{"id":7290,"date":"2020-10-23T13:06:09","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T13:06:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7290"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:13:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:13:20","slug":"meritate-qualcuno-che-vi-ami-anche-nei-giorni-piu-bui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/meritate-qualcuno-che-vi-ami-anche-nei-giorni-piu-bui\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi meritate qualcuno che vi ami anche nei vostri giorni pi\u00f9 bui"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>\u00c8 facile amare qualcuno quando \u00e8 buono con te. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to love people that love you. It\u2019s so easy to fall for someone who gives you the best of themselves and is there for you whenever you need it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s never a problem to love somebody who\u2019s laugh is contagious or who\u2019s never moody or depressed.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the easiest thing in this world to love someone who takes care of you\u2014who you can always count on, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma nessuno \u00e8 sempre rose e fiori. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>The person who hasn\u2019t seen the dark days doesn\u2019t exist. The person that always has things turning out the way she\/he wants doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t a person in this world that life hasn\u2019t put a weight on.<\/p>\n<p>So, when somebody tells you they love you and you\u2019ve only shown them your good days, it\u2019s not love\u2014it\u2019s the illusion of love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117061\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si guarda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-looking-at-one-another-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve someone who\u2019ll understand your mundane side. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Loving you on your best days will never be a problem for anybody. Loving you when you\u2019re smiling, loving life and seizing the day will be the easiest thing there is.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody\u2019s gonna want to be with you in those days.<\/p>\n<p>Ma non tutti restano quando le cose si fanno difficili. Non tutti saranno dentro o accanto a voi quando la vita decider\u00e0 di buttarvi gi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve someone who\u2019ll understand your mundane side and decide to stay. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>What many people fail to understand is that life must get rough at some point. Things must turn around and you\u2019ll probably fall a few times before you shine.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just the way the things roll and you can hardly do much to change it\u2014except to accept it and make the best of it.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste perdere il lavoro. La depressione pu\u00f2 arrivare con tutte le sue valigie e trasferirsi nella vostra testa senza il minimo segno di andarsene.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117063\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo barbuto che abbraccia e sostiene una giovane donna triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bearded-man-hugging-and-supporting-young-sad-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can lose somebody who\u2019s close to your heart or simply you can get fed up with the life you\u2019re living now and wish to have more. As a matter of fact, anything can happen.<\/p>\n<p>It might stop you from being the kindest person and make you forget how happy you once were. The shiny days might disappear one day and all that you\u2019ll be left with is darkness.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s ok, we\u2019ve all been there at least once.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma dovete capire che solo coloro che vi sono accanto nelle notti pi\u00f9 buie sono quelli con cui vale la pena trascorrere i giorni pi\u00f9 luminosi. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Hopefully, in those darkest moments, you\u2019ll see who\u2019s \u2018your person\u2019. In those darkest moments, you\u2019ll be able to differentiate between those who love the i<i>dea<\/i> di voi e di coloro che vi amano.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 chi vi ama veramente per quello che siete, che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/persona-tirata-al-buio\/\">amore anche nei giorni pi\u00f9 bui<\/a>, are those who\u2019ll stay\u2014and that\u2019s who you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve someone who\u2019ll see your dark side and decide to stay. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you feel the least attractive in your life, you deserve to have someone who\u2019ll see you as the most beautiful person in this world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117066\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia seduta e abbracciata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-couple-sitting-and-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019ll see your brokenness and who won\u2019t run away. You deserve someone who\u2019ll see your cracks and not think of them as ugly but as spaces to pour his love into.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who won\u2019t expect you to be perfect, but who\u2019ll accept you together with all of your imperfections and love you despite everything.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who won\u2019t believe you when you say you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019ll kiss your insecurities goodbye and who\u2019ll make you regret doubting yourself.<\/p>\n<p>When your depression comes swimming to the surface, you deserve someone who won\u2019t see you as crazy.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who won\u2019t leave you to drown, but someone who teaches you how to swim again.<\/p>\n<p>When you decide to give up, you deserve someone who\u2019ll push you forward. And when you decide to push him away, you deserve someone who\u2019ll push back and fight to stay.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019ll know that you don\u2019t really want him to go, but somehow you\u2019re doing irrational stuff, so he\u2019ll decide to just wait till the storm goes away.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117065\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sulla riva del fiume\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-the-riverbank-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019ll love the mundane you. Someone who\u2019ll understand that you had a rough day or week. Someone who\u2019ll understand you don\u2019t feel like getting out of bed.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who gets that you just don\u2019t feel like dressing up, straightening your hair and putting up your makeup on, but still see you as pretty as if you\u2019re ready for a Friday night at the club.<\/p>\n<p>You truly deserve somebody who\u2019ll love the messy you as much as the \u2018brightest days\u2019 you. Because only then you\u2019ll know that the love is complete.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/man-left-thank-staying\/\">All'uomo che avrebbe dovuto andarsene: grazie per essere rimasto<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>And when you\u2019re the most difficult to love, you deserve someone who\u2019ll love you the hardest. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t settle for less. Wait for somebody who\u2019ll love you for who you are, not an illusion of you.<\/p>\n<p>Wait for someone who\u2019ll ease your dark days and with whom you\u2019ll look forward to the bright ones.<\/p>\n<p>This guy exists and one day, if you don\u2019t settle, you\u2019ll meet him. Wait for this guy because one day you\u2019ll be happy that you did.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117059\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Deserve-Someone-Who-Is-Going-To-Love-You-Even-In-Your-Darkest-Days-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Vi meritate qualcuno che vi ami anche nei vostri giorni pi\u00f9 bui\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Deserve-Someone-Who-Is-Going-To-Love-You-Even-In-Your-Darkest-Days-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Deserve-Someone-Who-Is-Going-To-Love-You-Even-In-Your-Darkest-Days-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Deserve-Someone-Who-Is-Going-To-Love-You-Even-In-Your-Darkest-Days-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s easy to love someone when they\u2019re good to you. It\u2019s easy to love people that love you. It\u2019s so easy to fall for someone who gives you the best of themselves and is there for you whenever you need it. It\u2019s never a problem to love somebody who\u2019s laugh is contagious or who\u2019s never&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":117064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Deserve-Someone-Who-Is-Going-To-Love-You-Even-In-Your-Darkest-Days-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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