{"id":72035,"date":"2020-05-20T11:09:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:09:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72035"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:32:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:32:21","slug":"la-tua-partenza-e-stata-la-cosa-migliore-che-mi-sia-capitata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-tua-partenza-e-stata-la-cosa-migliore-che-mi-sia-capitata\/","title":{"rendered":"Finalmente ho capito che la tua partenza \u00e8 stata la cosa migliore che mi sia successa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ero distrutta quando mi hai lasciato. Quel giorno rimarr\u00e0 impresso nella mia memoria per sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

I remember my friend telling me that your leaving was the best thing that could\u2019ve happened to me. Her words pierced through my heart.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Come ha potuto dirlo, anche se intendeva confortarmi? Sapeva cosa eri per me e quanto ti amavo.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'ho fatto davvero. Ti ho amato pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro, pi\u00f9 di qualsiasi altra cosa al mondo. In realt\u00e0, tu eri tutto il mio mondo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I think I loved you from the very first day we met, even though I didn\u2019t want to admit it to myself.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non avrei mai immaginato che un amore del genere potesse accadere a me. Mi sono innamorata di te cos\u00ec ciecamente e follemente. Anzi, mi hai fatto innamorare di te cos\u00ec profondamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con quel tuo stupido sorriso, mi hai fatto innamorare di te a prima vista.<\/span><\/p>\n

Oh mio Dio, sono stata cos\u00ec sciocca e ingenua. Non riuscir\u00f2 mai a perdonarmi per averti fatto entrare nella mia vita. Mi sento come se il mio <\/b>il cuore spezzato \u00e8 stata colpa mia<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Many people tried to warn me that you weren’t being sincere with me. They tried to tell me that you\u2019d only hurt me. But I never doubted your love. I always trusted you and your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why did I do that? I thought that they were just being jealous. That they didn\u2019t want me happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec ho scelto di non parlare pi\u00f9 con loro. Ho pensato che volessero separarci e li ho cancellati dalla mia vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thought that we had something real and sincere and that’s why it was so easy for me to fight for that love. I was convinced that you were my soulmate and that we\u2019d be together forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forever. One small word but it means so much. Well, for some people it does. You should look for its meaning in a dictionary because obviously, you don’t know it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forever doesn’t mean until someone better comes along. It means being there for someone for the rest of time. Being with someone until death do you part.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Il mio errore \u00e8 stato <\/span>credendo che tu mi amassi<\/span><\/a> e di innamorarmi cos\u00ec tanto di te. Il mio errore \u00e8 stato quello di farti diventare una priorit\u00e0 quando sono sempre stata la tua ultima scelta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il mio pi\u00f9 grande errore \u00e8 stato quello di escludere dalla mia vita le persone che si preoccupavano solo di me e volevano aiutarmi. Ed \u00e8 stato tutto a causa tua. Perdonare se stessi \u00e8 davvero il tipo di perdono pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Capisci? Era tutto incentrato su di te. Tu, tu, tu. Eri l'unica persona importante per me. Eri il mio tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you came back to ask for a second chance, because you obviously understood what you\u2019d lost, you said that you loved me and that I was important to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sorry but it’s impossible for me to trust you when you never proved it.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the past, I trusted your words but now I realize that words without actions are meaningless. Oh and about that second chance… You don’t deserve it and you will never get it from me.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all this time, I’ve finally understood what my friend meant when she said that your leaving was the best thing that could happen to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi sono reso conto che in realt\u00e0 mi hai fatto un <\/span>favore lasciandomi<\/span> <\/a>e che dovrei ringraziarla per questo.<\/span><\/p>\n

I loved you too much and I would never be able to leave you, even though deep down, I knew that I should. However, you ended things for both of us and I’m glad it’s all over. <\/span><\/p>\n

You asked me if I hated you. No. I don’t hate you and I never will. One day, you’ll realize that I’m the one who was always there for you but it’s always going to be too late for us now. I hope you’ll be able to forgive yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

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