{"id":7498,"date":"2020-07-26T07:40:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T07:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7498"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:10:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:10:52","slug":"i-piu-grandi-vigliacchi-sono-gli-uomini-che-se-ne-vanno-senza-dire-una-parola-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-piu-grandi-vigliacchi-sono-gli-uomini-che-se-ne-vanno-senza-dire-una-parola-2\/","title":{"rendered":"I pi\u00f9 grandi vigliacchi sono gli uomini che se ne vanno senza dire una parola"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amongst the first words we\u2019re taught to speak are \u2018hello\u2019 and \u2018goodbye\u2019 and people remember to say hello when they enter your life, but they somehow forget to say goodbye on their way out.<\/p>\n

Do you know what happens when someone leaves your life without saying goodbye? Well, if you\u2019ve ever been left this way, then you\u2019ll know. <\/b><\/p>\n

When someone leaves without a goodbye, you\u2019re bound to get broken.<\/p>\n

Maybe the leaving part doesn\u2019t even hurt as much as knowing that someone doesn\u2019t want to be with you anymore and that they didn\u2019t have the decency to say what went wrong to your face.<\/p>\n

And then you\u2019re left your whole life wondering Cosa \u00e8 andato storto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando le persone entrano per la prima volta nella vostra vita, vi salutano con molta sicurezza.<\/p>\n

Il loro saluto \u00e8 cos\u00ec forte e mozzafiato e d\u00e0 l'impressione che questa persona sia venuta per restare.<\/p>\n

Through the whole time you spend together, they make sure you\u2019re convinced how pure their love is and that they will do anything for you.<\/p>\n

E poi, quando si rendono conto che \u00e8 arrivato il momento di chiudere la storia, se ne vanno senza dire una parola. Se ne vanno come i pi\u00f9 grandi codardi che siano.<\/p>\n

Le persone che se ne vanno senza dire una parola sono i pi\u00f9 grandi vigliacchi di questo mondo.<\/p>\n

When someone walks out of your life without a word, especially if that someone was a person who promised to stay, you can\u2019t help but wonder what went wrong.<\/p>\n

Quando qualcuno ti lascia senza salutarti come si deve, anche se sai che \u00e8 meglio cos\u00ec, rimani l\u00ec. in attesa della chiusura.<\/a><\/p>\n

Si rimane l\u00ec con una manciata di domande che non troveranno mai risposta.<\/p>\n

And nothing haunts us more than the questions we have that we can\u2019t get answers to.<\/p>\n

Quando le persone se ne vanno senza una parola, continuano ad aspettare la chiusura e a sperare che un giorno la spiegazione del perch\u00e9 le cose sono finite arrivi anche a loro.<\/p>\n

But the worst part of it is these two questions: \u201cCan I move on?\u201d and \u201cWhat if he comes back?\u201d<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

\u201cCan I move on?\u201d –<\/b> You\u2019re left wondering if you\u2019re allowed to continue with your life.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be the bad one in this story, you don\u2019t want to let the love go so easily and you don\u2019t want to be the one who ended it, because moving on would mean you\u2019ve made your peace with not having him and you don’t feel ready for that just yet.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut what if he comes back?\u201d –<\/b> The moment someone new walks into your life, you wonder if it\u2019s the right thing to engage in a new story when the old one didn\u2019t end.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 che torni e cosa succede? Quindi ci si tira indietro all'istante.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re the cheater in the story because the end was never said out loud.<\/p>\n

And you miss him so much because you\u2019re in attesa di qualcuno che \u00e8 andato avanti<\/a> nel momento in cui ha lasciato la tua vita.<\/p>\n

La vecchia storia \u00e8 finita molto tempo fa, indipendentemente dal fatto che abbiate ricevuto o meno l'ultimo saluto.<\/p>\n

To him it ended, it\u2019s you who keeps dragging behind and not giving yourself a chance to move on.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t get the closure you needed and you\u2019re left hanging. It\u2019s  ugly and it hurts and it\u2019s full of insecurities and you didn\u2019t deserve to be left without a goodbye, but you can\u2019t change it.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be hitting the wall hoping the door to your closure will appear all of a sudden.<\/p>\n

If he had the courage to say hello to you, he should\u2019ve had the courage to say goodbye as well. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t show courage by jumping off a cliff or driving a car at the maximum speed.<\/p>\n

You show courage by looking the person you promised love to straight in the eye and saying whatever it is that you have to say. You look the person in the eye and you say you\u2019re leaving.<\/p>\n

You explain why things are not working out and you make sure you\u2019re firm in your decision. You don\u2019t send mixed signals.<\/p>\n

There is no getting back together, there are no \u2018what ifs\u2019, there is no giving false hope that maybe the tables might turn in the future.<\/p>\n

Si trova il coraggio di andarsene in modo decente e di dare una chiusura decente alla storia. Tutto il resto \u00e8 solo una consegna di pollo.<\/p>\n

Quindi, quando un uomo \u00e8 un codardo<\/a>, when he leaves without a single word, when he can’t give you what you need, be the bigger person than him. Instead of being afraid to move on, instead of following the path that coward, the one who left without a word, trumped for you, be the one to give the final closure to the story. <\/b><\/p>\n

Invece di avere paura di andare avanti, invece di aspettare, accettate che le cose tra voi due sono finite.<\/p>\n

Invece di fuggire dall'accettare la verit\u00e0, siate coraggiosi in questa storia e permettete a voi stessi di non aspettare pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Siate voi a dire addio per entrambi e ad andare avanti con la vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Sar\u00e0 la migliore vendetta per chi se n'\u00e8 andato senza dire una parola e sar\u00e0 la cosa migliore che abbiate mai fatto per voi stessi.<\/p>\n

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