{"id":76196,"date":"2020-06-01T10:32:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:32:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76196"},"modified":"2022-04-01T10:22:05","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T10:22:05","slug":"sei-esattamente-dove-hai-bisogno-di-essere-in-questo-momento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-esattamente-dove-hai-bisogno-di-essere-in-questo-momento\/","title":{"rendered":"Fidatevi di me, siete esattamente dove dovete essere in questo momento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Potreste sentirvi confusi, persi o infelici in questo momento, ma fidatevi di una cosa: siete esattamente dove avete bisogno di essere in questo momento! <\/span><\/p>\n

You are the result of four billion years of evolutionary success. You spent nine months in your mother’s womb, you gave your parents teenage nightmares, you cried, you laughed, you loved, you lived. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando vengono combinati, tutti questi momenti creano un bellissimo quadro chiamato vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is a mosaic of moments and paths. Every moment you have experienced and every path you’ve chosen taught you <\/i><\/b>lezioni preziose<\/i><\/b><\/a>. <\/i><\/b>And that’s how you got here. <\/span><\/p>\n

Voi siete il risultato di alti e bassi, di una <\/span>serie di eventi<\/span> e le esperienze che hanno plasmato il vostro <\/span>stato d'animo<\/span>. Voi siete il risultato del vostro viaggio unico chiamato VITA.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything you’ve been through has shaped you into the person you’re ought to become and brought you where you need to be right now!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Spesso dimentichiamo che la vita non \u00e8 solo momenti felici che condividiamo con i nostri amici. <\/span>persone care<\/span>. La vita \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 di questo: \u00e8 fatta di momenti felici e di momenti <\/span>tempi bui<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

The reason why we often think that we’re not where we’re supposed to be at the moment is that we don’t want to accept the other, darker, more challenging side of our life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando troviamo il lavoro perfetto, pensiamo a noi stessi: <\/span>This is exactly where I’m supposed to be at the moment.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ma se veniamo licenziati, pensiamo a noi stessi: <\/span>I’m doing something wrong. This cannot be something I’m supposed to be experiencing at the moment. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

When we meet the love of our life, we’re excited, grateful and happy. But when we break up with someone, we’re hurt, bitter and <\/span>infelice<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

We get convinced that whenever something bad happens, it’s definitely not something that should be happening to us. We start thinking that we’re on the wrong track and nothing will ever be the same for us.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ci\u00f2 che dimentichiamo \u00e8 quanto segue: <\/span>Le sfide e le difficolt\u00e0 sono ci\u00f2 che ci rende pi\u00f9 forti, pi\u00f9 coraggiosi e pi\u00f9 resistenti! <\/b>Dimentichiamo che se vogliamo vedere l'arcobaleno, dobbiamo affrontare la pioggia!<\/span><\/p>\n

Every single challenge or hardship you’re going through right now will help you grow into who you are meant to be!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se vi siete lasciati da poco con una persona, potreste sentirvi come se il vostro mondo fosse finito (soprattutto se provate ancora dei forti sentimenti per lei). Il motivo per cui vi sentite cos\u00ec \u00e8 il confronto.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we meet someone special and start dating them, our life becomes a few shades brighter and we’re feeling like: <\/span>This is it! I’m totally happy and I don’t want this to ever end. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We start believing that we’re exactly where we need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when we break up with someone, we instantly see it as a mistake, as something that shouldn’t have happened. Just because we’re unhappy at the moment, we start believing that we’re not where we need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

Come detto, questo accade a causa del confronto. Tendiamo a confrontare il nostro passato felice con il <\/span>momento presente<\/span> where we’re feeling unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

We start feeling like our world has just ended because we’re not in the same state as we used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, maybe that’s exactly where you NEED to be!<\/b><\/p>\n

Immaginate una vita senza dolore, lacrime o qualsiasi altro tipo di <\/span>emozione negativa<\/span><\/a>. Se vivessimo in un mondo cos\u00ec perfetto, saremmo in grado di distinguere tra positivo e negativo? Tra felicit\u00e0 e tristezza?<\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t think so. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se nella nostra vita tutto andasse liscio, non sapremmo mai come ci si sente quando il mondo va in pezzi. E soprattutto non avremmo mai l'opportunit\u00e0 di imparare dai nostri errori e dalle nostre scelte. <\/span><\/p>\n

If we lived in the promised land of milk and honey, we would never be able to appreciate any of it. We would take it for granted and see it as something that’s supposed to be so. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when life surprises us from time to time with challenges and battles, we’re always ready. We don’t live with a stagnant <\/span>stato d'animo<\/span> but an active one! And that’s the real beauty of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 una battaglia perenne e noi siamo un soldato che combatte per la propria felicit\u00e0.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ogni giorno \u00e8 fatto di migliaia di momenti che plasmano e sfidano il nostro pensiero, i nostri principi e le nostre convinzioni. Quei giorni diventano mesi, i mesi diventano anni e gli anni diventano il viaggio chiamato vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nel processo di tutto ci\u00f2, siete esattamente dove dovete essere ogni singolo secondo, ogni singolo giorno. E so che una delle <\/span>le cose pi\u00f9 difficili<\/span> nella vita \u00e8 crederci!<\/span><\/p>\n

