{"id":7769,"date":"2017-10-31T12:59:35","date_gmt":"2017-10-31T12:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7769"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:33:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:33:23","slug":"5-modi-in-cui-la-ragazza-dal-cuore-tenero-e-dalla-mente-dura-ama-in-modo-diverso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-in-cui-la-ragazza-dal-cuore-tenero-e-dalla-mente-dura-ama-in-modo-diverso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi in cui la ragazza dal cuore tenero e dalla mente severa ama in modo diverso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il vostro cuore vi dice una cosa e voi vorreste tanto ascoltarla, ma la vostra mente interferisce e vi ferma. La mente \u00e8 la voce della ragione, la voce di ci\u00f2 che dovrebbe essere giusto, ma il cuore vuole fare le cose a modo suo.<\/p>\n

Although you know you should listen to what the reasonable part of you is saying, you can\u2019t help but listen to your emotions, to something you really want to do and not something you should do just because it\u2019s right.<\/p>\n

Ti hanno spezzato il cuore cos\u00ec tante volte<\/a>, so you built this cold and harsh exterior to prevent that from happening ever again. You\u2019ve become strong and not because you wanted to, but because you had to.<\/p>\n

Un tempo, portavi il tuo cuore sulla manica. Una volta hai dato a tutti una seconda possibilit\u00e0. Una volta il tuo cuore tenero era sotto gli occhi di tutti. Ma qualcuno ha usato la tua gentilezza e qualcuno ha usato il tuo cuore fragile e amorevole e ti ha fatto chiudere e nascondere nella tua sofferenza.<\/p>\n

Avete negato a chiunque di dare una sbirciatina a quello che c'\u00e8 dentro di voi. Avete avuto paura di mostrare i vostri sentimenti. Siete diventati guardinghi.<\/p>\n

Your cold and harsh shell hides your vulnerability. You\u2019ve put it on like a little black dress before going out. That is not you, it\u2019s just how others see you. Yet, underneath that facade, there is still a girl who knows how to love. There is still a warm and caring person with a soft heart, waiting to love someone differently.<\/p>\n

1. You know how to appreciate happiness because you\u2019ve seen sorrow<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

L'unica cosa che hai sempre voluto fare \u00e8 rendere felici gli altri. Volevi aiutare chi aveva bisogno di te e ti sei sempre data completamente, perch\u00e9 sapevi di poter aiutare. Hai aperto il tuo cuore e hai lasciato entrare tutti. In questo modo, hai migliorato la loro giornata e li hai aiutati a risolvere i loro problemi, facendo sentire meglio anche te.<\/p>\n

Ma molti di loro hanno usato la tua gentilezza e il tuo buon cuore. Molti di loro hanno approfittato di te quando avevano bisogno di te, e poi ti hanno gettato via quando hanno finito. Molti di loro hanno spezzato il tuo fragile cuoricino.<\/p>\n

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2. You\u2019ve built walls around yourself for a reason<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You\u2019re not going to let your guard down so easily now. You\u2019ve been broken and hurt once<\/a> and that was enough to lock yourself away from the world. It\u2019s easy to act like you don\u2019t have any feelings; it\u2019s easy to pretend like nothing bothers you.<\/p>\n

But if someone sticks around long enough, if someone sees right through you and knows you\u2019re the complete opposite on the inside than from what they see on the outside, then your walls will go down. You will tear them down, because you can\u2019t act like something you\u2019re not for too long.<\/p>\n

3. Usate i fatti e non le parole<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Words don\u2019t mean anything to you, not anymore. You\u2019ve heard so much, you\u2019ve been promised so much, and none of it came true. You don\u2019t believe what others say to you and you don\u2019t say anything yourself either. Deeds are what count and you know that.<\/p>\n

It is hard for you to tell someone how much you love them but that\u2019s why you are going to show it instead now. You will surprise him when he least expects it, you will send him a text out of the blue or you\u2019re going to buy him some candy just because you are thinking of him.<\/p>\n

4. Siete guardinghi, ma credete ancora nell'amore<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t want to love anyone ever again<\/a>. Segretamente, sognate di incontrare il vostro vero amore e pensate che voi due stiate perfettamente insieme. In silenzio desiderate l'amore, quello che spezzer\u00e0 la durezza del vostro viso e lascer\u00e0 che la morbidezza del vostro cuore prenda il sopravvento.<\/p>\n

Prima eravate a pezzi, ma quando arriver\u00e0 l'uomo giusto, vi darete a lui e gli dimostrerete che sotto quella scorza ruvida, c'\u00e8 un cuore enorme e una bellezza da amare.<\/p>\n

5. C'\u00e8 molto di pi\u00f9 in voi di quanto si possa vedere<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

People misjudge you all the time. As soon as they see you, they say you\u2019re cold-hearted. They say you don\u2019t have any feelings whatsoever. Then, they don\u2019t even care about whether they hurt you or not, because they assume nothing can touch you. They couldn\u2019t be more wrong.<\/p>\n

Some people, like you, hide their goodness and softness and that can even be a good thing, because only the right man will figure out that your harsh exterior is just a tool to mask your soft heart. So why bother with the ones who think you\u2019re simply cold and nothing more?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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