{"id":72353,"date":"2020-05-20T11:21:57","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:21:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72353"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:36:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:36:23","slug":"si-e-rivelato-essere-tutto-cio-che-aveva-detto-che-non-sarebbe-stato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/si-e-rivelato-essere-tutto-cio-che-aveva-detto-che-non-sarebbe-stato\/","title":{"rendered":"Si \u00e8 rivelato tutto ci\u00f2 che aveva detto di non essere"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si \u00e8 una persona che d\u00e0 il massimo per la persona che ama, si sa quanto sia doloroso perderla a causa di una fiducia infranta.<\/span><\/p>\n

A relationship is about working on something together. That\u2019s the only thing I wanted. Someone I could count on to have my back and make me feel safe and happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Volevo che il mio uomo fosse una base solida su cui costruire la mia vita. Volevo avere un amante e un amico nella stessa persona. Volevo amarlo come nessun altro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inutile dire che sono rimasto deluso quando non \u00e8 successo nulla di tutto ci\u00f2.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'uomo che pensavo di conoscere non era affatto come diceva di essere.<\/span><\/p>\n

He made me believe he was the one for me. He took extra steps to ensure I fell for him hard. He made me believe he loved me… and that was the scariest part because I believed\u2014and he lied.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I was the most vulnerable with a man who used me. I opened my heart to someone who didn\u2019t care about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ho mai capito perch\u00e9 siamo attratti da cose e persone che fanno il contrario di ci\u00f2 che vogliamo. \u00c8 per imparare a conoscere le cose che ci mancano?<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever the reason, I still can\u2019t believe I ever believed his lies and helped him build his fake world with himself as the center while everyone else, including me, was orbiting around his needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

So gi\u00e0 che mi ci vorr\u00e0<\/span> anni<\/span><\/i> per iniziare a fidarmi degli uomini e persino di me stesso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi ci \u00e8 voluto un po' di tempo per capire tutti i giochi mentali che faceva con me e i modi in cui mi ingannava. Con il passare del tempo, me ne rendo conto ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Il modo in cui ha reso tutti i suoi difetti colpa mia \u00e8 stata una delle bugie pi\u00f9 convincenti che ha usato.<\/span><\/p>\n

Metteva piccole frazioni di verit\u00e0 in grandi bugie e mi faceva credere a ogni parola. Mi faceva dubitare della mia sanit\u00e0 mentale, accusandomi di cose che non avevo mai fatto.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Invece di proteggermi, \u00e8 diventato qualcosa di cui avevo paura.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how bad my experiences were, I still think about him because I can\u2019t wrap my head around the fact that what I thought of him and what he really is isn\u2019t the same person.<\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t help but feel sad over losing something that, in reality, never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando ho capito cosa stava succedendo, era gi\u00e0 troppo tardi. Ero abbastanza innamorato da farmi spezzare il cuore.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho spezzato il mio cuore credendo in qualcuno<\/a> who didn\u2019t care. I gave my everything to a person who never even wanted to stick around.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio guarire il mio cuore e andare avanti con la mia vita. Voglio credere di nuovo che gli uomini buoni e onesti esistono.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio trovare un uomo che mi dimostri che tutto quello che mi \u00e8 successo era solo una prova e una lezione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un giorno sar\u00f2 in pace con tutto ci\u00f2 che mi \u00e8 successo. So che tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo avr\u00e0 un senso.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to become one of those people who closes their heart forever after a heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to give up on myself because I deserve better. I deserve to be loved by someone who will accept me as I am and build his life on trust in his partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

I deserve to be loved by the right person who won\u2019t make me feel smaller.<\/span><\/p>\n

Soprattutto, merito di essere amata da me stessa. Rivoglio me stessa. Voglio che lei viva la sua vita senza paura, soprattutto con le persone che ama.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life should be big, bold, and beautiful and there\u2019s no way of getting that without letting go of all the past hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let go of everything that made you think you\u2019re not worthy of a good life and start believing in yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Embrace the pain that led you to growth and start your life over, knowing you\u2019ll win every struggle life puts you through because you\u2019ve got nothing to lose once you finally have yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re a person who gives their all to the person they love, you know how painful it is to lose that person because of broken trust. A relationship is about working on something together. That\u2019s the only thing I wanted. Someone I could count on to have my back and make me feel safe…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":72363,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/He-Turned-Out-To-Be-Everything-He-Said-He-Wouldnt-Be.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72353"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72353\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72363"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}