{"id":71428,"date":"2020-05-13T15:49:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=71428"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:40","slug":"differenze-tra-vero-amore-e-attaccamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/differenze-tra-vero-amore-e-attaccamento\/","title":{"rendered":"7 differenze principali tra il vero amore e l'attaccamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si parla di relazioni oggi, molte persone confondono l'amore con l'attaccamento a un'altra persona. Tuttavia, la differenza tra queste due cose \u00e8 enorme.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 amare veramente qualcuno senza essere legati a quella persona. Tuttavia, a volte l'amore pu\u00f2 <\/span>portare all'attaccamento<\/span><\/a> e questi sentimenti contrastanti possono diventare cos\u00ec confusi.<\/span><\/p>\n

First, you should know that true love will never make you feel anxious and depressed. That right kind of love \u2013 pure and true love \u2013 feels easy and it makes you feel good all the time.<\/b><\/p>\n

True love is hard to find, but once you do, you’ll never let it go.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s why it’s so easy to mistake attachment for love. It also makes you feel good because your partner is fulfilling all your needs, but you’ll see that it’s not going to last.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, come si pu\u00f2 sapere se si prova vero amore o se si \u00e8 solo attaccati al proprio partner?<\/span><\/p>\n

1. L'amore \u00e8 incondizionato, l'attaccamento \u00e8 tutto una questione di condizioni.<\/h2>\n

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Una persona che vi ama veramente vi amer\u00e0 sempre allo stesso modo, a prescindere da tutto. Non se ne andr\u00e0 mai, per quanto difficile sia la situazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

True love is loving someone without expecting anything in return. It’s when you love someone without any limitations and boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you accept someone for who they are \u2013 even fall in love with their imperfections.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it’s the only way love should feel. While on the other hand, attachment is quite the opposite. You set many boundaries for your partner. You have conditions they need to follow.<\/span><\/p>\n

You start stalking them on social media because you don’t want them to communicate with other people and you start deciding they can and cannot hang out with.<\/span><\/p>\n

La vostra relazione diventa tossica, con tanti confini e limiti.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. L'amore \u00e8 altruista, l'attaccamento \u00e8 egoista<\/h2>\n

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When you truly love someone, you’ll do whatever it takes to make that person happy, because <\/span>la loro felicit\u00e0 \u00e8<\/span><\/a> per voi pi\u00f9 importanti dei vostri. I loro bisogni e il loro benessere diventano la priorit\u00e0 assoluta.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re attached to someone, however, everything revolves around you. You become dependent on your partner. And you’re in the relationship just to meet your own needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Love helps you grow, attachment won’t encourage your personal development<\/h2>\n

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When someone truly loves you, they’ll support you in everything you do. They’ll inspire you to follow your dreams. They’ll constantly make you work on yourself to become the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being attached to someone makes you feel afraid of that person’s growth. You’re scared that it can make them rethink your relationship and that they might leave you.  <\/span><\/p>\n

4. L'amore \u00e8 infinito, l'attaccamento \u00e8 temporaneo<\/h2>\n

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Il vero amore \u00e8 eterno. La persona giusta ti fa sentire cos\u00ec bene e tutto ci\u00f2 che riesci a pensare \u00e8 di voler passare il resto della tua vita con quella persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se di tanto in tanto litigate (il che \u00e8 perfettamente normale), sapete che nulla pu\u00f2 separarvi.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, when we get emotionally attached to someone, it happens too easily, and that’s why it can’t last. You become bored with that relationship, and the feeling of attachment can fade surprisingly fast.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. L'amore ti rende una persona migliore, l'attaccamento ti rende superficiale<\/h2>\n

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When you’re in love, you become more understanding, gentle, and thoughtful. It’ll have a positive effect on your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

You’ll have a more optimistic perspective. It’ll also motivate and inspire you to work on yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

On the flip side, you get attached to someone only because you see certain benefits from that relationship. It’s all about what your partner can do for you; you don’t care about their needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s shallow and it’s going to affect all your future relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. L'amore ti accetta cos\u00ec come sei, l'attaccamento tenta di cambiarti<\/h2>\n

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Una persona che vi ama veramente vi amer\u00e0 cos\u00ec come siete. Accoglier\u00e0 tutte le vostre imperfezioni e vi amer\u00e0 ancora di pi\u00f9. Non cercher\u00e0 mai di cambiare nessuna parte di voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re emotionally attached to someone, you’ll try to change all the parts of them that you don’t like. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll try to change them in a way that will make you happy, because in the end, you being happy is all that matters.   <\/span><\/p>\n

7. L'amore \u00e8 fare compromessi, l'attaccamento \u00e8 mettere sempre le proprie esigenze al primo posto.<\/h2>\n

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When you fall in love with someone, you learn to make compromises. It’s the foundation of every healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

You want to make your partner happy and that means that you’ll have to swallow your pride sometimes and put your partner\u2019s needs ahead of your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you’re merely attached to someone, <\/span>si vuole controllare<\/span><\/a> that person and that’s why you’re never prepared to find the middle ground on anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Affezionarsi a qualcuno pu\u00f2 riempire il vuoto della propria vita, ma non potr\u00e0 mai rendere veramente felici.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Ma l'amore \u00e8 l'emozione pi\u00f9 speciale e potente che rende la vita migliore in ogni modo possibile.<\/b><\/p>\n

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When it comes to relationships today, many people confuse love with being attached to another person. Although, the difference between those two is huge. You can truly love someone without being attached to that person. However, sometimes love can lead to attachment and those mixed feelings can become so confusing. First, you should know that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":71429,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/7-Major-Differences-Between-True-Love-And-Attachment.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71428"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71428\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}