{"id":7430,"date":"2020-10-25T11:28:02","date_gmt":"2020-10-25T11:28:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7430"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:16:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:16:00","slug":"lettera-uno-e-sfuggita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-uno-e-sfuggita\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera a colui che \u00e8 andato via"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 passato un po' di tempo da quando abbiamo parlato. So che in fondo volevi essere mio amico, ma non pensavo fosse una buona idea.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 difficile essere amici di una persona che si \u00e8 amata di pi\u00f9.. <\/i><\/b>\u00c8 come se il vostro cane morisse e voi decideste comunque di tenerlo. \u00c8 impossibile.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So don\u2019t cry over spilled milk. You weren\u2019t the right one for me and you told me that in time. Your words about saving me from tears are still echoing around my head.<\/p>\n

I remember the day when you came to me and said that you didn\u2019t feel the same way as you used to. You said that you still couldn\u2019t decide if you needed an emotional partner.<\/p>\n

You were so confused when you were telling me about it and I saw that you cared about me. Unfortunately, that wasn\u2019t enough for our love to last.<\/p>\n

Sai, a volte penso ancora a te.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ricordo tutti i giorni che abbiamo trascorso insieme a goderci la vita. Mi piace pensare a tutte le cose belle che mi hai insegnato a fare.<\/p>\n

Ricordo che mi hai insegnato a pescare e ad accendere il fuoco nel bosco.<\/p>\n

Ricordo che mi hai insegnato a guidare un'auto con il cambio manuale e ad ascoltare la musica allo stesso tempo.<\/p>\n

Sono felice anche quando penso a tutti quei bei momenti che ti ho regalato, perch\u00e9 ti ho amato pi\u00f9 di quanto avrei mai pensato di amare qualcuno.<\/p>\n

It is true that I really fell hard for you but I don\u2019t care. Love is not love if it is not complicated. And ours was as complicated as hell.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec ora, dopo tutto questo tempo trascorso senza di te, devo ammettere che finalmente mi sento bene nella mia pelle.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You see, I am writing this letter while sitting alone in the park and enjoying the sun\u2019s rays. And I don\u2019t need anyone else to be with me, because I can finally get that peace that I deserve so much.<\/p>\n

Sono finalmente vivere la mia vita al massimo<\/a> and I don\u2019t feel sorry about my decisions. They were a part of my life and they made me the person I am now.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un peccato che tu non sia qui per vedere che tipo di persona sono diventata. Ma devo dire che quando mi hai lasciato, qualcosa \u00e8 cambiato dentro di me.<\/p>\n

I could have chosen to be a victim, as I had every single reason to do so, but I didn\u2019t. Instead, I decided to fight and to move on with my life.<\/p>\n

Because you only have one life and if I don\u2019t care about myself, nobody else will. I know you won\u2019t<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

In case you sometimes wonder if I would ever accept you back, here is what I would say: \u201cYou lost me the day that you didn\u2019t choose me.\u201d And I was a girl who was so easy to love but unfortunately you couldn\u2019t understand that in time.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Pensavi che l'amore ti sarebbe successo di nuovo. Mi hai detto che mi amavi ma che dovevi andartene e che una volta lasciata saresti morta.<\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi chieda una cosa: \u201cIf you said you would die without me, then why are you still breathing?\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see this one coming, right? Well, that\u2019s who I am now, straight to the point, and I wouldn\u2019t change it for anything in the world.<\/p>\n

Now, all those dark things that happened during our relationship don\u2019t look so dark to me now. Because I found my own way and this time it is a way without you.<\/p>\n

Sei tu che hai avuto paura. Hai deciso di andartene<\/a> e lasciarmi in pace.<\/p>\n

For you, my problems and my feelings didn\u2019t exist because you were so preoccupied with your own problems.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

And I wasn\u2019t one of them. I just thank God that He saved me from you<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t tell you how happy I am to be able to meet new people and enjoy life like I deserve. If I had stayed with you, I wouldn\u2019t have had the chance to do all this.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente saresti ancora il centro del mio mondo e l'unica persona con cui parlo. Ma in questo modo, perdendoti ho guadagnato molto di pi\u00f9.<\/a><\/p>\n

Quindi, grazie per aver rinunciato a me. Mi hai appena fatto capire quanto io sia una persona degna.<\/p>\n

Grazie a te, ho imparato ad amarmi con tutto il cuore e a lasciar andare le cose che mi avevano dato fastidio in passato. E questa volta lascio andare anche te.<\/p>\n

Se sei stato cos\u00ec stupido da andartene, io sar\u00f2 cos\u00ec intelligente da lasciarti andare!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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