{"id":7849,"date":"2017-11-01T14:24:29","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T14:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7849"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:05:32","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:05:32","slug":"innamorarsi-di-una-persona-sbagliata-qualcosa-di-cui-non-si-puo-fare-a-meno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/innamorarsi-di-una-persona-sbagliata-qualcosa-di-cui-non-si-puo-fare-a-meno\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 innamorarsi della persona sbagliata \u00e8 qualcosa che bisogna fare almeno una volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando finisce una relazione sbagliata, siamo cos\u00ec svuotati ed esausti che non vogliamo sapere nulla dell'amore. Giuriamo su tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 sacro che non ci innamoreremo mai pi\u00f9. Una relazione sbagliata \u00e8 stata una lezione imparata<\/a> but we don\u2019t want to hear it at the time. So, we build walls around our hearts so high that no one could climb them.<\/p>\n

We look at broken relationships like they\u2019re the end of the world as we know it. They\u2019re bad. Ugly. It hurts. It\u2019s all but pretty. They leave us in mess and feeling like a walking disaster.<\/p>\n

Ci dimentichiamo del significato del tempo nella nostra vita. Il tempo \u00e8 la cura pi\u00f9 importante per ogni cosa. Il tempo ci fa vedere le cose da un'altra prospettiva. Quando prendiamo le distanze dalla negativit\u00e0 causata dalle persone sbagliate, riusciamo a capire perch\u00e9 un
\nIl cuore spezzato potrebbe essere la cosa migliore che ci sia capitata.<\/p>\n

In primo luogo, abbiamo imparato la lezione. Forse non siamo disposti a rendercene conto, ma \u00e8 cos\u00ec. Non impariamo mai nulla nella vita quando tutto \u00e8 arcobaleno e sole. Impariamo dalle piogge e dalle tempeste. Impariamo dai nostri errori.<\/a> We learn where we went wrong so we don\u2019t make the same mistakes next time.<\/p>\n

Of course, there will always be mistakes that we will make three, four, five times just to make sure they are really mistakes. That\u2019s also something we shouldn\u2019t regret. We behaved as we felt at the time and we stayed true to our hearts.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Perch\u00e9<\/p>\n

A volte ci vuole pi\u00f9 tempo per capire che siamo in una situazione negativa. A volte siamo troppo vicini per capire che qualcuno \u00e8 sbagliato per noi.<\/p>\n

The biggest lesson we learned here that is that sometimes we can\u2019t trust our hearts to make decisions\u2014we have to take our brain with us, too. Because the heart can mislead. It makes us look at things through rose-colored glasses. It makes us forgive when things can\u2019t be forgiven. It makes us forget the unforgettable.<\/p>\n

But when we distance ourselves from the wrong person, only then we can see where we went wrong. That\u2019s when we can see clearly. That\u2019s when everything starts making sense.<\/p>\n

Non dovremmo mai pentirci. Tutte le lacrime, il sudore e il sangue che abbiamo versato, tutte le volte che abbiamo fallito, ne \u00e8 valsa la pena. Ci abbiamo provato. Il ragazzo sbagliato era l\u00ec per farci capire cosa non \u00e8 l'amore.
\nLove isn\u2019t what you had with him.<\/a> Love isn\u2019t one-sided. Love is hard work but not constant sacrifice. Love isn\u2019t supposed to hurt\u2014love should be kind. Love isn\u2019t what somebody says, it is what somebody does.<\/p>\n

With the wrong person, the timing will always be wrong. It will always be too soon for certain things. He won\u2019t ever be ready. He won\u2019t be ready to give his all. He won\u2019t be ready to commit. When he comes to his senses, it will be too late for you. It will always be too late for him to change. Because you will be someone else without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let one bad relationship close your heart. Take down those walls you built because of the wrong guy. Don\u2019t let him keep you away from the right one<\/a>. Don\u2019t let him influence your life.<\/p>\n

Tenete presente che una relazione sbagliata era destinata ad accadere. C'\u00e8 qualcosa di gratificante nell'imparare a conoscere se stessi attraverso il dolore causato dalla persona sbagliata. Siate grati che sia successo perch\u00e9 avete imparato. Siate grati di esservi liberati di lui in tempo.<\/p>\n

Dovevi stare con l'uomo sbagliato per poter riconoscere quello giusto quando arrivava. Hai dovuto stare con l'uomo sbagliato per non avere dubbi quando arriva quello giusto.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When a bad relationship ends, we are so drained and so exhausted that we don\u2019t want to know anything about love. We swear by everything that is holy we will never fall in love again. A bad relationship was a lesson learned but we don\u2019t want to hear it at the time. So, we build…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":7854,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pablo-varela-311608-1.jpg",800,599,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7849"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7849\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}