{"id":7674,"date":"2020-07-30T12:25:58","date_gmt":"2020-07-30T12:25:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7674"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:40:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:40:28","slug":"non-perdere-il-sentimento-damore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-perdere-il-sentimento-damore\/","title":{"rendered":"Non vi manca lui - vi manca la sensazione di essere innamorati"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A volte siamo pi\u00f9 legati a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/lexi-herrick\/25-moments-that-make-being-in-love-so-incredible_b_5770106.html\" rel=\"noopener\">la sensazione di essere innamorati<\/a> che su una persona. Succede pi\u00f9 spesso di quanto si possa pensare.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec cadiamo in una trappola e di solito finiamo per tornare insieme al nostro ex, anche se non \u00e8 lui che ci manca davvero. Ci manca il sentimento che poteva suscitare in noi.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ci manca il calore di un'altra persona. Ci manca il senso di appartenenza. Ci manca la nostra mano nella sua mano. Ci manca la pressione delle nostre labbra sulle sue. Ci mancano gli abbracci che portano via tutti i nostri problemi. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>We miss laughing and sharing stories. We miss intimacy. We crave that feeling of being in love. It\u2019s so addictive that sometimes we forget that we have common sense.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cos\u00ec finiamo per pensare che non potremmo mai provare questo tipo di amore verso un altro uomo.<\/strong> Allontaniamo tutti.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t allow anyone else to come even close because we are so obsessed with our ex. But that\u2019s just it &#8211; a pure obsession.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110472\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che siede in salotto e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una sorta di illusione che abbiamo creato nella nostra testa e che ci fa credere che sia amore. Per farci credere che ci manca.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dimentichiamo che esiste un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/susan-campos\/5-reasons-the-ex-is-your-_b_3698231.html\" rel=\"noopener\">motivo per cui \u00e8 diventato un ex<\/a> in primo luogo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Regardless of whether he was the one leaving or we were the one walking away, it wasn\u2019t for nothing. Something was way off in that relationship to cause it to break.<\/p>\n<p>Ma inganniamo la nostra mente e pensiamo solo alle cose belle, alle cose romantiche che ci mancano. Lo rivogliamo cos\u00ec tanto che sentiamo persino quanto siamo disperate.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t realize that he is not the one for us, that we are just making the same mistake over and over again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The truth is the same person who broke your heart can\u2019t be the one to repair it. He is not unique. He is not special. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E non \u00e8 l'unico che pu\u00f2 farvi sentire cos\u00ec. Ce ne sono milioni come lui. Quello di cui hai bisogno \u00e8 qualcuno di meglio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110474\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 c'\u00e8 qualcuno di meglio l\u00e0 fuori. Dovete solo essere pazienti. Bisogna far fruttare il proprio tempo. Devi creare amore per te stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete rendervi conto che l'amore che desiderate tanto lo avete voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>You have it with your family and friends. You have it in the things that inspire you. You have to realize that that\u2019s what you were missing when you were with him &#8211; self-love.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/miss-the-idea-of-them\/1029703\" rel=\"noopener\">You don\u2019t miss the person, you miss the feelings you had when you were with him.<\/a> You miss the safety, love, and passion you had. Don\u2019t make that person more valuable than they ever were.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go back to the one who hurt you only because you miss the feeling of being in love. You fail to realize that all the feelings were created inside of you and that you are the only one who can control them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You miss the love that you had. Had as in the past perfect tense. It\u2019s something that finished. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Qualcosa che non pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 <\/strong>pu\u00f2<strong> be. So, even if you got it back, it would never be the same. The things you are missing are the parts of your past memories. It\u2019s time to make new ones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110483\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non vi manca lui - vi manca la sensazione di essere innamorate\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we are more hooked on the feeling of being in love than on a person. It happens more often than one would think. So we fall into a trap and we usually end up getting back together with our ex, even though he is not the one we really miss. We miss the feeling&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":110477,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Dont-Miss-Him-You-Miss-The-Feeling-Of-Being-In-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7674","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7674"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7674\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7674"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7674"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7674"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}