{"id":74846,"date":"2020-05-20T11:17:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=74846"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:30:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:30:11","slug":"mettete-da-parte-i-vostri-sentimenti-e-ricordate-cio-che-meritate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mettete-da-parte-i-vostri-sentimenti-e-ricordate-cio-che-meritate\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 il momento di mettere da parte i sentimenti e ricordare ci\u00f2 che si merita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non voglio pi\u00f9 sentirmi triste. Sono arrivata a un punto in cui ho deciso che non voglio guardare indietro alla mia vita e sentirmi in colpa perch\u00e9 non ho mai corso dei rischi.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to throw my life away because of someone who never even cared for me. I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019m making a fresh start.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n

Eliminer\u00f2 ogni traccia di lui e allener\u00f2 il mio cuore a non perdere mai un battito quando sentir\u00f2 il suo nome.<\/span><\/p>\n

I will forget everything he promised me and I will forget him: his voice, his smell, his face, his everything until I can\u2019t recall his image in my mind anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordo che all'inizio avrei voluto tornare indietro al momento in cui l'ho incontrato, prendere una strada diversa e salvarmi da tanto dolore, ma ho deciso di fidarmi di Dio.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

When God let him into my life, I didn\u2019t know it was a lesson. A lesson to teach me to embrace myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

So often in life, we\u2019re blinded by what we feel and what we want in the given moment, so we forget to see things from another perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was so lost in loving him that I forgot to love myself. Once he was gone, I needed to find myself again and I didn\u2019t know where to start.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so hard to accept the fact that the people who once made us feel special are the same people who made us feel worthless in the end.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so hard to trust after you\u2019ve been lied to so many times \u2013 even yourself \u2013 that\u2019s what <\/span>gaslighting<\/span><\/a> fa a una persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Still, that\u2019s how I learned that the only lasting relationship in my life will be the one I have with myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Da quel momento ho smesso di credere che qualcun altro avesse il potere di salvarmi.<\/span><\/p>\n

It became clear to me that in order to survive and live a good life I needed to change \u2013 myself, my life, my habits.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve never believed in prince charming, but deep in my heart I\u2019ve always wanted to have somebody to care for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

I still want that \u2013 I still want to have somebody who will cherish me and make me feel safe and happy to be myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'unica differenza \u00e8 che ora so che posso prendermi cura di me stessa e sentirmi sicura di me stessa.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t depend on anyone\u2019s love but my own, and you know what? I feel better than ever. I feel relieved and happy I can believe in myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m proud of giving myself a chance.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all those years of telling myself that everything and everyone is better than me, I finally realized that comparing myself to others doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no rule for success but your own happiness and what makes <\/span>voi<\/span><\/i> La felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 diversa da quella degli altri. Fate solo ci\u00f2 che vi rende felici.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meritate di essere felici. Meritate di trattarvi come trattate le persone che amate di pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Leave behind everything that brings you down \u2013 including people. Don\u2019t make excuses. Everything in life happens for a reason, so don\u2019t sabotage your own growth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una delle lezioni pi\u00f9 importanti di questa esperienza \u00e8 stata quella di lasciar andare ci\u00f2 che non posso cambiare. Sembra semplice, ma \u00e8 stata la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile da fare.<\/span><\/p>\n

Other than letting go I learned that for some people I\u2019ll never be enough as I am, but that it shouldn\u2019t bother me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life\u2019s too short for trying to be liked by other people \u2013 in the end, you only have yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we have to be strong. We have to build forts out of ourselves, and be self-sufficient but welcoming to everyone who has something valuable to offer. Seek value rather than attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

Only self-love can break the circle of unfulfilled relationships. When you love yourself, you don\u2019t tolerate disrespect.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando amate voi stessi, attirate tutto ci\u00f2 che meritate.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\u00c8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t want to feel sad anymore. I\u2019ve reached a point where I\u2019ve decided I don\u2019t want to look back at my life and feel guilty because I never took chances. I don\u2019t want to throw my life away because of someone who never even cared for me. I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019m making a fresh…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":72272,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Its-Time-To-Put-Your-Feelings-Aside-And-Remember-What-You-Deserve.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74846","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=74846"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74846\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=74846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=74846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=74846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}