosa avete ottenuto alla fine? Un sacco pieno di niente.<\/p>\n

He never asked for any of what you gave him, but he never said he didn\u2019t want it either.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Non ti ha mai chiesto nulla ad alta voce, ma si aspettava comunque che tu gli dessi ci\u00f2 di cui aveva bisogno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

L'unico motivo per cui non l'ha mai detto ad alta voce \u00e8 che cos\u00ec poteva mantenere la coscienza pulita quando succedevano quelle cose.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He wanted to be \u2018clean\u2019 when you came to him to charge him for all the good you did for him.<\/p>\n

When you came knocking and asking for more in life, when you asked him to give you what you deserved and what you\u2019d been giving to him all this time, he didn\u2019t have the decency to give it to you.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you and when you got fed up, he distanced himself by saying he never asked you for anything.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t ask for it, but he sure as hell expected it.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Che cosa vuole una donna cos\u00ec devota, cos\u00ec dotata, cos\u00ec gentile e cos\u00ec amorevole come lei da una simile scusa per un uomo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be straight up, shall we? If he had any intention of choosing you, you would have been chosen by now.<\/p>\n

If he wanted to reward you for your loyalty and for all the times you were there for him when nobody else was, for all those times you chose him over yourself, it would be a done deal by now. But he didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che voi stessi ne siete consapevoli, ma continuate a rifiutarvi di accettarlo.<\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 una donna intelligente.<\/a> Ti sei concessa questa volta di non essere stupida, ma di lasciarti guidare dal tuo cuore e dalla speranza che un giorno lui avrebbe visto il valore di te e che ti avrebbe apprezzato per quello che eri e per quello che hai fatto per lui.<\/p>\n

You hoped that he was a better man than he had shown you and you kept giving until the point where there was nothing more than you could give. And yet he didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Invece di scegliere lei, ha deciso di non farlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Decise di essere codardo ed egoista e rifiut\u00f2 di impegnarsi. Voleva essere aperto a tutte le opzioni che c'erano.<\/p>\n

But that was far from what you deserved or from what suited you. He secretly hoped that you\u2019d eventually miss him so much and that you\u2019d be ready to settle for less.<\/p>\n

What he failed to realize is that once a woman like you leaves, no matter how much pain she might endure, she\u2019s never coming back.<\/p>\n

The only thing left for you to do is to prove to him what you\u2019re made of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You owe it to yourself to choose yourself when he doesn\u2019t have the decency to do it. You owe it to yourself to stop giving all of you to somebody who doesn\u2019t value you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You owe it to yourself to stop being exploited by a man who\u2019s not really a man, but just a poor excuse for one.<\/p>\n

Quindi scegliete voi stessi. Scegliete di essere il vostro eroe. Scegliete di salvarvi da una relazione tossica e scegliete di non accontentarvi di meno.<\/p>\n

A woman like you deserves the world and if the man you want isn\u2019t going to give it to you, then stop wanting him.<\/p>\n

Because there is somebody worthy of you and there is somebody who\u2019ll value you for who you are.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 un uomo vero che vi dar\u00e0 un posto nella sua vita. Smettere di scegliere di non essere scelti.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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