{"id":7678,"date":"2017-10-30T12:35:19","date_gmt":"2017-10-30T12:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7678"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:40:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:40:37","slug":"una-grande-differenza-nel-collegare-qualcuno-che-ama-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-grande-differenza-nel-collegare-qualcuno-che-ama-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"C'\u00e8 una grande differenza tra il legame con qualcuno e l'amore per una persona"},"content":{"rendered":"

I had this guy tell me once: \u201cI connect with you so much.\u201d I didn’t understand what he meant. I was like, \u201cReally?? Who says that?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

At the time, it didn’t mean much to me because I didn’t quite feel a \u201cconnection\u201d moment. I knew I liked him a ton, maybe even almost loved him. I couldn’t understand why he used \u2018connection\u2019 rather than simple terms like \u201cI enjoy spending time with you.\u201d or \u201cI like you.\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questo ragazzo era molto pi\u00f9 maturo di me, quindi usava parole diverse dalle mie per descrivere i suoi sentimenti. Decisi quindi di dare tempo al tempo per vedere se sentivo questo legame o per vedere se avrebbe mai cambiato le sue parole.<\/span><\/p>\n

There was this day where we were just laying there, and I looked into his eyes and finally it clicked\u2014I had that connection moment. It was the best feeling ever, a feeling that every girl should experience. The feeling of \u201cthis is the only place I’m meant to be in the world right now, is here with you and nowhere else\u201d. The best part about this connection was that I knew he felt the exact same way. He gave me this look that will stay in my mind forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, there have been a couple of guys who told me they loved me and I couldn’t remember a time when I actually felt love. I saw nothing behind their eyes. I realized it is because connecting with someone is so much different than loving someone. To love someone is to care about them and never want to hurt them. To sacrifice your happiness for theirs. Take care of their hearts. Basically, anything mushy you could add to that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every woman wants to hear those three words, but does it mean anything when they are forced? Or you don’t feel anything behind those actual words? Loving someone almost seems like a responsibility, a good responsibility, but sometimes it might not be the most romantic thing to hear. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, all women want to be cared for and protected, but sometimes we just want to connect, even if it doesn’t mean a commitment. Commitments are sometimes overwhelming. There is nothing better than enjoying that carefree time you have with each other, connecting and building the foundation of your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

Women shouldn’t worry so much about getting your man to say, \u201cI love you.\u201d Society puts so much pressure on relationships and bases the seriousness of the relationship on \u2018I love you\u2019, <\/a>engagements, kids and so forth. Women need to be strong and build that connection first and not have to worry in a relationship. Trust your man and what he says. Sometimes we don’t hear what we want to hear, but take time to actually feel what he is saying.<\/span><\/p>\n

by\u00a0Kathleen Boers<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I had this guy tell me once: \u201cI connect with you so much.\u201d I didn’t understand what he meant. I was like, \u201cReally?? Who says that?\u201d At the time, it didn’t mean much to me because I didn’t quite feel a \u201cconnection\u201d moment. I knew I liked him a ton, maybe even almost loved him….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":7685,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/joanna-nix-378111.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7678"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7678\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7685"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}