{"id":72987,"date":"2020-05-13T15:55:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:55:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72987"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:34","slug":"segni-che-siete-sposati-con-una-moglie-egoista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-siete-sposati-con-una-moglie-egoista\/","title":{"rendered":"13 sfortunati segni di matrimonio con una moglie egoista"},"content":{"rendered":"

According to most marriage advice, selflessness is a crucial part of every healthy relationship and good marriage. However, more and more marriages and relationships face the same problem\u2014the problem of a selfish wife or a selfish husband.<\/p>\n

A selfish wife is one who only looks after her own needs and is interested in her own life. One who rarely takes her husband’s feelings into consideration, who wants everything to go her way and who thinks that the world revolves around her.<\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? Well, in that case, you should definitely check out these unpleasant signs that you have a selfish wife, which will also help you understand how to deal with a selfish partner.<\/p>\n

1. Si aspetta che voi siate sempre presenti per lei, ma non vi ricambia mai il favore.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In un matrimonio sano, \u00e8 naturale che marito e moglie siano presenti l'uno per l'altra, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

After some years of marriage, you two become one another\u2019s migliori amici<\/a> e il pi\u00f9 grande sostegno in salute e in malattia, nei giorni buoni e in quelli cattivi, proprio come dicono le vostre promesse nuziali.<\/p>\n

However, in your marriage, things don\u2019t actually work that way. In fact, when you have a selfish spouse, she expects you to always be there for her but the first time you ask her to return the favor, she denies you it.<\/p>\n

Vuole che la ascoltiate, che la spingiate avanti, che la ispiriate e che crediate in lei. Soprattutto, questa donna vuole che le asciughiate le lacrime, che le facciate tornare il sorriso e che le diate il sostegno di cui ha bisogno.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, she never treats you the same. In fact, when you\u2019re going through any kind of trouble, she is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n

Il tuo partner egoista<\/a> non \u00e8 l\u00ec per confortarvi, essere il vento sotto le vostre ali o una spalla su cui piangere, e sono chiari segni di egoismo.<\/p>\n

2. Si preoccupa solo dei propri bisogni<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Dare la priorit\u00e0 a se stessi \u00e8 fantastico e non \u00e8 in alcun modo una forma di comportamento egoistico, anche dopo anni di matrimonio. Mettere la propria felicit\u00e0 al primo posto \u00e8 qualcosa che dovremmo fare tutti.<\/p>\n

However, you and your wife are now a team and you should be united. You\u2019re equal partners in crime and nobody is more important than the other. At least, that is how things should be.<\/p>\n

Well, if you\u2019re dealing with a selfish wife, her needs will always come before yours. Her satisfaction and pleasure are the most significant things in the world, while yours don\u2019t even matter.<\/p>\n

Selfish wives don’t care about how their husband feels. They’re not interested in their well being and all they care about is themselves.<\/p>\n

3. She doesn\u2019t take responsibility<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ogni relazione \u00e8 una strada a doppio senso. Significa che entrambe le persone coinvolte devono cercare di farla funzionare. \u00c8 impossibile che una delle due parti si prenda tutta la colpa e sia sempre colpevole per le cose che accadono.<\/p>\n

That is exactly what\u2019s happening in your married life; you\u2019re always the one your wife blames for literally everything that\u2019s not perfect or okay.<\/p>\n

Questa donna non si assume mai la responsabilit\u00e0 delle sue parole e delle sue azioni. Al contrario, lei ti illumina con il gas<\/a> into thinking that you\u2019re guilty, even when she\u2019s the one who made a mistake.<\/p>\n

When your wife apologizes, she doesn\u2019t do it sincerely from the heart. Somehow, she always finds a way to tell you that you provoked her into treating you badly or that you\u2019re the cause of her toxic behavior.<\/p>\n

All of this is a sign that this woman doesn\u2019t actually care much about your feelings and that she is the selfish partner here. She is obviously playing with your subconscious, trying to make you look like the bad guy at all times, even though the truth is much different.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fool yourself by thinking that she doesn\u2019t see how things really are. She is perfectly aware that she also carries a part of the responsibility for bad things going on in your marriage but she deliberately chooses not to.<\/p>\n

