{"id":7599,"date":"2020-04-27T10:30:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T10:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7599"},"modified":"2021-08-11T20:51:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T20:51:00","slug":"7-modi-in-cui-le-ragazze-distrutte-amano-i-narcisisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-in-cui-le-ragazze-distrutte-amano-i-narcisisti\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi in cui le ragazze spezzate dai narcisisti amano diversamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Scommetto che pensavate di essere nel la storia d'amore pi\u00f9 romantica della vostra vita<\/a> quando lo hai incontrato per la prima volta.<\/p>\n

Lui ti ha sfiorato e tu sei scattato, oppure ti ha baciato e il tuo mondo si \u00e8 capovolto in un attimo.<\/p>\n

Sei caduta sotto il suo controllo. Eravate suoi.<\/p>\n

But that love story didn\u2019t last for long and it most certainly didn\u2019t have a happy ending.<\/p>\n

It took him a long time to lose the mask he put on for his one-man show to impress you, or maybe it\u2019s better to say for his hunt where he captured you in his cruel trap.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He was so addictive. You even knew he wasn\u2019t good for you, but you couldn\u2019t stop. You needed a fix of him and you kept coming back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era cos\u00ec coinvolgente e convincente. Le sue bugie erano cos\u00ec belle da rasentare la fantasia.<\/p>\n

His story of his \u2018crazy\u2019 ex-girlfriend was so real that you believed every part of it until you later found out that she was only a victim the same as you were.<\/p>\n

Ti ha consumato lentamente. Ha lentamente preparato la scena nel modo in cui gli conveniva. Aveva bisogno che le cose fossero a modo suo prima di attaccare.<\/p>\n

Ha finto di interessarsi a lei e, nonostante il suo egocentrismo, ha fatto finta di averla resa il centro del suo mondo.<\/p>\n

Voleva farti sentire come se fossi importante per lui, cos\u00ec hai iniziato a fidarti di lui.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Una volta che ti sei fidato di lui, il resto \u00e8 stato un gioco facile. Vi teneva in pugno. Eravate impotenti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi ha isolato dai vostri amici e dalla vostra famiglia perch\u00e9 vi ha convinto che lui era l'unica cosa di cui avevate bisogno e che volevate nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente \u00e8 riuscito a farvi sentire soli in questo mondo, ha attaccato.<\/p>\n

The mask was off and suddenly this nightmare of yours became real. A little part of your hell became your reality and you couldn\u2019t escape it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t just wake up. It was real – it was happening.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

These things became your everyday life. You couldn\u2019t escape it. He assured you that you were the crazy one.<\/p>\n

Ha distorto la tua memoria, la tua identit\u00e0 e ha cancellato la tua autostima. Eri una ragazza vuota che lui aveva nutrito con la sua versione distorta di ci\u00f2 che era giusto. E tu gli hai creduto.<\/p>\n

But everything has an expiration date, and so does this nightmare. So many lies got to you in one place in a short period of time and they left a huge impact – they made a huge BOOM!<\/p>\n

Siete stati lasciati a pezzi e soli<\/a>, but finally free. You are now the girl who still knows how to love but you love differently\u2026<\/p>\n

Non hai idea di cosa sia il vero amore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Forse hai avuto un assaggio di come sarebbe dovuto essere all'inizio. All'inizio ha fatto la cosa giusta, ma era tutta una bugia.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t because he loved you, it was because he wanted to lure you, to imprison you and destroy you. You never felt real love with him.<\/p>\n

Now that you have met the right man, you don\u2019t know how to act around him. You doubt him and this unknown love you\u2019re receiving.<\/p>\n

Pensate che tutto sia una grande farsa, una bugia che poi vi coster\u00e0. Il suo amore vi confonde e ci vuole tempo perch\u00e9 vi rilassiate e vi apriate ad accettare qualcosa. che vi siete meritati fin dall'inizio.<\/a><\/p>\n

Avete problemi di fiducia<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have a voice of your own in your previous relationship. You were just an outline and he held the brush to fill you in with the colors he chose.<\/p>\n

You hated those colors, but you couldn\u2019t erase them until you took control, until you took the brush and repainted yourself.<\/p>\n

