{"id":72474,"date":"2020-05-20T11:24:50","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:24:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72474"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:06:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:06:47","slug":"so-di-essere-un-custode","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/so-di-essere-un-custode\/","title":{"rendered":"So di essere un custode, ho solo bisogno di essere amato in modo diverso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono una persona che \u00e8 stata ferita. Succede a molte persone, ma non tutti decidono di affrontare le proprie paure e dare di nuovo una possibilit\u00e0 all'amore.<\/span><\/p>\n

After being manipulated, rejected, and lied to, I wanted to give up on love. But I didn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

As crazy as it seems, all those negative experiences have made me believe there\u2019s more to life than pain. Through every painful situation, I\u2019ve grown stronger.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tante volte mi sono convinta che qualcosa fosse giusto per me, per poi scoprire che era qualcosa che volevo per i motivi sbagliati e di cui non avevo mai avuto bisogno.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m proud of my ability to learn from my mistakes. I\u2019m proud of myself for never giving up on people despite the things they did to me. Including my past lovers.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to let it break me. I want to stay vulnerable and love again because I know I deserve love.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I know how much I can love somebody else too. All this pain has made me understand every little thing in life even more. I don\u2019t want to let my love go to waste.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing is \u2013 I will need a special person who will understand me and have the patience I need.<\/span><\/p>\n

So how does one go about loving a person that\u2019s been hurt? There are a few things to keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lasciatemi il tempo necessario per guarire. <\/b>Healing is a process, and for most people, it doesn\u2019t end in a moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes it takes years, but that doesn\u2019t mean it should make our relationship any worse.<\/span><\/p>\n

The process of healing is great for knowing each other on a deep level. When you\u2019re faced with a person\u2019s deepest fears and accept them nevertheless, that\u2019s when you know you love them for real.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fatemi sapere che mi ascoltate. <\/b>L'ascolto \u00e8 cos\u00ec importante per le persone che sono state costantemente messe da parte. Ho bisogno di sapere che vi preoccupate per me.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s one of the easiest ways to show a person you care for them \u2013 just listen to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Siate onesti con me. <\/b>Anyone who\u2019s been lied to knows the struggle of trusting again. I promise I won\u2019t compare you to him, just be honest with me at all times.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need for white lies either, everything can be understood when said with respect.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ditemi spesso le cose che amate di me. <\/b>I don\u2019t want to come off as needy, but just saying out loud what you already think will make a big difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

I will feel safer and happier. Talking about feelings isn\u2019t going to make you seem weak. On the contrary, it will make you more attractive. There\u2019s nothing more attractive than a guy who openly loves his girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho bisogno che siate pazienti. Vi prometto che ne varr\u00e0 la pena. <\/b>If you see me going through some tough period, don\u2019t run away. That\u2019s the time I need you the most.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you stick with me when I\u2019m going through my worst, I will stick with you forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to make me be something I\u2019m not.<\/b> Accettatemi cos\u00ec come sono. Disordinata, emotiva, a volte spaventata, ma sempre pronta ad amare.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what happens, I will always love being human \u2013 that means I will allow myself to feel everything I need to feel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti permetter\u00f2 sempre di essere tutto ci\u00f2 che hai bisogno di essere anche tu. Insieme possiamo affrontare ogni paura e lotta e rendere il nostro legame cos\u00ec forte da durare per sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Accettare il mio passato e lasciarlo dov'\u00e8.<\/b> I\u2019m content with my past and I don\u2019t want to change it. You shouldn\u2019t be upset with it either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every day is a new day, and we\u2019re changing and evolving all the time. That\u2019s why we should focus on our future.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I want is the purest and deepest kind of love you can only find in girls who suffered the most \u2013 girls like me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ora voglio essere la ragazza che ama di pi\u00f9. Voglio essere quella che terrai per sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"So<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m someone who\u2019s been hurt. It happens to a lot of people, but not everybody decides to face their fear and give love a chance again. After being manipulated, rejected, and lied to, I wanted to give up on love. But I didn\u2019t. As crazy as it seems, all those negative experiences have made me…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":72491,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72474","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Know-Im-A-Keeper-I-Just-Need-To-Be-Loved-A-Little-Differently.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72474"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72474\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72491"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}