{"id":7540,"date":"2020-05-26T13:00:53","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T13:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7540"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:22:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:22:51","slug":"stabilire-dei-limiti-come-una-donna-di-alto-valore-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stabilire-dei-limiti-come-una-donna-di-alto-valore-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Come porre dei limiti come una donna di alto valore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Forse vi hanno detto che in amore non bisogna avere limiti.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 dovuto alle nozioni romantiche sull'amore, alle vostre buone intenzioni e al sentimento di altruismo. Ma questo, ovviamente, non \u00e8 vero.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/jennifer-twardowski\/6-steps-to-setting-boundaries-in-relationships_b_6142248.html\" rel=\"noopener\">Dall'amore senza confini non pu\u00f2 nascere nulla di buono.<\/a> Se non rispettate i vostri limiti in una relazione sentimentale, finirete per svuotarvi e avrete difficolt\u00e0 a prendere decisioni o a concentrarvi.<\/p>\n<p>A high-value woman will always have high self-respect, and that\u2019s why it\u2019s critical to set boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>Non solo insegnerete a un uomo come trattarvi, ma recupererete anche la vostra autostima e vi sentirete bene con voi stesse.<\/p>\n<p>Boundaries are so powerful that when set and enforced, they will help you create the love you desire\u2014the love you deserve. Here are five specific ways to create boundaries.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Separare il comportamento dalla persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84778\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti sul molo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tratta di un aspetto solitamente trascurato, ma molto importante. Molte volte vi siete trovati in una situazione in cui il vostro partner ha fatto qualcosa di sbagliato.<\/p>\n<p>In altre parole, era uno stronzo. Ora, prima di decidere se perdonarlo o meno, considerate questo: \u00e8 un bravo ragazzo che ha mostrato un comportamento da stronzo o \u00e8 solo uno stronzo che fa quello che gli stronzi sanno fare meglio?<\/p>\n<p>A quel punto, si pu\u00f2 decidere se essere arrabbiati per il comportamento e non per il ragazzo o se essere arrabbiati per l'intera faccenda.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 fondamentale per poter condividere con la persona come fare le cose in modo soddisfacente per voi senza tagliarla fuori e andarsene perch\u00e9 ha superato il limite.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il sesso non \u00e8 la vostra moneta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84780\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/photo-of-woman-puts-naked-legs-on-wall-wearing-high-heels.jpg\" alt=\"foto di una donna che appoggia le gambe nude al muro con i tacchi alti\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/photo-of-woman-puts-naked-legs-on-wall-wearing-high-heels.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/photo-of-woman-puts-naked-legs-on-wall-wearing-high-heels-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/photo-of-woman-puts-naked-legs-on-wall-wearing-high-heels-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you think it\u2019s still too early, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womenshealthmag.com\/sex-and-love\/low-sex-drive\" rel=\"noopener\">you just don\u2019t feel like having sex<\/a>, dovreste stabilire i vostri limiti.<\/p>\n<p>Make it very clear what you want and when you want it. Just because he took you on a nice date, paid for dinner or bought you a gift, doesn\u2019t mean you owe him sex.<\/p>\n<p>A high-value woman will set the boundaries and won\u2019t get sexually intimate with a man before committing to a relationship that suits her needs.<\/p>\n<p>If you like the guy but think it\u2019s still too early for intercourse, then set the boundaries in a way which lets him know that you find him very attractive, but you are still not ready to get intimate with him.<\/p>\n<p>If he likes you too, this won\u2019t bother him, and he will wait until you get comfortable enough to make that move.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t be afraid to say out loud what it is that you want\/desire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84782\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che discute in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Con un uomo, dovreste essere dirette, senza fare cazzate. Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9, per la maggior parte, gli uomini si parlano in questo modo.<\/p>\n<p>They are used to be told directly what it is that they need to do, what it is that the other person needs, and what\u2019s their responsibility.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly what you should do\u2014especially in the beginning of a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>If you set your boundaries and tell him what you expect and require from him right away, you\u2019re not only setting boundaries for yourself, but you\u2019re also letting him know what his responsibilities are going to be and thus making it easier for him to understand.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid of maybe intimidating him too much and scaring him off because if he does flinch away, then you know he was not able to fulfill your needs anyway.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il mondo digitale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84783\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Bored-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-holding-phones.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia annoiata seduta in un caff\u00e8 con il telefono in mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Bored-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-holding-phones.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Bored-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-holding-phones-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Bored-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-holding-phones-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Oggi, gran parte della nostra vita privata, comprese le nostre relazioni<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/sam-doll\/2017\/10\/what-my-ex-liking-my-old-instagram-pic-made-me-realize-about-modern-dating\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> viene presentato sui social media.<\/a> Anche questo \u00e8 uno dei limiti da affrontare.<\/p>\n<p>Quanto della vostra vita privata volete che sia condiviso su Facebook, Instagram o Twitter?<\/p>\n<p>Fate sapere subito al vostro partner cosa pensate dei social media e quali sono i vostri limiti in merito. Va bene per voi cambiare lo stato della relazione?<\/p>\n<p>Is it ok for you to follow each other\u2019s friends? Is it ok to post anything about your relationship?<\/p>\n<p>Avete bisogno di sentirvi sicure nel rapporto con il vostro nuovo uomo e lo stesso vale per lui.<\/p>\n<p>La creazione di confini in anticipo \u00e8 il modo in cui una donna di alto valore si distingue dalla massa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fate rispettare i vostri limiti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84784\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sconvolta seduta in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non basta stabilire i limiti, bisogna anche farli rispettare.<\/p>\n<p>Telling a guy that you don\u2019t want sex but continuing to make out is not really giving the right picture to him.<\/p>\n<p>Fate rispettare ci\u00f2 che avete creato e questo aprir\u00e0 le porte all'amore.<\/p>\n<p>Se fate rispettare i vostri limiti nel modo in cui volete che siano, insegnerete al ragazzo come trattarvi e, rispettando i vostri limiti, lo faranno anche gli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Focus on what you want and need, and be ready to even walk away if things are deal breakers for you or the guy is just unable to rise up to your expectations\u2014like not giving you enough respect, time or space that you need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/How-To-Set-Boundaries-Like-A-High-Value-Woman-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Come porre dei limiti come una donna di alto valore\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/How-To-Set-Boundaries-Like-A-High-Value-Woman-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/How-To-Set-Boundaries-Like-A-High-Value-Woman-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You might have been told that in love you should not have any boundaries. This is because of the romantic notions about love, because of your good intentions, and because of the feeling of selflessness. But that is, of course, not true. Nothing good will come out of love without boundaries. When not honoring your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":84777,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7540","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/How-To-Set-Boundaries-Like-A-High-Value-Woman.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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