{"id":7662,"date":"2020-08-01T11:50:55","date_gmt":"2020-08-01T11:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7662"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","slug":"lettera-ragazza-cuore-spezzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-ragazza-cuore-spezzato\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza con il cuore spezzato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear ‘You’,<\/i><\/p>\n

I know you’re hurting. I was there once before. I know you think the pain won\u2019t ever go away, but it will. I know it will because I don\u2019t feel it anymore and you won\u2019t either. Just hang in there a little longer.<\/p>\n

Every time you think you can\u2019t take it anymore, give yourself a small push and you will endure.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che volete piangere a dirotto, fatevi un favore e piangete. Lasciatevi seduti nella pozzanghera delle vostre lacrime sul pavimento del bagno. Dovete passare attraverso questo. Dovete piangere le vostre emozioni.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che sentite che il vostro cuore sta per esplodere e che qualcosa vi preme e vi trafigge nel petto, fate un respiro profondo. Siete voi la causa di ci\u00f2 che sta accadendo.<\/p>\n

State pensando troppo<\/a> and obsessing about searching for answers to \u2018why me?\u2019 and \u2018why couldn\u2019t it work?\u2019<\/p>\n

So che hai il cuore spezzato, perch\u00e9 lo vedo, per quanto tu cerchi di nasconderlo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You have that special smile that gives away your pain hiding behind it. You have that sparkle in your eyes that is a reflection of all the tears you\u2019ve spilled suffering.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi sentite come se una parte di voi fosse stata strappata via, come se non foste pi\u00f9 completi.<\/p>\n

You hate this feeling and you will do anything to distract yourself from thinking about the person who broke you to pieces. You\u2019ll meet new people and you\u2019ll visit places you always wanted to go.<\/p>\n

You look like you are defeated but that\u2019s far from the truth. You will never accept defeat and you will never surrender. You just need some time to let things cool down.<\/p>\n

You know you have to rise from the dead to continue living your beautiful life. It\u2019s just that at the moment you\u2019ve forgotten how blessed you are and what you have. You forgot because you\u2019re hurt.<\/p>\n

Dovete ricordare a voi stessi chi siete e cosa meritate. Dovete cambiare la vostra mentalit\u00e0 in modalit\u00e0 di sopravvivenza. Dovete liberarsi dal dolore.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Dovete uscire e ritrovare la fiducia in voi stessi. Dovete tornare a camminare per strada con orgoglio. Dovete catturare l'attenzione di ogni uomo che incontrate e farvi invidiare da ogni donna.<\/p>\n

Put your foot down and decide that you have to bring back your self-esteem and respect. Broken hearts don\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You may forgive him for all the pain he caused you, but you will never forget how much it hurt. You will never forget all those sleepless nights and even days when you couldn\u2019t get up from the bed.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t forget the tears you\u2019ve cried calling out his name. You won\u2019t forget how many times you\u2019ve tried to knock him out of your head, but you couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You promised yourself that you will never let this happen again. You\u2019re never going to let your heart get broken. You decided you won\u2019t be naive and that you won\u2019t fall in love this hard, ever again.<\/p>\n

You promised yourself all of that, but you know it won\u2019t come true. You know it\u2019s impossible and you know it\u2019s not up to you to decide.<\/p>\n

Your heart has a mind of its own. You know it and yet you\u2019re ready to survive anything – maybe even another heartbreak. You know you can. You\u2019re strong.<\/p>\n

Cordiali saluti,<\/i><\/p>\n

La ragazza con il cuore spezzato<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Lettera<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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