4. She doesn\u2019t listen to you<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Has it ever happened to you that you feel like your spouse doesn\u2019t pay any attention whatsoever to the things you\u2019re saying? That she actually doesn\u2019t put any effort into understanding your points of view and getting to the bottom of your personality, despite the fact that she is your life partner?<\/p>\n

Well, in that case, I\u2019m sorry to break it to you but you\u2019re dealing with a selfish wife. You have a wife who doesn\u2019t give a damn about what you have to tell her, who doesn\u2019t even try to understand you and who is always too busy to hear you out.<\/p>\n

When you come to think about it, you have pretty poor communication in your marriage and mostly, it\u2019s your wife\u2019s fault. She is the one who doesn\u2019t take your opinion into consideration and who never stops for a minute just to hear you out.<\/p>\n

5. She doesn\u2019t take part in your interests<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Lei e sua moglie siete due persone distinte. Solo perch\u00e9 siete diventati una coppia sposata<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean that you ceased to exist as two different people.<\/p>\n

However, when you love someone, you\u2019ll try your best to be included in their life. You\u2019ll put an effort into liking the things they like, just to have something in common to share.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, your wife doesn\u2019t take part in your interests at all. She refuses to get involved in something you enjoy doing, even though she knows it would make you happy.<\/p>\n

For her, it is too much of a sacrifice to watch an action movie for the sake of your love, even if she prefers romantic comedies, to accompany you to a concert of your favorite band even if she doesn\u2019t enjoy listening to them or to watch a football match with you every once in a while.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014nobody is asking her to change her tastes in music, movies or food. However, it would be nice of her to make some compromises because of you.<\/p>\n

6. \u00c8 prepotente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you\u2019re the type of guy who likes dominant women. You don\u2019t feel threatened if you have a wife who knows what she wants from life and who doesn\u2019t hesitate to take it, and also who is completely indipendente .<\/a><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 completamente diverso quando \u00e8 autoritaria e ti d\u00e0 ordini, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 una cosa che fanno solo gli egoisti.<\/p>\n

Ever since you two got married, she\u2019s been ordering you around. Everything has to be her way and she expects you to blindly obey her and follow her instructions.<\/p>\n

The moment you do something she doesn\u2019t like, problems arise. It appears that she only loves you until you allow her to treat you like her subordinate.<\/p>\n

This woman doesn\u2019t understand that a happy marriage is all about equality. She doesn\u2019t let you take part in the decision-making process when it comes to your life and acts like she owns you or as if you’re her doormat.<\/p>\n

Compromise is an unknown word to this woman. She wouldn\u2019t make one step toward meeting you halfway even if her life depended on it.<\/p>\n

7. She threatens to leave when things don\u2019t go her way<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest; in every marriage and romantic relationship there comes a moment when one of you threatens to leave in the heat of an argument.<\/p>\n

Ad un certo punto, si pensa che il proprio la relazione non ha futuro<\/a> and you\u2019re so angry that you see walking away as the best option you have.<\/p>\n

However, things like these escalate too often in your married life. In fact, your wife emotionally blackmails you. She threatens to leave you every time something doesn\u2019t go the way she wanted or planned and that is anything but a happy marriage.<\/p>\n

In sostanza, vi sentite senza speranza e non vedete alcuna via d'uscita. Se le dite la vostra opinione, che non coincide con la sua, probabilmente chieder\u00e0 il divorzio.<\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, se volete mantenere il vostro matrimonio, non avete altra scelta che essere d'accordo con lei. Lasciate che vi dica che questa non \u00e8 altro che una forma di manipolazione.<\/p>\n

8. Il suo ego viene prima di tutto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

All of us should have our pride and work hard to keep our dignity. However, love should always be above these things; of course, that\u2019s if we\u2019re talking about true love.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s not how your wife rolls. In fact, she is a self-centered person who puts her ego above your marriage and above the alleged feelings she has for you.<\/p>\n

When you two argue, she doesn\u2019t care about reaching a final conclusion. She is not interested in making your fights productive; she is only interested in proving her point and coming out of all of your arguments right and undefeated.<\/p>\n

