{"id":73791,"date":"2020-05-22T11:41:30","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:41:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=73791"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:02:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:02:01","slug":"preferisco-essere-una-donna-selvaggia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/preferisco-essere-una-donna-selvaggia\/","title":{"rendered":"Preferisco essere una donna selvaggia che sprecare la mia vita per essere falsa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cDon&#8217;t compromise yourself &#8211; you&#8217;re all you have.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 John Grisham<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d rather accept myself with all my flaws than wait for a man to validate me.<\/p>\n<p>If a man repeatedly puts me down \u2013 why should I stay? Why should I spend my precious time believing what someone else says about me?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 qualcun altro si sente in diritto di dirmi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fottere-la-sensazione-di-non-essere-abbastanza\/\">I\u2019m not good enough<\/a>?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to smile because you think I should, I don\u2019t want to make myself smaller so you don\u2019t feel threatened. I don\u2019t want to run around, play by your rules, and stroke your ego.<\/p>\n<p>I am what I am and if you can\u2019t handle me \u2013 I\u2019m not the one for you. I refuse to settle just because everyone else says<\/p>\n<p>Dovrei avere paura della solitudine.<\/p>\n<p>I have so much more to give and to live for. I feel good in my own skin and it\u2019s because I know what I\u2019m capable of.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73796\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sexy-woman-in-blue-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna sexy in top blu con capelli biondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sexy-woman-in-blue-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sexy-woman-in-blue-top-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sexy-woman-in-blue-top-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nei momenti in cui pensavo che non mi sarei mai rimessa in piedi, ho spinto e vissuto come se non fosse successo nulla. Ho trasformato il mio dolore in saggezza. Questo richiede coraggio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t go through all that pain just to settle for someone who doesn\u2019t even recognize my value. No, I\u2019d rather stay wild.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My soul can\u2019t stand being fake because I\u2019m true to myself. What makes me a great woman is what\u2019s unique to <em>me.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am free because I embraced my power \u2013 I embraced everything that makes me me. I know my worth.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not searching for another half. I am a whole person with or without you.<\/p>\n<p>Once my heartfelt at peace with itself, there was nothing that could stop me. I couldn\u2019t be tamed by other people\u2019s expectations and fears.<\/p>\n<p>Remember: the things others say about you don\u2019t matter because they don\u2019t really care. Why should you care about the opinion of someone who has nothing to do with your life?<\/p>\n<p>Wild women are focused on their paths because they\u2019ve learned that in order to have power, they have to take it. No one can do it for them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73811\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/portrait-of-sexy-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di giovane donna sexy con i capelli soffiati\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/portrait-of-sexy-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/portrait-of-sexy-young-woman-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/portrait-of-sexy-young-woman-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>So, take your power back. Remind yourself of all the times you thought you weren\u2019t good enough and apologize to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Non scambiate mai l'autoironia per umilt\u00e0 e l'egoismo per ambizione.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not selfish to care for yourself and live the life you want. You don\u2019t live for other people; you live for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You don\u2019t need someone who will be attracted to your fire and love only until you threaten his ego with your independence.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What you want is a brave man. Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to fall in love with all of you: the tenderness and the madness. A man to fall in love with your soul before your face.<\/p>\n<p>A man who can be completely honest with you, someone you can trust with all your soul, someone who can stand the fact that you\u2019re a woman who knows what she brings to the table \u2013 and that\u2019s exactly why she\u2019s not afraid to be alone.<\/p>\n<p>A man who feels confident by your side. Someone who\u2019s a match for your energy. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a wonderful human being who\u2019s worthy of all the beautiful things that are waiting for you to claim them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scegliete di essere il vostro migliore amico, scegliete di salvare una vita: la vostra vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73814\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-sweet-couple.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice dolce uomo che si gode l&#039;estate\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-sweet-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-sweet-couple-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-sweet-couple-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing more fulfilling than living life with confidence and feeling content with every decision you make \u2013 and that only comes from being authentic.<\/p>\n<p>You can always listen to your heart and know what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n<p>Clear the path between your heart and your mind. Start by forgiving yourself and thanking yourself for everything you\u2019ve done to be where you are now.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste your precious life on anything that doesn\u2019t deserve your attention: especially not society\u2019s standards and men with weak egos.<\/p>\n<p>Be yourself every step of the way and watch yourself flourish into the person you\u2019ve always wanted to be.<\/p>\n<p>Siate voi stessi, anche se questo significa essere <em>selvaggio<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019d-Rather-Be-A-Wild-Woman-Than-Waste-My-Life-On-Being-Fake-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Preferisco essere una donna selvaggia che sprecare la mia vita per essere falsa\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019d-Rather-Be-A-Wild-Woman-Than-Waste-My-Life-On-Being-Fake-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019d-Rather-Be-A-Wild-Woman-Than-Waste-My-Life-On-Being-Fake-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019d-Rather-Be-A-Wild-Woman-Than-Waste-My-Life-On-Being-Fake-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019d-Rather-Be-A-Wild-Woman-Than-Waste-My-Life-On-Being-Fake-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDon&#8217;t compromise yourself &#8211; you&#8217;re all you have.\u201d \u2015 John Grisham I\u2019d rather accept myself with all my flaws than wait for a man to validate me. If a man repeatedly puts me down \u2013 why should I stay? Why should I spend my precious time believing what someone else says about me? Why does&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":73817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-73791","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019d-Rather-Be-A-Wild-Woman-Than-Waste-My-Life-On-Being-Fake.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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