{"id":76724,"date":"2020-06-05T13:33:26","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:33:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76724"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:54:15","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:54:15","slug":"le-cose-che-una-donna-forte-vi-dira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-cose-che-una-donna-forte-vi-dira\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose che una donna forte vi dir\u00e0 quando le chiederete una seconda possibilit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nella maggior parte dei casi, quando si chiede una seconda possibilit\u00e0 a una ragazza a cui si \u00e8 gi\u00e0 spezzato il cuore, le cose vanno bene.<\/p>\n

Fate del vostro meglio per convincerla che siete cambiati e che non ripeterete mai i vostri errori, cos\u00ec dopo un po' finisce per perdonarvi.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, le cose sono diverse quando si tratta di una donna veramente forte. Infatti, ecco 5 cose che questo tipo di ragazza vi dir\u00e0 quando verrete a chiederle un'altra possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

1. I\u2019m not your safety net<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Quando hai lasciato questa ragazza, eri cos\u00ec pieno di te. Pensavi di poter uscire e trovare in un attimo una persona migliore di lei.<\/p>\n

Stanco di avere una relazione seria, hai pensato che sarebbe stato bello provare la vita da scapolo.<\/p>\n

However, not one of your plans worked out. In fact, you realized that she was nowhere to be found and you can\u2019t replace her as easily as you were convinced you would.<\/p>\n

Tutte quelle ragazze e quei falsi amici che continuavi a mettere davanti a lei hanno finito per voltarti le spalle. Nessuno era l\u00ec per aiutarti e, una dopo l'altra, alla fine ti hanno abbandonato tutte.<\/p>\n

So, now, when you have no one else to turn to, you assumed that you could come crawling back to her. Well, I hate to break it to you, but this girl will just tell you that she won\u2019t be your safety net.<\/p>\n

She is not your back up plan \u2013 someone who will always wait for you with her arms and doors wide open. She is nobody\u2019s seconda scelta<\/a> e soprattutto non il vostro.<\/p>\n

2. I\u2019ve outgrown you<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Quando uscivate insieme, questa donna non vi ha mai visto con chiarezza. Dopo tutto, era cos\u00ec innamorata di te che ti ha idealizzato e ha romanticizzato la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Pensava che tu fossi l'uomo migliore che potesse mai incontrare. Eri l'uomo pi\u00f9 intelligente, pi\u00f9 bello, pi\u00f9 divertente e pi\u00f9 interessante del mondo.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, dopo che ti sei allontanato da lei, \u00e8 riuscita a togliersi gli occhiali rosa. Ha finalmente visto i tuoi veri colori.<\/p>\n

Now this girl realizes that you are not worthy. You\u2019re not the guy she thought you were and she can definitely do much better.<\/p>\n

So, if you appear on her doorstep, begging for a second chance, I guarantee you that she\u2019ll tell you that she\u2019s outgrown you.<\/p>\n

No, she won\u2019t utter these words to humiliate you or destroy your ego, she will tell you this since it\u2019s merely the truth.<\/p>\n

3. I\u2019m not giving you the green light to keep on hurting me<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Tutte le ragazze forti sanno bene una cosa: Dare a qualcuno un'altra possibilit\u00e0<\/a> \u00e8 uguale a dargli il permesso di continuare a trattarti come uno zerbino.<\/p>\n

Significa dargli il via libera per spezzarle ancora una volta il cuore.<\/p>\n

The same is with this girl. She doesn\u2019t fool herself by believing that you won\u2019t repeat your mistakes.<\/p>\n

Infatti, sa che gli uomini tossici come te non cambiano mai. Quindi, perch\u00e9 mai dovrebbe lasciarti entrare nella sua vita, solo perch\u00e9 tu possa distruggerla di nuovo e farne un disastro?<\/p>\n

You see, for a woman like her, one strike is more than enough. The last thing she needs is reassurance that you\u2019re the same douchebag you\u2019ve already proven to be.<\/p>\n

Besides, she doesn\u2019t want to turn your relationship into you leaving her and coming back whenever you please. She respects herself more than that!<\/p>\n

4. Avreste dovuto pensare a tutto questo per tempo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you repent for your bad deeds, you usually start acting like you\u2019ve finally seen the light after spending most of your life in darkness.<\/p>\n

Therefore, when you come asking for a second chance, you\u2019ll probably tell your girl that you\u2019ve realized everything.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll chiedere il suo perdono<\/a> e cercare di convincerla che solo ora vedi che donna straordinaria \u00e8.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced life without her and it\u2019s made you realize she is the only one you could ever love, the only one you can see yourself next to.<\/p>\n

Beh, una volta una donna forte<\/a> hears all this, she\u2019ll just tell you that you should have thought of your actions while you were doing them.<\/p>\n

This might sound brutal, but it\u2019s pretty realistic since now it\u2019s too late to make any difference.<\/p>\n

5. Ti ho amato ma non pi\u00f9<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Let me put it straight. Despite everything you did to this girl, she\u2019ll never try annulling your relationship.<\/p>\n

Despite the outcome of your romance and the way it ended, she won\u2019t try to diminish it and represent it as completely irrelevant.<\/p>\n

Therefore, she won\u2019t do her best to convince you that she never loved you. She did care for you very much and she doesn\u2019t have trouble admitting that.<\/p>\n

However, she doesn\u2019t love you anymore and would never be with a man she has no feelings for.<\/p>\n

After all, you killed all the emotions she had, so there you go: now you\u2019re just enjoying the product of your own doing!<\/p>\n

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