{"id":7505,"date":"2017-10-26T08:19:14","date_gmt":"2017-10-26T08:19:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7505"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:52:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:52:49","slug":"amore-piu-difficile-lasciarsi-andare-uno-ha-aspettato-a-lungo-2-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amore-piu-difficile-lasciarsi-andare-uno-ha-aspettato-a-lungo-2-2\/","title":{"rendered":"L'amore pi\u00f9 difficile da lasciare andare \u00e8 quello per cui hai aspettato a lungo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You loved and you waited and you hoped and you hoped and it was all in vain. You were left empty-handed. And only when you didn\u2019t get what you hoped for a long time, you realized it\u2019s time to let go. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t need to want to let go, but you have to do it. Because holding on and waiting a minute longer would kill you. You waited too long to allow yourself to wait a minute longer. So, instead of holding on and waiting, let go. But don’t expect it to be easy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Letting go is not a one-time thing. Letting go is something you have to do every day, over and over again. And you never truly know if you have fully succeeded. It\u2019s the heart we\u2019re talking about here, and with the heart, you can never know. <\/span><\/p>\n

Uno dei La cosa pi\u00f9 difficile nella vita \u00e8 lasciarsi andare<\/a> of what you thought was real. You waited for something for a long time. You waited and you made yourself believe that these things just needed time, that they were there, but you just needed the right timing. But the right timing never came and that\u2019s when you realized that what you thought was real, wasn\u2019t even close to reality. <\/span><\/p>\n

E avete deciso che era arrivato il momento di lasciar perdere. <\/span><\/p>\n

A un certo punto, lungo la strada dell'attesa, vi siete resi conto che il momento di ci\u00f2 che stavate aspettando non sarebbe mai arrivato. E allora avete deciso di lasciar perdere. <\/b>The ugly part of letting go of someone you never really had in the first place is having to let go of your dreams, ideas, and hopes as well. In order to let go of the person, you have to let go of the perfect world you created in your head. You have to let go of all the possibilities that might\u2019ve been and accept you\u2019re never going to get where you pictured the two of you together. You have to say goodbye to a final destination, because you won\u2019t be arriving there with the one person you\u2019d really love to be there.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

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Letting go doesn\u2019t necessarily mean you love less or that you\u2019ve stopped loving at all. <\/b>You love the same as or even more than you\u2019ve loved previously, because the pain in letting go makes you want it even more than you did at the beginning. <\/span><\/p>\n

Letting go doesn\u2019t mean giving up, but rather accepting there are things that cannot be.<\/b> E che non importa quanto lo desideriate, non importa quanto abbiate aspettato che accadesse, non importa cosa abbiate pianificato o quanto perfetto possa essere, it just wasn\u2019t meant to be. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

A volte bisogna sopportare il dolore di lasciar andare, perch\u00e9 lasciar andare fa meno male che tenere duro. <\/b>Holding on means being captured in a room without windows and looking at the wall hoping to see the rays of the sun. Letting go means bruising yourself in the process of tearing the walls down, but it also means freeing yourself from the prison of your own mind and of waiting for someone who will never come. If he wanted to come, you wouldn\u2019t have been waiting as much as you have already. <\/span><\/p>\n

People tell you that you can\u2019t move on with your life if you don\u2019t let go. They say you can\u2019t move to the next chapter of a new life if you\u2019re still re-reading the previous one. But they never tell you that letting go is hard. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nessuno ti dice mai quanto faccia schifo lasciarsi andare.<\/b> Nobody tells you that having to let go of this one person you could actually picture your life with and your future together with feels like letting your life slip through your own fingers. Nobody ever tells you any of this. They pretend like it\u2019s the easiest thing in the world, when in fact it\u2019s the hardest thing out there.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong>\u00a0Mi hai spezzato il cuore ma mi manchi ancora<\/a><\/p>\n

Nessuno vuole rinunciare alla speranza. Nessuno vuole rinunciare alla possibilit\u00e0 di avere amore e qualcosa di bello in questo brutto mondo. Ma a volte bisogna farlo. A volte bisogna essere il proprio salvatore e salvarsi dalla morte. <\/b><\/p>\n

But even if you let go and save yourself from dying, you can\u2019t help yourself when it comes to getting broken. And you\u2019re going to have to get broken each and every day, because each and every day there will be something that will remind you of something you might’ve had.<\/span><\/p>\n

The ugly truth is that letting go will always haunt you. And if you went in with a full heart, it will never stop haunting you. And you\u2019ll never be completely able to let go of something you waited a long time for but that you never really got in the end, because the question of what might’ve been will haunt you forever. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that’s what makes letting go so damn hard. That’s why letting go of someone you waited \u00a0a long time for is the hardest thing to do. <\/b><\/p>\n

You won’t have to get used to not having him in the first place, but you’ll have to get used to not hoping to have him anymore. You have to stop looking forward to that something because you’ll have to stop waiting. <\/span><\/p>\n

But nobody can ever promise you that you will get over it or that you won’t feel like you’re missing something, which is a bit ironic considering you never had him in the first place. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you don\u2019t get over the person you never dated. You just learn to live with the pain that becomes comfortably numb.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You loved and you waited and you hoped and you hoped and it was all in vain. You were left empty-handed. And only when you didn\u2019t get what you hoped for a long time, you realized it\u2019s time to let go. You don’t need to want to let go, but you have to do it….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":7506,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7505","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/StockSnap_7RT2OUGJX5.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7505","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7505"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7505\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7505"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7505"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7505"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}