{"id":7186,"date":"2017-10-20T09:53:26","date_gmt":"2017-10-20T09:53:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:06:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:06:42","slug":"ragazzo-ha-insegnato-lamore-non","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazzo-ha-insegnato-lamore-non\/","title":{"rendered":"A colui che mi ha insegnato cosa non \u00e8 l'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per giorni ho riflettuto sulla mia mente, alla ricerca di un motivo per cui tu avessi scelto non<\/em> di amarmi.<\/p>\n

Mesi di risentimento, amarezza e rabbia hanno corroso il mio spirito gentile. Tante domande senza risposta mi hanno tenuto sveglio tutti<\/strong><\/em> notte.<\/p>\n

My pillow soaked with tears, my heart absolutely broken. Anxiety crept in like a thief in the middle of the night, ready to take all that I felt was left of me. I couldn’t keep carrying this unnecessary baggage.<\/p>\n

These feelings weren\u2019t right. It didn\u2019t have to be this way. I didn\u2019t have to be like this, controlled by my thoughts.<\/p>\n

You see, it wasn’t until I finally realized that what I had let consume my mind would always seize to control my life, that I then understood I could set my own self free.<\/p>\n

Libero dalle bugie che mi avevano immobilizzato per tanto tempo. Libero dai ricordi dolorosi che mi erano rimasti impressi.<\/p>\n

Libera dal desiderio di essere accettata. Ora potevo lasciare andare quel bagaglio, che non avrebbe pi\u00f9 avuto la capacit\u00e0 di dettare la mia giornata, il mio futuro, la mia vita.<\/p>\n

Liberarmi \u00e8 stato scegliere me stessa. Quindi, ho scelto di prendere queste circostanze sfortunate e di lasciare che mi rafforzino invece di abbattermi.<\/p>\n

Scelgo di godersi la vita<\/a> di nuovo e di vedere il mio valore. Scelgo di amarmi, di rispettare i miei valori e di stabilire i miei standard.<\/p>\n

You walking out of my life was the best thing that could have happened to me at the time. It gave me a chance of a fresh start and it helped me realize that I didn\u2019t need what I had thought for so long that I had wanted.<\/p>\n

I was good enough for me and in all honesty\u2026 too good for you.<\/p>\n

Yet, in the midst of all this\u2026 I forgive you. Not because you deserve it but because Merito della pace<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

I deserve to move on with my life, wholeheartedly accepting my mistakes. No – forgiveness does not excuse your behavior, but it allows me to guarire dal mio passato.<\/a><\/p>\n

If it wasn\u2019t for your pride and how you treated me, I may never have realized just how much worthier of love I was.<\/p>\n

Yes, I should have never caved into my own insecurities but you didn’t have to manipulate me, either. You did effortlessly anyway and that’s okay.<\/p>\n

Quindi, in tutta sincerit\u00e0, vi ringrazio per aver portato alla luce tutto questo. Per avermi aperto gli occhi sulla verit\u00e0, anche se era difficile da accettare. Non sar\u00f2 mai pi\u00f9 accecata dall'amore, grazie a queste lezioni che ho imparato dal mio dolore.<\/p>\n

From the bottom of a heart that’s mending itself.
\nGrazie.<\/p>\n

by\u00a0A.L.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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