{"id":7228,"date":"2020-08-20T12:39:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-20T12:39:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7228"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:01:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:01:05","slug":"non-le-hai-lasciato-altra-scelta-se-non-quella-di-rinunciare-a-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-le-hai-lasciato-altra-scelta-se-non-quella-di-rinunciare-a-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Non le hai lasciato altra scelta se non quella di rinunciare a te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ti ha dato tutto quello che aveva. E tu cosa hai fatto? Non le hai dato assolutamente nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n<p>You used her trust so many times that she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. It was impossible. You failed. You failed hard.<\/p>\n<p>Ti \u00e8 sfuggito il fatto che ha fatto il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba per te. Ogni volta.<\/p>\n<p>Sposterebbe le montagne per voi. Avrebbe preferito te a se stessa ogni volta. E nonostante ci\u00f2, non le hai dato nulla.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not a surprise she had to give up on you. You know that she did all the work in your relationship. She was the one who kept it alive.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like you were just a coincidental spectator instead of a main actor in the whole thing. Why would anybody take that?<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ti ha dato tutte le attenzioni e l'affetto che aveva. Si \u00e8 assicurata che tu avessi tutto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Vi ha salutato con un bacio quando siete usciti di casa e comunque l'avete messa per ultima. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sapeva-che-lultimo-bacio-era-piu-forte\/\">Non ha mai ricevuto un bacio d'addio.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113150\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste sdraiata sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You took advantage of her kindness. You spat on her kind words and loving gestures because you didn\u2019t respect her.<\/p>\n<p>You should have taken her in your arms and never let her go. That\u2019s how she treated you. And you deserved none of it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>She never met a person more selfish than you. How could you let yourself lose the one thing that made you a better man &#8211; her?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Slowly, you were becoming her burden. She could no longer carry you on her back. Her bones started to crack. She couldn\u2019t take it.<\/p>\n<p>Although she kept giving you second chances, you kept blowing them off. You destroyed them one by one and you wouldn\u2019t stop because you were sure you\u2019d get another chance.<\/p>\n<p>You knew she was good-hearted and she wouldn\u2019t leave you just like that and unfortunately, you took advantage of that.<\/p>\n<p>She would give up on you, though, because you gave her more sadness than happiness. That\u2019s the kind of life she didn\u2019t want to live.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even sadder is that she actually thought for a second that all of this was her fault. She thought she hadn\u2019t had enough patience and understanding for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113151\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con camicia di jeans\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siete voi che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/screw-making-think-shes-unlovable-one\/\">made her think she wasn\u2019t good enough. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Era cos\u00ec coraggioso e sicuro di s\u00e9. Pensavi davvero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-tu-pensavi-che-non-se-ne-sarebbe-mai-andata-ma-indovina-cosha-fatto\/\">she didn\u2019t have the guts to leave you<\/a>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pensavate davvero che lei avrebbe continuato a darvi delle possibilit\u00e0. Eri davvero cos\u00ec sicuro di te? Beh, avresti dovuto ripensarci.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because, this time it was, \u201cBye-bye, see ya never!\u201d She had been putting up with you up until this point.<\/p>\n<p>She now won\u2019t be giving you any more shots because she knows you don\u2019t want to change. You don\u2019t want to grow and mature. She doesn\u2019t need that by her side.<\/p>\n<p>Ti ha abbandonato perch\u00e9 eri uno stronzo che la dava per scontata e pensava di farla franca.<\/p>\n<p>All you gave her were empty words and false promises which didn\u2019t mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>Non pi\u00f9. Si \u00e8 fidata completamente di te e tu l'hai delusa. Non hai fatto altro che deluderla, ancora e ancora.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul divano a pensare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She gave up on you because she didn\u2019t have a choice. You took her to a dead-end street.<\/p>\n<p>L'hai messa alle strette e lei non aveva altra scelta che andarsene. Ti ha dato il tempo di rimetterti in sesto.<\/p>\n<p>She had warned you several times that things weren\u2019t going to work this way.<\/p>\n<p>Ma tu hai dato per scontate le sue parole e le sue azioni e hai continuato a fare le cose di testa tua senza consultarla, o senza consultare nessuno.<\/p>\n<p>Non hai fatto alcuno sforzo per far funzionare voi due, eppure ti piaceva stare con lei. Come potevi aspettarti qualcosa di pi\u00f9 di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/finalmente-si-e-allontanato\/\">che si allontana?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the grown-up world, things don\u2019t function the way you think they should.<\/p>\n<p>Nel mondo degli adulti, ci vogliono molti sacrifici e rinunce per migliorare una relazione e rendere pi\u00f9 felice il proprio partner. In altre parole, bisogna essere in due per ballare il tango.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113153\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con gli occhiali seduta alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She gave up because she realized that she mattered. She won\u2019t be spending her life on losers and idiots like you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She won\u2019t be spending her life on someone who isn\u2019t worthy of her. Even if she loves you still, she won\u2019t be doing the same old things to herself anymore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Finalmente metter\u00e0 se stessa al primo posto perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2 farlo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ha finalmente capito che pu\u00f2 trovare qualcun altro che la ami come merita.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 trovare qualcuno che la tratti come lei tratta lui.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 trovare qualcuno che sia alla sua altezza.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to give up on you, but you gave her no other choice.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ti-vuole-piu-indietro\/\">She\u2019s sorry, but goodbye<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113149\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non le hai lasciato altra scelta se non quella di rinunciare a te\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She gave you all she had. And what did you do? You gave her absolutely nothing in return. You used her trust so many times that she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. It was impossible. You failed. You failed hard. You missed the fact she went the extra mile for you. Every single time. She would&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":113154,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7228","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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