I used to believe that I was not on the right track because my life was falling apart before my own eyes (or that’s what I thought). I felt helpless, hurt and broken. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was stuck in a toxic relationship for years and I’ve been fighting anxiety ever since and experiencing severe panic attacks on a daily basis. In between all that, I was trying to finish college and stay sane, at least partially.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was convinced that this was redemption for the sins of my ancestors because I can’t remember a single time I did something terribly wrong to someone to be punished that way. And the key word is: <\/span>PUNITO.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tutte le cose che stavo vivendo in quel periodo le vedevo come una punizione. In generale, ogni singola cosa negativa che mi \u00e8 capitata la classifico come una punizione per qualcosa. Ma per cosa? Esattamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non ho capito che la mia ipotesi era completamente sbagliata perch\u00e9 ero troppo occupato a sistemare le cose e a preoccuparmi del motivo per cui mi stavano accadendo, e non ho capito che in realt\u00e0 avevo un'idea di come fare. <\/span>buona vita<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Avevo persone che si preoccupavano per me, avevo una casa e del cibo ed ero generalmente in salute (se si esclude l'ansia, ovviamente).<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ho capito che ero sulla strada della scoperta di me stesso e dello sviluppo personale!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mi ci \u00e8 voluto un po' per capire le due cose seguenti: Vediamo ci\u00f2 che vogliamo vedere e crediamo a ci\u00f2 che vogliamo credere. <\/span><\/p>\n

I believed that I wasn’t exactly where I was supposed to be at that moment because I couldn’t find any single silver lining. Vedevo la mia relazione tossica e l'ansia come elementi esclusivamente distruttivi.<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

And do you know what I think of that today? Today, I’ve realized that all this time I was exactly where I needed to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho cambiato prospettiva e ho iniziato a vedere le cose sotto una luce diversa, pi\u00f9 luminosa. Ho finalmente capito che la mia relazione tossica era la lezione pi\u00f9 grande che dovevo imparare per diventare pi\u00f9 saggia in futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

The reason why I was stuck in such a relationship was that I was living in a delusional world, thinking that I didn’t deserve anything better. Once I decided to <\/span>andare avanti<\/span>Finalmente ho trovato il mio <\/span>il vero s\u00e9<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Per il <\/span>prima volta<\/span> in my life, I realized that all that time, I had been taking myself for granted and if it weren’t for that toxic relationship, I would probably be continuing to live in my own bubble. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non ho capito che ero sulla strada della scoperta dell'autostima e della <\/i><\/b>amore per se stessi<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Regarding my anxiety, you’re probably wondering how I can justify that. Where is the silver lining in being an anxious human being? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, there is. And it’s right in front of you. My anxious <\/span>stato d'animo<\/span> ha modificato notevolmente la mia prospettiva sulle cose e mi ha aiutato a evolvere come scrittore e artista astratto. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, instead of cursing my destiny and begging to be a regular human being without any flaws, I’m actually grateful for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because I know I’m exactly where I need to be right now. I know if I hadn’t gone through all those things in the past, I wouldn’t have become who I am today. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is never black or white. It’s always in a thousand shades of gray.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 un processo. La vita non \u00e8 avere tutto sotto controllo, essere felici 24 ore su 24, 7 giorni su 7, avere uno stipendio a sei cifre, un'auto costosa, e cos\u00ec via. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is what happens in the process of all that. If we focus on only one thing and that is buying that one expensive car, we’ll start living in our own artificial bubble, ignoring everything else around us. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we realize that we can’t afford that car anytime soon, we’ll start feeling like we aren’t where we’re supposed to be at the moment. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we put our happiness in other people’s hands or in the hands of things that are supposed to make us happy, we unwittingly start making ourself unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 la vita non \u00e8 mai bianca o nera. La vita non \u00e8 possedere cose, avere un corpo o dei capelli perfetti, avere dei profili perfetti su <\/span>social media<\/span> e cos\u00ec via.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you don’t have everything you always wanted at the moment, this doesn’t mean you’re not where you need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 un processo. Non \u00e8 mai stagnante. Se aveste l'opportunit\u00e0 di ottenere ogni singola cosa che sognate di avere, pensate che sareste esattamente dove dovete essere?<\/span><\/p>\n

Le lacrime che vi scorrono sul viso, il vostro sorriso, le vostre speranze e i vostri sogni fanno tutti parte di VOI e fanno tutti parte di ORA. <\/b><\/p>\n

