{"id":75915,"date":"2020-06-01T07:15:09","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T07:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=75915"},"modified":"2022-08-12T08:14:27","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T08:14:27","slug":"come-salvare-un-matrimonio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-salvare-un-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"Come salvare un matrimonio: 10 metodi collaudati che funzionano sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you and your spouse grown apart? Do you feel like you\u2019ve become total strangers? Then you should immediately look for ways to save your marriage by implementing the best methods and pieces of consigli sul matrimonio<\/a>. <\/p>\n

A volte pu\u00f2 sembrare impossibile e il divorzio pu\u00f2 sembrare l'unica via d'uscita. Prima di prendere qualsiasi decisione, per\u00f2, \u00e8 necessario riflettere bene.<\/p>\n

Marriage isn’t just a piece<\/a> di carta, \u00e8 un impegno serio. Dovete lottare e impegnarvi a fondo per salvare il matrimonio, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 importante.<\/p>\n

L'altro \u00e8 importante e le promesse che avete fatto l'uno all'altro sono importanti.<\/p>\n

Remember, for better or for worse… till death do you part? Well, those “worst” times are now and you have to stick together. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Combattete e superate insieme i periodi difficili.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust me, every healthy marriage faces peaks and troughs, but what’s important is to stick through everything TOGETHER. That’s the only way you’ll solve your marital problems.<\/p>\n

As relationship expert, Dr. John Gottman says, “The \u201choneymoon\u201d phase in any committed relationship is not meant to last\u2014eventually it becomes obvious that sharing a life with another person requires a special set of skills.”<\/p>\n

Marriage isn’t a relationship and you can’t break up with your partner every time you have a disagreement or you don’t like something.<\/p>\n

Il matrimonio \u00e8 costruito sulla promessa<\/a> that it will last “until death do you part”.<\/p>\n

Se pensate che il vostro matrimonio sia condannato o siete sull'orlo del divorzio, continuate a leggere qui sotto per scoprire alcuni semplici modi per aiutarvi a salvare il vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

1. Prima cercate l'aiuto di un consulente matrimoniale, meglio \u00e8.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As soon as you realize that you’re having marital problems, you should seek professional help. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to save your marriage and get it back on track.<\/p>\n

Marriage counseling is going to help you to identify specific issues you’re facing in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Allora un consulente matrimoniale trover\u00e0 il modo pi\u00f9 efficace per affrontare questi problemi e salvare il matrimonio.<\/p>\n

After only a few sessions, I guarantee you’ll see some positive changes. It’s going to help you both learn more about you and your relationship.<\/p>\n

I consulenti matrimoniali lasciano che entrambi i partner raccontino la loro versione della storia.<\/p>\n

Poi vi insegneranno che la comunicazione \u00e8 tutto in una relazione e che una comunicazione efficace \u00e8 la chiave per superare e risolvere i conflitti in un matrimonio.<\/p>\n

You’ll learn how to support your partner in everything that is important to them. You’ll learn that your partner should be the only person you can lean on.<\/p>\n

La consulenza di coppia \u00e8 un passo importante per molte coppie e la maggior parte di esse considera la terapia costosa e complessa. Ma vi prego, pensateci. \u00c8 il modo pi\u00f9 efficace per salvare il vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Prima di sottoporre la vostra relazione a questo check-up, dovete essere sicuri che sia voi che il vostro partner siate a vostro agio con la terapia di consulenza di coppia.<\/p>\n

2. Ricordare il motivo per cui ci si \u00e8 innamorati<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Tornare al passato. Ricordate quando avete visto il vostro partner per la prima volta. Ricordate le farfalle che sentivate nello stomaco.<\/p>\n

Remember the first time they said, “I love you”. Go back in time to when you were happy. So happy and so crazy in love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensate a tutte le cose che amate del vostro partner. Pensate a come avete accettato e accolto i suoi difetti e le sue imperfezioni e non avete mai pensato di cambiarli.<\/p>\n

All those feelings are still there. You still love your partner like you did on that first day. Put down your defensiveness and you’ll see it. I’m sure your partner also has the same feelings for you.<\/p>\n

Dovete capire che questa \u00e8 solo una fase del vostro matrimonio. Una fase che tutte le coppie sposate devono affrontare. Dovete solo trovare un modo per affrontarla e far funzionare di nuovo il vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

You will be happy again. This will just strengthen your connection and prove how strong and deep your love is. Don’t let these hard times ruin your marriage.<\/p>\n

