{"id":7084,"date":"2017-10-18T14:01:20","date_gmt":"2017-10-18T14:01:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7084"},"modified":"2022-02-27T11:05:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T11:05:53","slug":"tornare-con-il-proprio-ex-la-scelta-giusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tornare-con-il-proprio-ex-la-scelta-giusta\/","title":{"rendered":"A volte, tornare con il proprio ex \u00e8 la scelta giusta da fare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ho sempre pensato che quando una relazione finisce, \u00e8 finita. Il cuore non potr\u00e0 mai essere riparato e le parole non potranno pi\u00f9 essere dette. \u00c8 quello che \u00e8: la fine dell'amore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">E fa male. Fa male da morire quando si ha qualcosa con qualcuno che passa cos\u00ec raramente che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-voglio-lasciarmi-andare\/\">you just don\u2019t want to let go<\/a>. Tra voi due \u00e8 scattata una sorta di chimica e siete entrati in sintonia.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The more time you spent together, the better time you had. Nobody could understand you like he did. Nobody&#8217;s message would lift you on cloud nine like his. Nobody could hug you like that and make all of your troubles leave. Nobody made such a huge impact on your life in such a short time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><strong>E per qualche ragione sconosciuta, ha deciso di andarsene. Ha deciso di andarsene e non c'\u00e8 stato nulla da fare.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You didn\u2019t want to let go but You had no other choice. Love is made for two. Two to love. Two to make efforts. Two willing to fight. Two willing to stay. You wanted him so badly but you couldn\u2019t be the only one to hold on.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Ci \u00e8 voluto tanto tempo per rimettersi in piedi e raccogliere i pezzi rotti della propria anima. Ci \u00e8 voluto tanto tempo per lasciar andare tutti i \"e se\". \u00c8 stato difficile andare avanti con la tua vita senza una chiusura. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Ma in qualche modo, con il tempo, ce l'hai fatta.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Vi siete concentrati su voi stessi. Hai iniziato a costruire la tua vita da zero. Ti sei rafforzato dal dolore che il cuore spezzato porta con s\u00e9. E in qualche modo i sentimenti hanno cominciato lentamente a svanire, o almeno cos\u00ec pensavate.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And then your&nbsp;phone lit up with his name, begging you to talk to him. Your body trembled&nbsp;from the shock.&nbsp; You didn\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>You couldn\u2019t even think straight because all the love and all the pain filled you from the inside again. And it took you by surprise because you had no idea they were still there.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-29794 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/chad-madden-445638-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/chad-madden-445638-unsplash.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/chad-madden-445638-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/chad-madden-445638-unsplash-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You decided to ignore him. You didn\u2019t want him to disturb your peace with his poor words and insecurities. You didn\u2019t want the same fire that burned your heart to burn it again. You were running as far away from him as you could.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But he knew that the only way to get you back was to be persistent. So he didn\u2019t give up until you answered. He wanted to see you he wanted to explain why he did what he did, he just wanted a chance to talk to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">E alla fine hai ceduto. Gli hai dato retta.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>And you knew his words were honest. He knew you were the one from the first moment he saw you, he just wasn\u2019t ready and that scared him to death.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Era dispiaciuto di averti ferito, potevi vedere il rimpianto nei suoi occhi, potevi vedere la disperazione perch\u00e9 ti aveva perso. Tutto ci\u00f2 che voleva era un'altra possibilit\u00e0 per rimediare a tutti gli errori e per dimostrarvi che ora \u00e8 un uomo diverso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Voleva dimostrarle che era maturato. Voleva recuperare tutto il tempo perduto. Ma tutto dipendeva da lei.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">E a prescindere da ci\u00f2 che gli hai detto, nel profondo sapevi che gli avresti dato una possibilit\u00e0 dal momento in cui l'avessi rivisto, anche se hai cercato di mettere da parte quel sentimento.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You couldn&#8217;t believe what was happening, it was like you were subconsciously waiting for him to come back into your life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Alla fine lo avete perdonato. Ha messo in pratica le sue parole. Ha dimostrato di essere degno di una seconda possibilit\u00e0. Ha lavorato a lungo e duramente per riconquistare la vostra fiducia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And you just knew you were willing to take all the risks because with him you had something that couldn&#8217;t be explained with words. You felt that by his side is where you need to be. You felt like home.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You decided to follow your heart wherever it might lead you&#8230; and it turned out that it was the right choice to make.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Perch\u00e9 capita a volte, ma non molto spesso, che l'amore se ne vada proprio perch\u00e9 \u00e8 sempre stato destinato a tornare.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always thought that when a relationship ends, that\u2019s it. The heart can never be repaired and words can\u2019t be unspoken. It is what it is \u2013 the end of love. And it hurts. It hurts like hell when you have something with someone that comes by so rarely that you just don\u2019t want to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":30515,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7084","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sahin-yesilyaprak-1206991-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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