{"id":7005,"date":"2020-05-17T13:17:14","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T13:17:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7005"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:09:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:09:13","slug":"non-si-puo-continuare-a-lottare-fare-lamore-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-puo-continuare-a-lottare-fare-lamore-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Non posso continuare a lottare per farmi amare da te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro' Ex,<\/b><\/p>\n

I am done! This time, I quit. There is no more meaning in fighting for someone who will never be mine. In fact, when I look back I can see that you always were everybody else\u2019s except mine. <\/span><\/p>\n

E questo fa male. Fa cos\u00ec male che riesco a sentire il dolore fisico. Ogni volta che dicevi qualcosa che mi faceva male mi sentivo come se qualcuno mi avesse dato un pugno nello stomaco e avesse fatto uscire tutta l'aria. <\/span><\/p>\n

In un momento mi sorprendevo a non respirare, mentre nuovi pensieri continuavano ad affollare la mia testa: <\/span><\/p>\n

How could he do this? Doesn\u2019t he love me?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E poi tornavo alla realt\u00e0, lottando per prendere aria e cercando di fare bella figura davanti a tutte quelle persone.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, a woman in love shouldn\u2019t feel that way. She should feel like someone who doesn\u2019t have any problems in her life. She should feel that the love for her partner is so deep that an ocean would be jealous of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

She should feel the peace that all those people in love feel. But with you that wasn\u2019t the case. I felt all the bad things and if I was about to enjoy a day with my loved ones, you would come and destroy it all. <\/span><\/p>\n

You destroyed my happiness like it was a house of cards. You made me suffer like nobody before you did. While I was with you, I couldn\u2019t recognize myself anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was a totally different person – the one who begs for a little bit of love, the one who doesn\u2019t want to be abandoned.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, ho passato le pene dell'inferno con te, ma in tutto questo.., Ho imparato a volermi bene. <\/a>Ho imparato che sono degna e molto di pi\u00f9 di quanto tu mi abbia mai dato credito.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho imparato che con l'uomo giusto potevo essere felice e soddisfatta come tutte le altre donne.<\/span><\/p>\n

E quando l'ho capito, ho smesso di lottare per te.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because there wasn\u2019t any sense in keeping something that was already dead. Our love was dead from the moment you didn\u2019t choose me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il nostro amore \u00e8 morto quella notte, quando hai preferito lei a me<\/a>La stessa notte sentii che il mio cuore si era spezzato in un milione di pezzi e che sarebbe rimasto cos\u00ec per sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if I will ever be the same me. I don\u2019t know if I will ever be able to love someone like I loved you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sai, quando sei distrutto, questa \u00e8 quasi una missione impossibile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo che l'hai rotto, ho raccolto tutti quei pezzi del mio cuore che giacevano davanti a te. Li ho presi e li ho tenuti egoisticamente solo per me. Ho cercato tanto di riprendermi da questo dolore che mi hai causato. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma in qualche modo sento che non sar\u00f2 mai la vecchia me. Forse \u00e8 un bene, perch\u00e9 ora non permetter\u00f2 mai a nessun altro uomo di guidarmi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Forse sar\u00f2 pi\u00f9 forte e forse non mi trover\u00f2 pi\u00f9 nella stessa situazione.  <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, I am not the first one and I won\u2019t be the last one to have bad luck in love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ma spero di tornare ad essere la vecchia me. Dopo un po' di tempo e dopo averti dimenticato, spero di trovare qualcuno che mi tratti come mi merito.<\/span><\/p>\n

I made up my mind: I will be happy in a relationship or I won\u2019t be a part of one. That\u2019s a lesson I learned in a tough way. <\/span><\/p>\n

E nessuno pu\u00f2 togliermi questa esperienza.<\/span><\/p>\n

I just want to tell you one more thing: I loved you with all my heart! You meant the world to me but unfortunately you didn\u2019t know to cherish what we had. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se mai dovessi chiederti perch\u00e9 ho smesso di lottare per te, sappi questo: <\/span><\/p>\n

TU hai scelto di smettere di lottare per me e se sei stato abbastanza stupido da andartene, allora io sono stato abbastanza intelligente da lasciarti andare.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Con zero amore,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Uno che merita molto di pi\u00f9<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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