Looking at things from this perspective, you\u2019ll admit that for your selfish wife, her ego is more important than you and the future of your marriage.<\/p>\n

9. \u00c8 finanziariamente irresponsabile<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Probabilmente entrambi avete un lavoro e delle fonti di reddito proprie, il che \u00e8 ottimo. Dopotutto, ogni persona al mondo dovrebbe essere finanziariamente indipendente, indipendentemente dal suo stato civile.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re no longer dating. From the day you got married, you both agreed to share a life together. Not only that\u2014you live in the same household as well. Therefore, it would be logical that you share both your incomes and costs.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, sua moglie \u00e8 incredibilmente irresponsabile quando si tratta di questioni finanziarie. Si comporta come se i suoi soldi fossero solo suoi, mentre il vostro stipendio deve essere condiviso e speso insieme tra voi due.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014nobody is claiming that your wife shouldn\u2019t have her own money. However, it is certainly not fair that she expects you to cover all the expenses of your marriage while she wastes her entire paycheck on herself, as if you don\u2019t exist and as if you two are not family members.<\/p>\n

Ad esempio, in casa ci sar\u00e0 sempre denaro sufficiente per i suoi desideri. Lei ha il diritto di viziarsi, mentre voi dovrete arrangiarvi con i soldi rimasti.<\/p>\n

10. She doesn\u2019t appreciate you<\/h2>\n

\"fidanzata<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re involved with a real woman, she\u2019ll know how to appreciate everything you do for her.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that she has to be eternally grateful for the fact that you\u2019re a buon marito<\/a> but she\u2019ll certainly respect all the sacrifices you make for the sake of your marriage and everything you do to make her happy.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, your wife is selfish because she takes you for granted. She doesn\u2019t appreciate you and acts as if she\u2019s not happy to have such a great man like you by her side.<\/p>\n

11. Prende tutte le decisioni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Selfishness, the same way as selflessness, can sometimes be seen in little, seemingly irrelevant things. One of the signs that your spouse is selfish is that they\u2019re the one making all the choices and decisions about your life together.<\/p>\n

For example, you two always go on vacation to the places she wants to visit. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you prefer the mountains over the seaside; you\u2019ll always put your desires aside, try your best to please her and do things her way.<\/p>\n

The same goes for some everyday stuff. You\u2019ll always spend your free time the way it suits her the best, you\u2019ll go to the restaurants where she likes to eat and you\u2019ll sleep together whenever she is in the mood.<\/p>\n

12. Non si avvicina mai a te per primo dopo un litigio<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tutte le coppie litigano. In effetti, quando si sposarsi<\/a>, di solito iniziate a litigare pi\u00f9 spesso di quando eravate solo in una relazione.<\/p>\n

Quindi, il punto sul suo egoismo non sta nel fatto che voi due litigate. Il punto \u00e8 che lei non si avvicina quasi mai a te per prima dopo qualsiasi disaccordo che avete avuto.<\/p>\n

You might not notice this at first but if you look at things a little deeper, you\u2019ll come to the conclusion that your selfish wife actually almost never made the first step toward your reconciliation. It\u2019s like she could stay mad at you forever or continue giving you the silent treatment for the rest of your lives.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019re always the one who apologizes and who tries to make things work.<\/p>\n

13. She doesn\u2019t do any work around the house<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

In a good marriage, both partners share their duties around the house. The time when it was only a woman’s job to go to the grocery store, cook and clean for the entire family while a man was there to financially provide for them, are luckily long gone.<\/p>\n

However, just because you two are equals and because you’re not a selfish man who treats his wife like a personal servant or a doormat, it doesn’t mean that it’s okay for her not to do any work around the house.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, la vostra moglie egoista si comporta per la maggior parte del tempo come se fosse un'ospite in un hotel di lusso. Si aspetta che sia tu a sbrigare tutte le faccende domestiche, a sistemare le cose in casa, a comprare il cibo al supermercato, a cucinare il pranzo e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

Se avete figli, la situazione \u00e8 pi\u00f9 o meno la stessa quando si parla di co-genitorialit\u00e0<\/a> as well. It doesn’t have to mean that she completely disregards your children but the fact is that you do much more as their father than her as their mother.<\/p>\n

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