{"id":77881,"date":"2020-06-05T13:23:53","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=77881"},"modified":"2022-01-10T03:05:49","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T03:05:49","slug":"sono-orgoglioso-di-me-stesso-per-essere-stato-abbastanza-forte-da-lasciarti-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sono-orgoglioso-di-me-stesso-per-essere-stato-abbastanza-forte-da-lasciarti-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Sono orgoglioso di me stesso per essere stato abbastanza forte da lasciarti andare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Prima di iniziare, voglio fare un brindisi. Alla donna pi\u00f9 coraggiosa, forte, testarda e impavida che io conosca. Salute a me!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, davvero, me lo merito. Ne ho passate tante, ma sono ancora qui, ancora viva, ancora speranzosa in un domani migliore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Il pi\u00f9 coraggioso?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Ho amato un uomo pi\u00f9 di quanto abbia mai amato nessuno prima. Diavolo, pi\u00f9 di quanto abbia mai amato me stessa.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ma, io <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mettete-da-parte-i-vostri-sentimenti-e-ricordate-cio-che-meritate\/\">mettere da parte tutti questi sentimenti intensi e profondi<\/a> and chose to save myself before it was too late. Yes, as you probably guessed, that man didn&#8217;t love me back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Il pi\u00f9 forte? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He broke my heart, but I didn&#8217;t allow him to break me. I <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/non-si-puo-nascere-forti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">era abbastanza forte<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> per dire: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s enough<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Sono la donna pi\u00f9 forte perch\u00e9 sono riuscita a guarire e ad andare avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Testardo? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ammetto di essere probabilmente la persona pi\u00f9 testarda che conosca, e ringrazio Dio per questo. La mia testardaggine mi ha fatto andare avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I promised myself that someday he\u2019d regret treating me badly, and I didn&#8217;t stop until I got what I wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con maglione grigio seduta al chiuso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Senza paura? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I also admit that I was afraid sometimes. I was afraid of my loneliness. I was afraid for my mental health. I constantly feared I&#8217;d never be able to heal from this heartbreak completely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'ho fatto. Sono guarita e sono andata avanti. Ho continuato la mia vita. Sono in grado di sorridere di nuovo e di divertirmi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think I am even able to open the doors to a new love, which I closed a long time ago because I didn&#8217;t want someone to hurt me as you did ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando ho deciso che era arrivato il momento di lasciarti andare, ho passato tanti giorni e tante notti nel mio letto a piangere, con l'aiuto del mio fedele amico<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> gelato.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Poi ho deciso che dovevo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-modi-per-smettere-di-piangersi-addosso-dopo-che-lui-se-ne-andato\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">smettete di dispiacervi <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">per me stessa e cambiare alcune cose. Sono saltata gi\u00f9 dal letto, mi sono tolta il pigiama e mi sono vestita per il successo.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho lavorato duramente ogni giorno su me stessa. Sui miei sogni e sui miei obiettivi. Volevo fargli capire che <\/span><b><i>il suo pi\u00f9 grande errore nella vita \u00e8 stato darmi per scontata e alla fine perdermi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I admit, there are still some scars on my heart and soul. I\u2019ve decided I won&#8217;t try to heal those. I want to leave them there forever.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve learned to live with my scars. Now, they serve as a reminder of my past. Each one of my scars serves as a lesson.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The scar on my soul teaches me that I shouldn&#8217;t trust all people easily. That they should first show me that they&#8217;re trustworthy and earn my trust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quella sul mio cuore mi insegna che devo stare attenta la prossima volta che decido di dare a qualcuno il mio amore e che devo credere che qualcuno mi ami solo quando me lo dimostra con le sue azioni.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/le-tue-parole-non-significano-nulla-se-non-le-sostieni-con-i-fatti\/\"><b><i>Le parole sono davvero prive di significato<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> quando si tratta di amore.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le mie cicatrici sono una sorta di protezione per me. Vedi, prima che tu entrassi nella mia vita, credevo sinceramente che tutte le persone fossero buone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77890 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta vicino a piante e recinzione che guarda il mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-near-plants-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was just a silly and naive young girl. I thought that I didn\u2019t need to be careful with men or protect myself from being hurt.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After you, I put my guard very high up. I stopped needing people. I didn&#8217;t want to let anyone in my life again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La nostra relazione tossica mi ha insegnato alcune cose, dopotutto. <\/span><b><i>It\u2019s taught me that it&#8217;s time to put myself on the throne of my life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am the only person I can always rely on. I am the only person that\u2019s helped me and been there with me when no one else was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi ci \u00e8 voluto un po' di tempo e un terribile colpo di fulmine, ma sono riuscita a lasciarti una volta per tutte, per poi farti capire che ero una ragazza irripetibile e rimpiangere di avermi persa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sono sicuro che il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-la-donna-di-cui-avevi-bisogno\/\">la versione futura di me \u00e8 orgogliosa della donna che quella sciocca, piccola ragazza sta diventando<\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-77913 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Sono orgoglioso di me stesso per essere stato abbastanza forte da lasciarti andare\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before I get started, I want to make a toast. Here is to the bravest, strongest, most stubborn and fearless woman I know. Cheers to me! No really, I deserve it. I went through so much but I am still here, still alive, still hoping for a better tomorrow. Bravest? I loved a man more&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":77883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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