{"id":7392,"date":"2019-10-25T10:26:46","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T10:26:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7392"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:21:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:21:10","slug":"grazie-per-avermi-spezzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grazie-per-avermi-spezzato\/","title":{"rendered":"Grazie per avermi spezzato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Credo che dovrei ringraziarti per avermi trattato come hai fatto. Perch\u00e9 ora so come merito di essere trattata. Mi merito un uomo che mi ascolti. Un uomo che non scherzi sui miei difetti solo perch\u00e9 lo fa ridere.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve a man who will respect me. I deserve someone who will be there. I deserve someone who will kiss my tears away\u2014not make me cry.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for cheating on me\u2014multiple times. Now I know that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/segni-che-non-sei-uno-che-non-ha-colpa\/\">Non essere abbastanza per te non \u00e8 mai stata colpa mia.<\/a> And thank you for leaving me for one of them\u2014not sure which one. It saved my life.<\/p>\n<p>I should also thank you for not loving me. Now I love myself the way you never could. I love the sound of my laugh\u2014the one you hated. You said I sounded like a starting engine. I love my scars, because they tell the story that I survived. You said they were ugly, that I should cover them. I love my freckles, my weird toes and stretch marks. I love my imperfect body perfectly.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per essertene andato quando avevo bisogno di te. Mi ha insegnato <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/what-it-means-to-really-take-care-of-yourself\/\" rel=\"noopener\">come prendermi cura di me stesso.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>E infine, grazie per essere stata la cosa peggiore che mi sia mai capitata. Grazie per avermi insegnato com'\u00e8 fatta una relazione tossica. Grazie per avermi fatto a pezzi, solo per permettermi di rialzarmi e di amare ogni parte di me che si \u00e8 spezzata.<\/p>\n<p>I was ashamed for so long, ignoring everything you did to me. Hiding from my family, my friends\u2014just trying to hide the fact that I stayed in such a relationship for so long. But not anymore. I am not ashamed I stayed. I am not ashamed that I trusted you and loved you with all my heart. I\u2019m just ashamed that it took me so long to understand this.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I guess I should thank you for treating me the way you did. Because now I know how I deserve to be treated. I deserve a man who will listen to me. A man who will not make jokes about my flaws just because it makes him laugh. 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