{"id":7108,"date":"2020-08-19T12:09:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T12:09:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7108"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:04:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:04:28","slug":"la-bellezza-di-dire-addio-a-qualcuno-che-lamore-non-lo-merita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-bellezza-di-dire-addio-a-qualcuno-che-lamore-non-lo-merita\/","title":{"rendered":"La bellezza di dire addio a qualcuno che si ama ma che non lo merita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b> Forse non volete davvero dirvi addio. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Maybe you\u2019d wanted it to last. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/hard-leave-one-love\/\">Gli addii sono sempre difficili<\/a>Soprattutto quando si devono dire a qualcuno che si ama di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto quando si deve dire addio a qualcuno con cui si \u00e8 iniziato a immaginare il proprio futuro molto tempo fa.<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes letting go and saying goodbye hurts, but it hurts less than something that can\u2019t really be anymore.<\/p>\n<p><b> Forse volevate continuare a farlo a prescindere da tutto. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even though they never said the vows, for you, it was for better or for worse. You probably wouldn\u2019t have left for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the type of person who never leaves. You always give second chances because you like to believe that people are good, somewhere deep down.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t only give second chances to people you love, you keep giving as many chances as you can until you\u2019re all worn out.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma a volte la vita si mette in mezzo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-106466\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una bella donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-woman.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes life doesn\u2019t allow you to do toxic things to yourself. Life saves you from your biggest love, because even though it is love, it\u2019s not right for you.<\/p>\n<p>Non avresti mai potuto lasciare la presa. Non avresti mai potuto dire addio. Cos\u00ec la vita ti ha fatto dire addio alla persona che amavi di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p><b> And although goodbye hurts, sometimes it\u2019s inevitable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No matter how much you love, sometimes holding on hurts more than letting go. Often you don\u2019t really see what\u2019s bad for you.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of how much you hate it, you\u2019re going to have to get through it. No matter how much gut-wrenching pain you feel after it, it\u2019s going to go away. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Perch\u00e9 in ogni addio deve esserci un nuovo ciao.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>People often say that if someone you love is taken away from you, it\u2019s because you deserve something greater than you wish for or than you already have.<\/p>\n<p>If you let go of that feeling you have now, if you give yourself enough time to get over a loss you have gone through, you\u2019ll be able to open your eyes and see the good things that you deserve to have in life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll get something or someone that will make your life more beautiful, better and more like yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-sarebbe-piu-difficile-addio-se-si-conoscesse-lincontro-preferito-ciao\/\">Non saresti stato il mio addio pi\u00f9 difficile se avessi saputo che avrei incontrato il mio saluto preferito<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Quindi, salutatevi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-106467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/the-blonde-breaks-up-with-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"la bionda rompe con il fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/the-blonde-breaks-up-with-her-boyfriend.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/the-blonde-breaks-up-with-her-boyfriend-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/the-blonde-breaks-up-with-her-boyfriend-768x508.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/the-blonde-breaks-up-with-her-boyfriend-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let go, even if it hurts. Forget even if you don\u2019t want to.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-lottare-per-lui-e-andarsene\/\"> Smettete di litigare<\/a> for something that you can\u2019t have. Stop holding onto someone who isn\u2019t good for you.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever scares you now is much less scary than being with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you. Love can\u2019t be the only thing that makes you stay, because you deserve much more.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve respect, you deserve admiration and you deserve someone who\u2019ll love you as much as you love him. If you\u2019re not getting all of this, you love is all in vain.<\/p>\n<p><b> Lasciarsi andare. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Forget about what you want and think about what you deserve. Forget about what you love and think about what\u2019s good for you.<\/p>\n<p>Because you\u2019ll love again. Only this time it won\u2019t be toxic for you. Only this time you won\u2019t be the one loving more. Unrequited love isn\u2019t romantic, so stop romanticising it. Get the love you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><b>Years from now you\u2019ll thank yourself for doing the right thing.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-106468 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Beauty-Behind-Saying-Goodbye-To-Someone-You-Love-But-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-It-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La bellezza di dire addio a qualcuno che si ama ma che non lo merita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Beauty-Behind-Saying-Goodbye-To-Someone-You-Love-But-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-It-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Beauty-Behind-Saying-Goodbye-To-Someone-You-Love-But-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-It-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Beauty-Behind-Saying-Goodbye-To-Someone-You-Love-But-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-It-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Beauty-Behind-Saying-Goodbye-To-Someone-You-Love-But-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-It-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Beauty-Behind-Saying-Goodbye-To-Someone-You-Love-But-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-It-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you don\u2019t really want to say goodbye. Maybe you\u2019d wanted it to last. Goodbyes are always hard, especially when you have to say them to somebody who you love the most. Especially when you have to say goodbye to someone you started picturing your future with a long time ago. But sometimes letting go&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7108","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7108","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7108"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7108\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7108"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7108"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7108"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}