{"id":7658,"date":"2020-07-20T11:30:12","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T11:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7658"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:11:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:11:09","slug":"4-lotte-che-la-vita-alla-fine-rende-piu-forti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-lotte-che-la-vita-alla-fine-rende-piu-forti\/","title":{"rendered":"4 lotte nella vita che alla fine vi rendono pi\u00f9 forti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tutti noi affrontiamo esperienze difficili a un certo punto della vita. Alcune persone sono un po' pi\u00f9 fortunate e sembra che ricevano sempre le carte vincenti, mentre a voi capita una mano terribile.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to start feeling bitter towards people who seem to be getting it all. The truth is that everyone is struggling with something.<\/p>\n<p>The difference is how each individual comes out of that situation &#8211; does that struggle beat them down, or does it make them stronger?<\/p>\n<p>We all have a choice in our lives; we can ignore the experience and what it\u2019s trying to teach us, or we can use it to help ourselves become better and stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco alcuni esempi di lotte che tutti affrontano, ma che vi faranno capire il vostro valore e sapranno come prendervi cura di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Lasciare andare le cose<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-looking-at-lake.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda il lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-looking-at-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-looking-at-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-looking-at-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-looking-at-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-looking-at-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A volte lasciare andare qualcuno o qualcosa \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile da fare.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 come strappare una parte di te.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se il pensiero di vivere senza qualcuno sembra la cosa giusta da fare, ogni volta che ci proviamo diventa impossibile.<\/p>\n<p>You feel pressure in your chest and you even start crying. Understand that it\u2019s natural.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not the only one. It has happened before, and it will happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Quando finalmente si lascia andare quella persona, per quanto sia difficile, se ne esce pi\u00f9 forti.<\/p>\n<p>Capite che siete stati abbastanza forti da lasciarvi andare e che sarete in grado di farlo di nuovo, se necessario. Capite che chiudendo una porta se ne \u00e8 aperta un'altra.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Relazioni tossiche<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103991\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che urla a una donna in lacrime in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Attraversare una relazione tossica pu\u00f2 essere la migliore esperienza che si possa fare, ma perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Because no matter how hard it was to come out of it alive and sane, the aftermath of it will force you to take a look at what role you played in that relationship, how you behaved, and what path you\u2019re going to choose in the future.<\/p>\n<p>You certainly will not be willing to go through all of that again and you\u2019ll be smarter when choosing your next partner.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be able to recognize the parts of you that need to be changed, and the ones that need to be healed before trying again.<\/p>\n<p>Quella relazione che \u00e8 fallita miseramente e che vi ha fatto passare tanti guai, alla fine si \u00e8 rivelata un'esperienza piuttosto preziosa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lasciare il lavoro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-quiting-her-job.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che lascia il lavoro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-quiting-her-job.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-quiting-her-job-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-quiting-her-job-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-quiting-her-job-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-quiting-her-job-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non tutti hanno la fortuna di trovare il lavoro perfetto subito dopo aver terminato l'universit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Molte persone sono costrette a lavorare a qualcosa che trovano estenuante, noioso o frustrante.<\/p>\n<p>Some people think they\u2019re not good enough for something better and thus stay in that suffocating environment and just blend in. Others will eventually quit.<\/p>\n<p>Does that mean they\u2019re quitters? Losers? No, not at all.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/alexander-kjerulf\/top-10-bad-excuses-for-no_b_5203566.html\" rel=\"noopener\">Lasciare un lavoro che si odia<\/a> can be the best decision you ever made, even if it doesn\u2019t seem like the most rational one at that moment.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che smettendo di lavorare ci si d\u00e0 un'iniezione di fiducia, una motivazione in pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Because you\u2019re saying, \u201cYou know what? Fuck this! I deserve better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s empowering to take responsibility for your well-being and leaving something that makes you worth less than you actually are.<\/p>\n<p>Assicuratevi di avere un piano per sopravvivere finanziariamente fino a quando non troverete qualcosa di pi\u00f9 adatto a voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Affrontare una tragedia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are things in life we simply can\u2019t control and that is probably the worst part.<\/p>\n<p>The instant shock of losing a loved one or facing illness in the family can devastate us, especially if we don\u2019t have anyone besides us to support us.<\/p>\n<p>Sebbene ci voglia del tempo per capire dove ci si trova attualmente nella vita e come continuare a vivere senza qualcuno o qualcosa, alla fine si imparer\u00e0 a capire e a gestire le situazioni su cui non si ha alcun controllo, e si utilizzeranno queste abilit\u00e0 anche per altre cose nella vita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"4 lotte nella vita che alla fine vi rendono pi\u00f9 forti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all face tough experiences at some point in life. Some people get a bit luckier and they seem like they are always getting the winning cards, while you get dealt a terrible hand. It\u2019s easy to start feeling bitter towards people who seem to be getting it all. The truth is that everyone is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":103994,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7658","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/4-Struggles-In-Life-That-Ultimately-Make-You-Stronger.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7658","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7658"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7658\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7658"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7658"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7658"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}