{"id":7578,"date":"2017-10-27T09:54:21","date_gmt":"2017-10-27T09:54:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7578"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:51:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:51:56","slug":"tipo-di-donna-sa-di-andarsene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tipo-di-donna-sa-di-andarsene\/","title":{"rendered":"Siate il tipo di donna che sa quando allontanarsi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes we don\u2019t even know how deeply we are intertwined with somebody until we try to walk away. Troviamo sempre un motivo in pi\u00f9 per restare. <\/a>Anche quando non c'\u00e8 un motivo, ne troviamo uno e ci creiamo delle ragioni per restare.<\/p>\n

Abbiamo paura di sentirci soli. Abbiamo paura che nessuno ci ami come loro. Pensiamo che sar\u00e0 troppo difficile iniziare qualcosa di nuovo, trovare qualcuno di meglio, quindi restiamo. A volte incolpiamo noi stessi per tutto il dolore, gli abusi e i maltrattamenti che riceviamo da loro. Le ragioni sono innumerevoli.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason is, it will lead us just into deeper misery. We want the relationship to succeed so badly that we don\u2019t see that we would be better without them. We are used to holding on so tightly that we stay even when we feel like we are in hell. We are not aware that we make more harm by staying.<\/p>\n

Nessuno dovrebbe rimanere in una relazione che sembra un inferno.<\/p>\n

Siate il tipo di donna che \u00e8 pronti a lasciare la relazione<\/a> perch\u00e9 non si sente pi\u00f9 a suo agio.<\/strong> You should feel free and comfortable with someone. The relationship shouldn\u2019t feel like you are being punished for something.<\/p>\n

Be the type of woman who doesn\u2019t allow the disrespect.<\/strong> The one who doesn\u2019t tolerate being called stupid, incapable, unlovable. The one who doesn\u2019t allow being shouted at. The one who demands to be valued. Make sure that the last thing he sees is your back.<\/p>\n

Siate il tipo di donna che sa che restare peggiorer\u00e0 solo le cose.<\/strong> Essere colui che sa che non cambier\u00e0 mai. Ha avuto cos\u00ec tante opportunit\u00e0, che una in pi\u00f9 sarebbe troppo. Lasciate quell'inferno. La chiave della felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 nelle vostre mani.<\/p>\n

Be the type of woman who won\u2019t buy into his crap.<\/strong> He\u2019ll say sorry, he\u2019ll say he loves you and that he will never do it again. Be the one who knows he will. Because you can\u2019t count the number of times you heard this same sentence before.<\/p>\n

Siate il tipo di donna che lo lascer\u00e0 perch\u00e9 stare con lui \u00e8 una questione di abitudine, non di amore.<\/strong> \u00c8 solo una persona a cui sei abituata, non quella di cui sei innamorata.<\/p>\n

Siate il tipo di donna che lasciarlo anche se potrebbe fargli un male cane.<\/a><\/strong> You know it won\u2019t destroy you. You might cry but the tears are there because you know your feelings were real, not because you should stay.<\/p>\n

Siate il tipo di donna che corre un rischio.<\/strong> The one who dares to leave even though it\u2019s more uncertain than staying. Because you know deep down your happiness will be worth it.<\/p>\n

Be the type of woman who is capable of breaking her own heart by walking away from the one she loves if he doesn\u2019t deserve her.<\/strong> The one who is not afraid to leave because she knows her heart will heal. Be the one who knows she deserves more from life. Be the one who demands honesty, love and respect and who doesn\u2019t settle for less.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sometimes we don\u2019t even know how deeply we are intertwined with somebody until we try to walk away. We always find one more reason to stay. Even when there is no reason, we find one, and we create reasons to stay. We are scared to be lonely. We are afraid that no one will love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":7583,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7578","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/allan-filipe-santos-dias-365405.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7578","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7578"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7578\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7583"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7578"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7578"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7578"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}