{"id":7716,"date":"2017-10-30T14:37:37","date_gmt":"2017-10-30T14:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7716"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:28:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:28:55","slug":"osa-chiedere-a-ive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/osa-chiedere-a-ive\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti sfido a chiedermi come sono stato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dopo tutto quello che abbiamo significato l'uno per l'altro, dopo tutto il nostro amore, dopo tutti quei momenti che abbiamo vissuto, dopo tutto questo tempo che ora ci separa, I honestly don\u2019t want you anymore<\/a>. I am finally ready to say, \u201cNo\u201d to you. I\u2019m finally ready to move on. But it still hurts.<\/p>\n

I loved you and you loved me. And I know what we had was real. I hoped it would last. I was so happy to find my soulmate. I was happy to have someone like you in my life. I felt so blessed to have you love me. But no matter how I felt, things didn’t work out. Sometimes love itself isn\u2019t enough. Sometimes life gets in the way. Sometimes we allow our pride to take over. Sometimes we chose our ego over our love. And sometimes we lose the ones we love, even if we\u2019d like things to go in a different direction.<\/p>\n

I know that what we had was real, thanks to the pain I felt after it was over. I always knew that if our love ever came to an end, I\u2019d end up being broken. And that\u2019s exactly what happened.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We loved each other unconditionally and then, all of a sudden, I wasn\u2019t good enough for you anymore. All you said you felt for me suddenly went away and you gave up on me. You gave up on me so easily. And there wasn\u2019t anything I could possibly do. I was just left with my heart broken by you and instead of blood, I had pain and love leaking from the cracks.<\/p>\n

Un momento mi amavi e quello dopo te ne andavi dalla mia vita. Un momento ti sei preso cura di me e un momento dopo te ne sei andato senza mai voltarti indietro. Hai fatto a pezzi tutto ci\u00f2 che ci teneva uniti e sei andato avanti. Un momento prima il mio appartamento era pieno di cose tue e un momento dopo te ne andavi con tutte le tue cose in una sola valigia.<\/p>\n

I know our story ended, and this is not about getting you back. I know there is no more us, but what kills me the most is your coldness. It kills me the most to know you didn\u2019t even care enough to call and see how I\u2019ve been. You just gave up.<\/p>\n

Eravamo amici prima di essere amanti. You promised you\u2019d always care.<\/a> Why haven\u2019t you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ti<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to tell me why you never checked up on me after you left. I know you too well.<\/p>\n

You never asked how I\u2019ve been because you never had the courage to see what kind of mess you left.<\/p>\n

You never asked me how I\u2019ve been because you couldn\u2019t confront me after you broke me.<\/p>\n

And you never asked me how I\u2019ve been because you were scared to see if I\u2019d moved on.<\/p>\n

But, honestly, I am glad we haven’t had the conversation up to this moment. I\u2019m glad you never called and I\u2019m glad you never had the chance to see me broken. I\u2019d never been such a wreck in my entire life as I was after you left. And I promise I never will be again.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve picked myself up. <\/a>After all this time, after you left, after being on my own and after beating myself up for not being able to stop you, I learned to let go. I learned you can never keep those who have headed out of your life, no matter how much you loved them. I learned that the people you love don\u2019t necessarily stay in your life. And I learned that those who promise to love you won\u2019t always love you forever. So I picked up my broken heart and I moved on. And now I\u2019m ready.<\/p>\n

Now I want you to ask me how I\u2019ve been. Now I dare you to ask me how I’ve been without you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you how painful it was, but you won\u2019t get to see it. I\u2019ll tell you how much I missed you, but you won\u2019t be able to wrap your head around it. I’ll tell you it still hurts, but that I’m fine. And that last one will hit you hard.<\/p>\n

Because I am fine. I\u2019m finally fine without you. I finally moved on with my life. I finally let the love I had for you go. I let you go and I allowed myself to fall because I knew I\u2019d find the strength to get up and move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you anymore. I don\u2019t need your love anymore. I don\u2019t wait for your call anymore. But I dare you to call me now. I dare you to hear how good I\u2019m doing now in life.<\/p>\n

Ti sfido a guardarmi negli occhi, la ragazza che hai rotto<\/a>, and see that I haven’t remained broken. Do you have the courage?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

After all we meant to each other, after all of our love, after all those moments we had, after all this time that now stands between us, I honestly don\u2019t want you anymore. I am finally ready to say, \u201cNo\u201d to you. I\u2019m finally ready to move on. But it still hurts. I loved you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":7719,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7716","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/freestocks-org-140131-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7716","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7716"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7716\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}