{"id":78753,"date":"2020-06-05T13:28:31","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:28:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=78753"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:17:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:17:05","slug":"la-ragazza-tranquilla-che-conoscevi-non-esiste-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-tranquilla-che-conoscevi-non-esiste-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Quella ragazza tranquilla che conoscevi non esiste pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"

You should stop trying to contact me because you won’t find what you’re looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un anno pu\u00f2 fare molto per una persona. Solo un anno fa, tutto era diverso. Non avrei mai potuto immaginare che tante cose potessero cambiare in cos\u00ec poco tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

I suppose it’s just how life is; full of radical changes and so unpredictable that you can never know what will happen next.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto \u00e8 iniziato un anno fa. Il momento di chiarezza mi ha colpito come una tonnellata di mattoni. Sapevo che era arrivato il momento di cambiare.<\/span><\/p>\n

Proprio perch\u00e9 la vita \u00e8 cos\u00ec imprevedibile,<\/span> Sono grato per ogni<\/span><\/a> moment in my life. But there\u2019s ONE I can never be grateful enough for.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life changed me, you changed me… It’s not important anymore. I changed and I’ll never be the same again. That’s all that matters.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quella sera, quando mi hai ferito e umiliato per la centesima volta, ho pianto in modo incontrollato per qualche tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it’s understandable after suppressing my emotions my whole life. I bottled them up and it was just a matter of time when they\u2019d boil over.<\/span><\/p>\n

That night, they did. But then… Slap. I slapped myself and decided that it was time to stop feeling sorry for myself. No more self-pity. I sat down and had a deep conversation with myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come ora so, \u00e8 stata la conversazione pi\u00f9 importante della mia vita. Direi addirittura che \u00e8 stata una conversazione che mi ha cambiato la vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

No, non sono pazzo. <\/span>Ho capito che le conversazioni pi\u00f9 importanti che possiamo avere sono quelle che facciamo con noi stessi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Now I wish I’d done it before. If only I had known how to talk to myself before, everything would have been so much easier for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

I repeat, I am not crazy, it’s just that I didn’t feel comfortable to talk about my emotions with another human being.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti<\/span> mi ha sempre conosciuto come un timido<\/span><\/a>, quiet girl. One who didn\u2019t speak unless she had been spoken to.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong. Being shy doesn’t have to necessarily be a bad thing. But I realize now that my shy personality kept me from a lot of things in life that were actually good for me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That’s the reason I never had a friend or someone I could talk to when hard times arrived. Actually, you were the first person I opened up to. You were the first person I opened up my heart to and let in.<\/span><\/p>\n

I didn’t know that your intention all along was to play with it and throw it away when you were done with it. How could I have known that when you made me believe that my heart was safe in your hands?<\/span><\/p>\n

However, you didn’t manage to shut me down emotionally. Your little game did hurt me but it couldn\u2019t shut me off completely. Surprisingly, it changed me for the better.  <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m not afraid to speak up anymore. You see, now I can tell you everything I wasn’t able to tell you that night. The thing is, you don’t deserve anything from me anymore, not even my words.<\/span><\/p>\n

I gained confidence. I am stronger now. I don’t let anyone disrespect me the way you used to. I don’t keep quiet to people who are being rude to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don’t let people walk over me. I don’t let them use the goodness of my heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now my circle of friends is big but still, I like to hold people at a distance. I don’t want to let someone too close until I am completely sure they’re worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Devo ammetterlo, adoro il nuovo me stesso<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> Actually, for the first time in my life, I love myself. Now, I’m aware of my self-worth and I want to work on myself every single day. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t stop until I fall in love with myself completely. My personality won’t keep me from any important things in life anymore and I’ll never miss anything ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

E per quanto riguarda te, devo darti un consiglio. Dovresti smettere di mandarmi messaggi. Smettere di chiamare. Smettere di scusarti<\/span>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You’ve mistaken me for the girl you dated one year ago. <\/i><\/b>I’m not that person<\/i><\/b><\/a> anymore. I don’t need your apologies because no matter what you say, I will never let you in again.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You should stop trying to contact me because you won’t find what you’re looking for. You know, a year can do a lot for a person. Just one year ago, everything was different. I could never have even imagined that so many things could change in so little time. I suppose it’s just how life…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":78754,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-78753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/That-Quiet-Girl-You-Used-To-Know-Doesnt-Exist-Anymore.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78753"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78753\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}