Si continuava a temere di essere costretti a rivivere l'intera vicenda dall'inizio.<\/p>\n

Non c'era fiducia. La vostra ultima relazione era costruita sulla menzogna.<\/p>\n

It will take time for you to trust someone again, but your new man knows that. That\u2019s why he gives you all the space you need.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t want to be hurt by the things you do out of fear. He knows you need time to heal and he will be there for you. He will wait for you because he loves you.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il capitolo del mio new book “On getting over a narcissist “<\/a> disponibile su Amazon qui<\/a> .<\/div>\n

You want to destroy everything that\u2019s good<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You subconsciously destroy your chance of happiness. You try to sabotage the only real relationship you\u2019ve ever had.<\/p>\n

Cerchi di scacciare l'unico uomo che ti abbia mai amato veramente.<\/p>\n

The fact he seems perfect scares you because the narcissistic bastard was also perfect, even too perfect, and you ended up in the lowest pit of your life\u2019s journey.<\/p>\n

You try to ruin your relationship now because you can\u2019t accept the fact that something good is happening to you.<\/p>\n

You were poisoned for too long and you are unable to accept that there\u2019s a clean and healthy life waiting for you.<\/p>\n

Vi scusate per tutto<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Eravate abituati a portare tutto il peso della vostra relazione. Eravate abituati ad essere sempre quelli in difetto.<\/p>\n

You actually thought everything was your fault. You were in dead-end situations, where you didn\u2019t know how to react properly, so you reached for an apology every time.<\/p>\n

Era l'unica cosa che sapeva sarebbe stata l'unica che avrebbe accettato.<\/p>\n

The man who truly loves you doesn\u2019t let you apologize all the time. The man who\u2019s trying to show you real love is ready to confess when he is wrong. He is ready to say, \u201cI\u2019m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n

You\u2019re distant<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci vorr\u00e0 tempo per lasciarsi andare e fidarsi di qualcuno.<\/a> Vi terrete a distanza perch\u00e9 state ancora soffrendo e non siete sicuri che questo ragazzo sia quello giusto.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been beaten and you still ache. You don\u2019t want to ache any more.<\/p>\n

Your heart is telling you it\u2019s okay and that you should allow him to get near you, but your mind keeps running away.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry. That period won\u2019t last forever. He won\u2019t let it last.<\/p>\n

He will fight with everything he\u2019s got to prove himself and to gain your trust. He will tie you gently with his love and you won\u2019t be able to escape. He won\u2019t let you.<\/p>\n

You are waiting for a \u2018boom\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There won\u2019t be any. You are insecure because things are running smoothly.<\/p>\n

He is the most wonderful man you\u2019ve ever met and he keeps showering you with all the love and attention you deserve.<\/p>\n

Non si ferma mai. State solo aspettando che le bugie vi rimbalzino addosso. State aspettando uno tsunami di bugie malvagie e manipolatrici, ma non c'\u00e8 nessuno tsunami davanti a voi.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che si vede \u00e8 un cielo limpido e un mare calmo.<\/p>\n

You keep your guard up because you are careful and scared. You\u2019ve built a wall around you, which he will tear down with his love to find you to cherish and nourish back to health.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il capitolo del mio new book “On getting over a narcissist “<\/a> disponibile su Amazon qui<\/a> .<\/p>\n

Avete bisogno di sentirvi al sicuro<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Avete bisogno di una promessa che tutto andr\u00e0 bene.<\/p>\n

You need him to make you believe that and it\u2019s hard because you have difficulties believing and you know it\u2019s not easy for him either.<\/p>\n

Avete bisogno di un posto sicuro dove siete amati e dove potete finalmente ricambiare l'amore.<\/p>\n

Avete bisogno di lui perch\u00e9 avete tutto questo amore da dare. Avete bisogno di lui per scacciare la paura e, con il vostro aiuto, aprire un nuovo capitolo della vostra vita e delle vostre vite insieme.<\/p>\n

He knows you love differently, that\u2019s why he loves you even more. You might have been broken when he met you, but you won\u2019t be for much longer.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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