{"id":73239,"date":"2020-05-22T11:24:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:24:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=73239"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:58:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:58:20","slug":"non-puoi-controllare-chi-ti-manca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-puoi-controllare-chi-ti-manca\/","title":{"rendered":"Non potete controllare chi vi manca, ma potete controllare chi c'\u00e8 nella vostra vita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando <\/span>miss someone you know you shouldn\u2019t<\/span><\/a>, you can\u2019t help but feel guilty.<\/span><\/p>\n

After everything this person has done to you and after all the pain they\u2019ve caused you, it\u2019s natural that you want them out of your life and system as soon as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo vale per tutti coloro che vi hanno abbandonato e soprattutto per i vostri ex fidanzati. Dopo tutto, erano gli uomini con cui volevate condividere la vostra vita e le persone che amavate di pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo vale per tutti quei ragazzi che vi hanno spezzato il cuore, che vi hanno illuso o che si sono allontanati da voi senza voltarsi indietro.<\/span><\/p>\n

For all the guys who didn\u2019t want to label your relationship, who ghosted you, and who left you hanging.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or are we talking about a specific man? A man you can\u2019t get out of your head, as much as you try?<\/span><\/p>\n

In ogni caso, il risultato finale \u00e8 lo stesso: <\/span>You feel like by missing him, you\u2019re betraying yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019re giving him even more power over your heart and soul. You\u2019re giving him meaning and purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve kicked him out of your life, so why can\u2019t he be gone from your heart, as well?<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you that weak that you don\u2019t have the ability to see things clearly and to stop missing someone who doesn\u2019t deserve your attention?<\/b><\/p>\n

La risposta \u00e8: s\u00ec. In realt\u00e0 lo siamo tutti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Non esiste persona al mondo che possa controllare chi ama e chi gli manca. Chiunque sostenga il contrario sta mentendo.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, you\u2019re not an exception. Remember: <\/span>you\u2019re a human being made of flesh and blood \u2013 not a robot who can be programmed and whose emotions can be switched off and on.<\/b><\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s perfectly natural that you can\u2019t control your thoughts and feelings and that you don\u2019t have the capacity to order your heart and mind around. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ci\u00f2 che potete controllare \u00e8 chi pu\u00f2 far parte della vostra vita. Potete controllare chi ha accesso a voi e chi viene onorato dalla vostra presenza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Potete controllare a chi dedicate il vostro tempo, la vostra energia e la vostra pazienza.<\/span><\/p>\n

In pratica, <\/span>what I\u2019m trying to say is that you should stop blaming yourself for <\/b>mancanza di qualcuno<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that sometimes you feel crazy and you can\u2019t believe that you still have feelings for the man who has hurt you so much.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s completely normal to feel this way. In fact, most women go through the same thing after a devastating breakup.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Fidatevi di me quando vi dico che tutto questo fa parte della vostra guarigione. Si tratta solo di una fase del processo di avanzamento.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t put yourself down for all the overwhelming emotions you feel. Don\u2019t burden yourself for feeling the way you do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of seeing yourself as a weak woman, be proud of your strength. Be proud that you have the power to resist your urges, instincts, and heart\u2019s desires.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re not allowing this man back in your life, despite the fact that you miss him, are you? You\u2019re not giving him a second chance, even though there are times when you feel like you\u2019ll die without him by your side. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not on this man\u2019s doorstep, begging him to come back, despite the devastating pain that\u2019s been killing you from the inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not letting him see what an <\/span>naufragio emotivo<\/span><\/a> e non gli stai dando la soddisfazione di sapere che provi ancora qualcosa per lui.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 questo il coraggio. Questo \u00e8 il significato di forza interiore: lottare con se stessi ogni singolo giorno e vincere ognuna di queste difficili battaglie. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, keep on missing him \u2013 nobody can deny you that right. Miss the man and love him for as long as you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t repress your emotions and don\u2019t pretend that they don\u2019t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Imparate a convivere con loro e, non appena lo farete, vi prometto che se ne andranno. Non appena smetterete di scappare dai vostri demoni, vi prometto che smetteranno di inseguirvi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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