3. Rendere la vostra relazione una priorit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Your relationship should always be a priority but now, it’s essential it becomes a priority for both of you. You have to work on your marriage every single day.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto sia fitta la vostra agenda, dovete sempre trovare il tempo per il vostro partner. \u00c8 pi\u00f9 importante del vostro lavoro, dei vostri amici e di tutto il resto della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Give your spouse the attention they deserve. Remember, they aren’t your friend nor your roommate, they are your lover and partner.<\/p>\n

Make them feel cherished and loved. Your partner should never doubt your feelings for them. If they do, it means that you aren’t trying hard enough to show them how much you love them.<\/p>\n

Bisogna impegnarsi a fondo per far funzionare il vostro matrimonio<\/a> e di farlo durare per tutta la vita. Dovete mantenere i vostri voti e tutte le promesse che avete fatto al vostro partner il giorno delle nozze.<\/p>\n

If you don’t make salvare il vostro matrimonio<\/a> a priority, you’ll lose something precious. You’ll lose the most valuable relationship in your life.<\/p>\n

If you don’t fight for your partner, you’ll eventually lose them. You won’t feel complete without them. You’ll lose one part of yourself because they were your other part.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Scrivere le questioni specifiche che causano conflitti<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Se ci sono questioni specifiche che causano disaccordi e conflitti nella vostra relazione<\/a>, \u00e8 necessario scriverli.<\/p>\n

Your partner should do the same. After you’ve done this, you need to exchange your papers. Then, talk about all those things.<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner deve conoscere tutte le cose che vi preoccupano. Poi dovreste offrire alcune soluzioni per risolvere questi problemi.<\/p>\n

Credetemi, essere onesti e diretti sulle cose che vi preoccupano \u00e8 uno dei modi pi\u00f9 semplici per risolvere i vostri problemi coniugali.<\/p>\n

Also, you have to accept that some things can’t be fixed, no matter how much you try. The past can’t be changed and you need to let it go. Learn how to forgive and forget.<\/p>\n

5. Disintossicarsi da tutte le emozioni negative<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve had the talk with your partner and said all things that were bothering you, it’s time for an emotional detox.<\/p>\n

When someone hurts us, the easiest thing to do is to ignore it and suppress your emotions. The problem is that you won’t make your emotions go away if you ignore them.<\/p>\n

Reprimere le emozioni<\/a> per molto tempo pu\u00f2 avere conseguenze sulla salute mentale. Pu\u00f2 farvi sentire tristi, depressi o addirittura frustrati e amareggiati.<\/p>\n

You have to take control of your emotions again. You shouldn’t let them control you.<\/p>\n

Don’t say something in the heat of the moment because you know you’ll regret it later. And then it might be too late for forgiveness.<\/p>\n

By removing all those negative feelings, you can create space for some new and better ones. After you release all those awful feelings, you’ll be more relaxed and you’ll be able to achieve inner peace.<\/p>\n

6. Riaccendere la scintilla nella vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Sapete perch\u00e9 la scintilla non si spegne mai in una relazione sana? Perch\u00e9 entrambi i partner si impegnano per mantenerla tale.<\/p>\n

It’s really all up to you and your significant other. You have to be willing to work on your relationship and bring the spark back. There are so many simple ways you can do this.<\/p>\n

Regain lost intimacy. It’s one of the most important parts of every relationship. It reflects the level of trust and connection between you and your spouse.<\/p>\n

Organizzate la serata pi\u00f9 romantica di sempre. Partire per un fine settimana. Organizzare un viaggio o una vacanza. Sorprendete la persona amata e organizzate tutto a sua insaputa.<\/p>\n

Fate una romantica passeggiata al tramonto sulla spiaggia. Preparate un picnic e portate una coperta. Non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 romantico che stare insieme sotto le stelle.<\/p>\n

Flirt like you’ve just met. Compliment your partner whenever you get the chance, but be careful, you have to mean it.<\/p>\n

Get out of your comfort zone and do something you’ve never tried before. Get your adrenaline pumping. Try bungee jumping together or another similar activity.<\/p>\n

7. L'insulto al nome \u00e8 una rottura dell'accordo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

L'insulto \u00e8 un abuso verbale<\/a> and it is the first red flag of an unhealthy and abusive relationship. It’s not how you’ll resolve your conflicts.<\/p>\n

Per quanto ci si possa arrabbiare con il proprio partner, si dovrebbe sempre cercare di evitare di nominarlo.<\/p>\n

