{"id":7421,"date":"2020-07-25T10:56:52","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T10:56:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7421"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:29:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:29:06","slug":"ho-finito-di-aspettare-di-essere-qualcuno-per-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ho-finito-di-aspettare-di-essere-qualcuno-per-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Sono stufo di aspettare di essere \"qualcuno\" per te"},"content":{"rendered":"

La parte peggiore della vita \u00e8 l'attesa. La parte migliore della vita \u00e8 avere qualcuno per cui valga la pena aspettare. <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Il mio caro qualcuno,<\/p>\n

Non sono mai stata una ragazza che affretta le cose. Ho sempre creduto che le cose belle richiedessero tempo.<\/p>\n

Sapevo che le cose che si aspettano a lungo finiscono per essere le pi\u00f9 preziose. Credo che sia stata proprio l'attesa a renderle speciali e preziose.<\/p>\n

Sai, non ho mai avuto paura di aspettare. Credevo nella bellezza dell'attesa. <\/b><\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 non ho capito che avrei potuto essere in attesa di qualcuno e di qualcosa che molto probabilmente non sarebbe mai accaduto.<\/a> <\/b><\/p>\n

E non c'\u00e8 niente di bello nell'aspettare qualcosa che non \u00e8 mai arrivato.  <\/b>I\u2019m sorry, but giving me just your crumbs wouldn\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

I am not the type of girl who is satisfied with the bare minimum. If I am ready to give you all of me, I\u2019d expect nothing less in return.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

E anche se con te ho sempre portato il mio cuore sulla manica e tu sapevi da che parte stavi con me, io non ho mai saputo da che parte stavo con te.<\/p>\n

Quando si ama, bisogna assicurarsi che l'altra persona conosca le cose che si vogliono e che siano in cima alla lista delle priorit\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I don\u2019t think I ever made it to your list to begin with.<\/b><\/p>\n

You held me at arm\u2019s length and that\u2019s exactly where you wanted me to be. Just close enough for you to reach me when you needed me and far enough for me to not be able to get too close to you.<\/p>\n

Vedi il problema ora?<\/p>\n

If by now you can\u2019t wrap your mind around what you did wrong, then I have no problem pointing out the obvious:<\/p>\n

Volevo che tu scegliessi me.<\/b><\/a> I had no desire to be \u2018another fish in the sea\u2019. I didn\u2019t want to be anybody, Volevo davvero essere qualcuno per te.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ho aspettato e aspettato che tu facessi uno sforzo, che mi dimostrassi che mi vedevi per quello che ero e ho aspettato che tu mi scegliessi. Come se stessi aspettando Godot.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

No matter how much I was told waiting for you was in vain, I wasn\u2019t gonna listen. <\/b><\/p>\n

I guess I wasn\u2019t ready to let you go. I wasn\u2019t ready to free myself from the idea of what we could\u2019ve been. <\/b><\/p>\n

Avevo scolpito nella mia mente l'idea di me e te insieme e di questo perfetto desiderio che io fossi davvero qualcuno per te.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ma come ho gi\u00e0 detto, ero solo io che ti immaginavo idealmente.<\/p>\n

And I kept waiting for the ideal you to choose me. My dreams shattered when I realized that you weren\u2019t perfect at all, it was me who made you that way.<\/p>\n

See, this perfect you would never have led me on. This perfect you wouldn\u2019t have given me just enough attention so I\u2019d believe you were into me.<\/p>\n

This perfect you would never have used me the way you used me. It didn\u2019t just occur to me that we could have been something more, you actually made me believe it.<\/p>\n

And right when I got my hopes up, you pulled back. You decided I\u2019d gotten enough love from you and that you now had me for a lifetime.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When I started doubting us, you’d do your magic and I’d fall again for you again.<\/p>\n

I was hooked, truth be told. The naive side of me believed in this dream that I\u2019d finally found someone who cared for me and wanted me.<\/p>\n

La parte che aveva vissuto molte situazioni infernali nella vita lo sapeva bene. E alla fine ho lasciato che fosse l'altra parte a gestire queste cose.<\/p>\n

Oggi, ho deciso che questo sarebbe stato il giorno in cui ho smesso di aspettare.<\/a> <\/b><\/p>\n

Oggi sarebbe stato il giorno in cui avrei smesso di passare anche solo un minuto del mio tempo a pensare a te. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to think about the things we might\u2019ve been when you never actually believed we could be a thing in the first place. <\/b><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t beg someone to love me. I won\u2019t beg you to love me.<\/b> Ho imparato molto tempo fa che non serve a nulla cercare di far rimanere qualcuno.<\/p>\n

I am too valuable to chase someone who doesn\u2019t know my worth and to keep waiting for someone who doesn\u2019t acknowledge my value.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I want to be loved unconditionally and I shouldn\u2019t have to fight so hard for it.  <\/b>Io valgo molto di pi\u00f9.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just so you know, whether this was your intention or not, you didn\u2019t get the best of me. You were pretty close, but I got out just in time.<\/p>\n

Waiting for you didn\u2019t leave me broken at the end, but it did teach me a valuable lesson.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, I still believe that good things take time. I\u2019m as naive as I was at the beginning of the story, you know.<\/p>\n

I choose to believe in love and in the existence of someone out there who won\u2019t have to think twice before choosing me. I believe there is someone who won\u2019t make love feel so hard.<\/p>\n

I believe there is someone who\u2019ll see my worth and acknowledge my value on his own. <\/b><\/p>\n

I believe that there is someone to whom I won\u2019t be just anybody but who\u2019ll want me to be his everything. That someone is worth the wait. You are not. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still believe good things take time. It\u2019s just that I have come to realize that you\u2019re not really a good thing for me.<\/p>\n

Quindi, Addio mio qualcuno,<\/p>\n

La ragazza che meritava molto di pi\u00f9<\/p>\n

\"Sono<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The worst part of life is waiting. The best part of life is having someone worth waiting for. My Dear Someone, I was never a girl who rushed things. I kept believing that good things took time. I knew that the things you waited a long time for ended up being the most precious ones….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Im-Done-Waiting-To-Be-Someone-To-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}