No matter how hard it is to believe that you are exactly where you need to be right now, trust me, you are. \u2018After every storm comes a rainbow\u2019. And that’s the real beauty of the process called life.<\/span><\/p>\n

La bellezza sta nel fatto che l'anno prossimo, in questo preciso momento, sarete completamente diversi (mentalmente e fisicamente).<\/span><\/p>\n

Potreste aver lasciato il vostro attuale lavoro e aver trovato qualcosa di pi\u00f9 appagante, oppure potreste aver trovato un nuovo hobby che vi porta molta gioia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Potreste aver incontrato un nuovo fidanzato\/una nuova fidanzata che far\u00e0 al caso vostro. Potreste aver reso il mondo un posto migliore inventando un'invenzione stimolante che migliorer\u00e0 le nostre vite. <\/span><\/p>\n

Potreste essere diventati genitori, aver pianificato il vostro matrimonio con il vostro <\/span>fianc\u00e9<\/span> oppure potreste aver rotto con una persona con la quale state adesso. Eppure, sarete esattamente dove dovete essere. Perch\u00e9? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because life is never black or white. It’s always in a thousand shades of gray that are meant to be praised and discovered.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those shades are what make you who you are and there’s only one YOU in the whole wide world. Therefore, you are special and unique and you are exactly where you need to be!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If all of your friends are married or in a relationship and you’re still single, this doesn’t mean that you’re doing something wrong. If all of your close friends have jobs and you still don’t, this doesn’t mean you never will.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone’s path is different. Some people find their soulmate earlier than others and this doesn’t mean they’re on the right or wrong path.<\/span><\/p>\n

Alcune persone maturano prima e altre hanno bisogno di pi\u00f9 tempo, lezioni ed esperienze. Ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 il processo e non il risultato finale. <\/span><\/p>\n

What matters is the fact that you’re trying your best every single day and that you’re converting all the negativity into something meaningful and positive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 la vostra visione ottimistica e la vostra determinazione a <\/b>non arrendersi mai, qualunque cosa accada<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2018Quando la vita ti d\u00e0 limoni, fai la limonata<\/a>!\u2019 When you live each day as if it is your last helping those in need and making your <\/span>persone care<\/span> smile, then you know you’re doing your best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Allora sapete che siete esattamente dove dovete essere. Un abbraccio caloroso, una parola gentile e una mentalit\u00e0 positiva sono gli elementi che danno un senso alla vostra vita e la rendono pi\u00f9 ricca. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what you’re going through at the moment, there is always something positive in every situation. Your life is not a collection of ups and downs; it is a process that has brought you where you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, avreste potuto fare le cose in modo diverso, avreste potuto evitare di dire certe parole agli altri o avreste potuto trovare il coraggio di affrontare e fare le cose di cui avevate paura. <\/span><\/p>\n

But there are reasons why you didn’t. There’s a reason behind your every thought, word and action and that reason is what makes you <\/span>chi sei<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s a reason why you’re exactly where you are right now and not someplace else!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le vostre scelte, i vostri pensieri e le vostre azioni vi hanno portato esattamente dove dovete essere ora. Se guardate indietro alla catena di tutti gli eventi precedenti, lo noterete anche voi!<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that if I hadn\u2019t been in a toxic relationship, I wouldn’t have become who I am today and I wouldn’t appreciate a healthy relationship after that toxic one.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that if I hadn\u2019t made an effort in life, I wouldn’t be where I am today.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I know that if I hadn\u2019t turned up late for a lecture, I wouldn’t have accidentally sat next to a guy who would become a special person in my life. <\/span><\/p>\n

What’s interesting is that the only seat that was free was next to him so I had no choice. I had to sit next to him. Now, you can call it a coincidence or rather a <\/span>serie di eventi<\/span> che mi ha portato esattamente dove devo essere oggi.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, yes, everything happens for a reason and there’s a reason or a series of reasons why you’re exactly where you are right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Queste ragioni sono le vostre risposte a ogni domanda che inizia con le parole <\/b>e se<\/i><\/b> o <\/b>perch\u00e9<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you’ve seen that brilliant movie <\/span>Signor Nessuno<\/span><\/i>, then you understand what I’m talking about. Each thought and choice creates different chains of events\u2014different outcomes. And none of those outcomes are wrong or right… <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s because you are the result of four billion years of evolutionary success. You spent nine months in your mother’s womb, you gave your parents teenage nightmares, you cried, you laughed, you loved, you lived. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You read the entire article and absorbed my humble thoughts when you could have been someplace else absorbing someone else’s thoughts. So, trust me, you are exactly where you need to be right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Here’s Why Change Is Necessary For <\/span>Sviluppo personale<\/span> E crescita<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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