{"id":7233,"date":"2017-10-20T12:36:34","date_gmt":"2017-10-20T12:36:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7233"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:04:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:04:40","slug":"meritano-che-lamore-rimanga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/meritano-che-lamore-rimanga\/","title":{"rendered":"Meritate un amore che rimanga"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La vita ha giocato con te. La vita ti ha fatto fare la figura dello stupido.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate tutte quelle notti insonni in cui vi rotolavate nel vostro letto, coperti di sudore freddo e incapaci di calmare la mente. I pensieri correvano all'impazzata, rendendovi irrequieti.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kayla-diebold\/2017\/04\/to-the-ex-that-wants-my-forgiveness-this-is-what-you-can-do-for-me\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Ricordate tutta l'infelicit\u00e0 e il dolore che vi ha causato<\/a> by trying to be something that he wasn\u2019t, someone you deserve.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ricordate tutte quelle notti in cui avete bagnato il cuscino con le vostre lacrime e avete urlato il vostro cuore nella solitudine delle vostre quattro, fredde e strette mura. Diventavano sempre pi\u00f9 piccole a ogni urlo successivo.<\/p>\n<p>No one ever heard your cries or saw your pain. Only you know what you\u2019ve been through. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t give up under the temptation of getting back to him. Sure, now it seems to you that you\u2019ve made a mistake. It\u2019s not a mistake.<\/p>\n<p>You are just remembering only the good things that the two of you shared. You\u2019ve forgotten the bad things that happened. And there were a lot more bad things than good ones. You forgot that.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Things won\u2019t get better if you fail to resist and go back to him. It will be the same, if not even worse.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/experts\/janet-ong-zimmerman\/how-get-him-back-without-being-needy-and-desperate-expert\" rel=\"noopener\">Vuoi tornare da lui<\/a> perch\u00e9 siete abituati ad averlo con voi. Se portate in tasca un sassolino per qualche giorno e lo perdete, vi mancher\u00e0 perch\u00e9 vi siete abituati ad averlo con voi.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t go back to him because you deserve so much more than he is and more than he gives you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Meritate di essere amati incondizionatamente.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve being treated hot and cold. You don\u2019t deserve him being all over you one day, and the next he couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n<p>Ti meriti baci e abbracci all'improvviso. Ti meriti che ti tenga per mano e ti baci ovunque tu sia. Meriti che ti mostri al mondo.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rania-naim\/2016\/11\/you-deserve-to-remember-how-it-feels-to-be-loved\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Meritate di essere amati<\/a> come avresti dovuto essere fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve someone who\u2019ll pretend he\u2019s there for you and who will bail on you when things get rough. You don\u2019t deserve someone who is unworthy of your love.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve to be left alone like a stray dog on the street &#8211; so sad and so alone.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Meritate qualcuno che guarisca le vostre ferite e ripari il vostro povero cuore spezzato. Meritate qualcuno che vi ricordi cos'\u00e8 il vero amore.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7238 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1.jpg\" alt=\"Meritate un amore che rimanga\" width=\"800\" height=\"591\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1-300x222.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1-768x567.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve someone who keeps breaking your heart. Someone who makes you cry. Someone who you waste your tears on.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve someone who made you doubt love. Someone who made you doubt its existence. Someone who made you doubt people. Someone who made you trust no one.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back\" rel=\"noopener\">You don\u2019t deserve someone<\/a> che ti ha trasformato da un essere umano amorevole in una roccia fredda e priva di emozioni.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dovete sapere e capire che siete una creatura bellissima. Siete belli con i vostri difetti e tutto il resto. C'\u00e8 qualcuno l\u00e0 fuori che vedr\u00e0 questa vostra bellezza e che far\u00e0 voto di amarvi per sempre.<\/p>\n<p>You are a mess &#8211; a beautiful mess. Your heart is broken and your mind is collapsing, but you hang in there. You are able to carry it all out. You are able to confront it and live with it. And despite all that, you are still beautiful.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The love you had was unrequited. You know that love hurts. You just have to keep on fighting and you will make it. You have to look like you are fine when we all know you aren\u2019t. But pretending is what keeps you going. Pretending is what makes it easier for you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>But before you do anything, you have to learn or at least remind yourself how to love yourself again. Nothing is as important as that. You have to respect yourself and learn how to be alone. Because at the end of the day, you don\u2019t need anybody. You were born alone and you will die alone.<\/p>\n<p>Devote time to yourself. Do things you\u2019ve been wanting to do for a long time. Say no to everyone else\u2019s needs. Now, it\u2019s time to take care of you.<\/p>\n<p><em>Meritate di essere felici.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Meritate di essere amati ogni singolo giorno.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Meritate l'amore incondizionato di un uomo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Merita di non provare mai pi\u00f9 tanto dolore.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Vi meritate tutto.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life played a game on you. Life made you look like a fool. Remember all those sleepless nights while you were rolling around your bed, covered in cold sweat and unable to settle down your mind. Thoughts were running wild, making you restless. Remember all that misery and pain he caused you by trying to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":7237,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7233","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547.jpg",800,591,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7233"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7233\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}