{"id":7082,"date":"2017-10-19T08:46:54","date_gmt":"2017-10-19T08:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7082"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:08:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:08:13","slug":"accade-di-lasciare-una-relazione-emotivamente-violenta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/accade-di-lasciare-una-relazione-emotivamente-violenta\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco cosa succede quando si lascia una relazione emotivamente violenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nessuno ve lo dice mai. Nessuno ti avverte. Tutti hanno qualcosa da dire quando si \u00e8 in questo tipo di relazione, ma tutti tacciono quando ci si libera da essa. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that easy. One should expect happiness and joy. No one expects fear, confusion, and the inability to continue living your life\u2014to pick up where you left off before you met him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nessuno ti dice mai quanto fa male. Nessuno ti dice mai quanto tempo ci vuole per guarire le ferite.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you meet someone new, you are afraid. You are scared to death that history will repeat itself. You try to humor him even though he doesn\u2019t want you to do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You apologize for every little thing. You apologize for the things you\u2019re guilty and not guilty of. He doesn\u2019t want you to do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

No one ever tells you that you don\u2019t have to do it. No one ever tells you how hard is to snap out of what you\u2019ve been going through. No one ever tells you that it takes guts to heal completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovrete trovare la forza di rialzarvi. Rivivrete quei momenti orribili di cui vi ha reso partecipi. Vi sveglierete nel cuore della notte e il vostro cuore batter\u00e0 cos\u00ec forte, come se volesse liberarsi dal petto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vedrete qualcuno che vi ricorda lui. Vi riporter\u00e0 indietro. Sar\u00e0 cos\u00ec reale, come se l'incubo stesse accadendo di nuovo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Vi sentirete distrutti perch\u00e9 sarete distrutti. Piangerete a dirotto. Griderete per il dolore emotivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will feel drained because you will be drained. He\u2019s the one who sucked the life out of you. You gave him all you had. And what did you get in return? Nothing except pain. And more pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will be negative because that\u2019s the only feeling you know. You forgot what it was like to be happy. It will be hard to get out of that vicious circle of negativity. You want to escape it, but you need it because you\u2019re used to it. It becomes like a drug to you. You keep craving for more.  <\/span><\/p>\n

You never knew what it was like to be loved. You never had that. You wouldn\u2019t recognize real love even if it hit you right in the face. You will doubt each and every person who comes near you and you will destroy their every attempt to flirt with you. You will do this out of fear. Out of fear of getting hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovrete essere forti per molto tempo. Dovrete essere forti finch\u00e9 non raccoglierete i pezzi rotti di ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 rimasto di voi e li rimetterete insieme per continuare a costruire la versione di voi stessi che avete sempre voluto essere.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you start a new relationship, you will feel lost. You won\u2019t be used to this new \u2018normal treatment\u2019. You won\u2019t be used to kind words and understanding. You won\u2019t be used to being treated with respect. Your voice will actually matter for the first time in a long time. <\/span><\/p>\n

It will take a while for you to relax and trust this person. But that won\u2019t matter as he will wait for you. He will give you space to heal. He will help you heal.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>To Her Current Narcissistic Boyfriend \u2013 If I Were You I Would Never Hurt Her<\/a><\/p>\n

You will be waiting for the perfect storm. You will be waiting for him to lose it at anytime. You know your ex was nice and loving when he wanted to be\u2014when you didn\u2019t complain and did everything his way. You are scared this guy is the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma sapete una cosa? La tempesta perfetta non arriver\u00e0 mai. Non \u00e8 lo stesso.     <\/span><\/p>\n

Nessuno ti dice mai quanto sia incasinato sopravvivere a tutto questo. Nessuno ti dice mai che questa \u00e8 la parte pi\u00f9 difficile. Nessuno ti dice mai che guarire fa male; fa un male cane. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many things you won\u2019t be told. You\u2019ll have to fight for yourself. You\u2019ll have to put yourself first. You\u2019ll have to cry. You\u2019ll have to hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma guarirete. Migliorerete.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No one ever tells you this. No one warns you. They all have something to say while you\u2019re in this kind of a relationship, but they all keep quiet when you break free from one. It\u2019s not that easy. One should expect happiness and joy. No one expects fear, confusion, and the inability to continue…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":7100,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/morgan-sessions-6256.jpg",800,567,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7082"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7082\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}