Both you and your partner should set some boundaries on what’s acceptable behavior and how should you treat one another.<\/p>\n

You mustn’t cross your partner’s boundaries even when you’re fighting and you get angry.<\/p>\n

So che alcune delle cose terribili che diciamo mentre litighiamo non le intendiamo mai, ma possono comunque ferire la persona amata.<\/p>\n

You know that you’ll regret it later for sure and apologize to your partner, but maybe by then it\u2019ll be too late to apologize.<\/p>\n

If you do it often, you’ll ruin your partner\u2019s self-esteem. You’ll make them feel like they aren’t worthy of you. One day, your partner may forgive you for those insults, but they’ll never be able to forget it.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve already made this mistake, you have to stop name-calling right away because verbal abuse \u2013 like any other abuse \u2013 gets worse with time.<\/p>\n

8. Accettare il passato<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Se il vostro partner vi ha fatto qualcosa di brutto in passato e avete deciso di perdonarlo, allora dovete dimenticarlo e lasciare che rimanga nel passato. <\/p>\n

Why talk about it all the time when you can’t change it? You can do nothing about it. You can only believe your partner will change and that they won’t repeat their mistake ever again.<\/p>\n

I know that it’s not easy, but you have to accept your past in order to move on properly (even if it means going through an recupero della relazione<\/a>). <\/p>\n

Concedetevi un po' di spazio, se ne avete bisogno. Rimanete soli con i vostri pensieri e pensate a tutto quello che \u00e8 successo nel vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

That’s why expressing your emotions is important, once again. If you don’t let your emotions out, you\u2019ll stay stuck in the past.<\/p>\n

The only thing you should think about and be focused on is your future because that’s where you’re going. Don’t look back. Don’t bother with things that have passed.<\/p>\n

9. Riportare l'attenzione su di s\u00e9<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s human nature to blame the other person for failures and mistakes. Well, you can’t blame your partner for all the bad things that happened in your relationship. It’s not all your partner’s fault.<\/p>\n

Don’t focus only on their mistakes because you made mistakes also. Think about that. Think about your mistakes and how much they contributed to ruining your marriage.<\/p>\n

Don’t say that they’ll have to fix their mistakes to make your marriage work again. Remember, a marriage is all about teamwork.<\/p>\n

Dovete lavorare insieme sui vostri errori. Dovete funzionare come una cosa sola. Se fate al vostro partner qualcosa che sapete che vi farebbe male se qualcuno facesse lo stesso con voi, allora perch\u00e9 lo fate?<\/p>\n

You bear the same guilt for the situation you’re currently in. You’re both guilty for ALMOST ruining your marriage.<\/p>\n

10. Migliorare se stessi e diventare un coniuge migliore<\/h2>\n

\"marito<\/p>\n

You constantly have to work on yourself and try to be a better spouse. Don’t be too stubborn and let your pride be more important to you than your partner.<\/p>\n

Learn to admit when you’re wrong. Always apologize for your mistakes and take responsibility for them.<\/p>\n

Think about all the things that your partner does for you every day. You have to show that you see them and that you’re grateful for everything.<\/p>\n

Le piccole cose sono sempre le pi\u00f9 importanti. Fargli il bagno quando torna a casa dal lavoro. Preparare il loro piatto preferito. Fate loro un massaggio.<\/p>\n

Chiedete loro come \u00e8 andata la giornata. Ringraziateli ogni volta che fanno qualcosa di bello per voi. Dimostrate che li apprezzate.<\/p>\n

You can’t start working on your relationship until you start working on yourself. You have to change the things about yourself that were obviously damaging your relationship.<\/p>\n

Don’t give up<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

As we already said, this is just a phase and it’s going to pass. You have to be patient and willing to work to make things right.<\/p>\n

Quindi, come si fa a salvare un matrimonio<\/a>? Non arrendendosi. Ci sono milioni di modi per cercare di salvarlo, e mollare \u00e8 l'ultimo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m not going to lie and say it’s going to be easy. Marriage is hard work. But if you ask me if it is worth it, my answer will always be the same. Marriage is sacred and YES, it’s worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, prima di fare qualsiasi cosa, dovete dare spazio sia a voi che al vostro partner. Dovete pensare al vostro matrimonio e ai vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

L'unico caso in cui non vale la pena salvare un matrimonio \u00e8 se voi e il vostro partner avete smesso di amarvi. In quel caso, davvero, non ne vale la pena.<\/p>\n

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