{"id":71410,"date":"2020-05-13T15:47:57","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:47:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=71410"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:50:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:50:02","slug":"essere-single-non-potra-mai-causare-tanta-solitudine-quanto-essere-in-una-relazione-sbagliata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-single-non-potra-mai-causare-tanta-solitudine-quanto-essere-in-una-relazione-sbagliata\/","title":{"rendered":"Essere single non pu\u00f2 mai causare tanta solitudine quanto essere in una relazione sbagliata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perch\u00e9 essere single \u00e8 considerato il massimo della solitudine, quando una relazione sbagliata porta molta pi\u00f9 solitudine?<\/span><\/p>\n

Essere soli non significa essere soli.<\/b> Mi spiego meglio.<\/span><\/p>\n

A few weeks ago I met my high school friend for coffee. I knew she was still single and I was kind of expecting her to be looking for love and honestly, a part of me thought she still didn\u2019t have it all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho pensato a tutte le notti di solitudine che passa da sola, desiderando di avere qualcuno con cui condividere la sua vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Boy was I wrong. We reconnected and have been meeting occasionally and every single word I\u2019ve heard come out of her mouth proved to me just how happy and fulfilled her life is.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 una donna forte, agguerrita e senza paura, che ha guardato la vita negli occhi e ha deciso di non accontentarsi di niente di meno di quello che merita.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She is content with being who she is and doesn\u2019t need a man to prove her worth, especially not the wrong man.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deciding to never let anyone mess with her head and draw her into a vicious cycle of lying, ignoring and cheating was the best choice she\u2019s ever made.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi ha dimostrato che essere single non ha nulla a che fare con la solitudine. <\/span><\/p>\n

I have so many other friends who are in relationships that do them no good. Aren\u2019t they more lonely than she is?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hanno partner che prestano poca attenzione a loro e alle loro esigenze. Ufficialmente stanno con qualcuno, ma in realt\u00e0 sono cos\u00ec soli.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being with a person who doesn\u2019t know how to make you happy or, even worse, doesn\u2019t at all care about making you happy is the loneliest a person can ever be.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, avete una relazione e le cose dovrebbero essere perfette perch\u00e9 avere una relazione significa avere una persona con cui parlare, una persona che si prende cura di voi, una persona che vi ama, vi rispetta e vi ama.<\/span><\/p>\n

Purtroppo, molte persone vivono una relazione sbagliata. Molti si rimproverano di volere molto di pi\u00f9 dal proprio partner, pensando di essere emotivamente avidi, mentre in realt\u00e0 i loro bisogni non vengono mai soddisfatti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every single one of us has a right to love and be loved in return. What happens when the person who\u2019s supposed to love us does everything but?<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s still hard for me to understand why but I can see clearly now that there are very few couples who are just right for each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

I get it. You\u2019re alone. Ti senti solo<\/a>. Pensate che ogni affetto umano e ogni piccola attenzione siano meglio di niente. Il tempo passa e le briciole d'amore che il vostro partner vi d\u00e0 vi fanno sentire pi\u00f9 soli che mai.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You make yourself believe that you\u2019re the one asking too much. It\u2019s easier for you to think that you only need to wish for less and you\u2019ll be happier with what you\u2019ve got.<\/span><\/p>\n

This concept works when it comes to material things\u2014be happy with what you\u2019ve got. When it comes to love, this can never be the case.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meritate di essere amati perfettamente. Meritate di essere amati con passione. Meritate di avere un partner che abbia paura di perdervi. <\/b><\/p>\n

You deserve to have a partner who will only have eyes for you. You deserve to have a partner whose love for you will be bigger than anything else he\u2019s ever felt.<\/b><\/p>\n

Non dovete avere paura di essere single. Dovreste avere paura di essere soli. <\/b>Being in a relationship doesn\u2019t guarantee the loneliness goes away.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to be single. It\u2019s more than okay, it can be perfect for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Datevi la possibilit\u00e0 di trovare la persona giusta. Nel frattempo godetevi la vostra compagnia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Essere single \u00e8 sempre meglio che avere una relazione sbagliata.<\/b> Vi d\u00e0 l'opportunit\u00e0 di conoscere meglio voi stessi, di godervi il tempo con i vostri amici, di imparare che la vostra felicit\u00e0 viene da dentro.<\/span><\/p>\n

No one will ever be able to fill every little hole in the story of your life, you\u2019re the only one who can do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stop losing time feeling abandoned while you\u2019re officially taken and know you should be cherished. Don\u2019t let your fear of loneliness in the single life stop you from giving yourself a chance to have a life you deserve. <\/span><\/p>\n

Leave. You don\u2019t belong there.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve already reached the worst level of loneliness in your bad relationship, you can only go up from here.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Essere<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why is being single considered to be the loneliest a person can be when being in the wrong relationship brings you so much more loneliness? Being lonely is so not about being alone. Let me explain. A few weeks ago I met my high school friend for coffee. I knew she was still single and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":71411,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Being-Single-Can-Never-Cause-As-Much-Loneliness-As-Being-In-The-Wrong-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71410"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71410\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}