{"id":7880,"date":"2020-11-02T11:37:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T11:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7880"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:09:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:09:00","slug":"la-ragazza-delle-lettere-si-e-finalmente-allontanata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-delle-lettere-si-e-finalmente-allontanata\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza che alla fine si \u00e8 allontanata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro coraggioso,<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something you won’t feel comfortable to hear.<\/strong> Anche se ora fate fatica a crederci, avete fatto la cosa giusta.<\/p>\n

Ci vuole molto coraggio per allontanarsi da una persona che si amava. Ma allontanarsi da qualcosa che una volta era amore (ma che ora non lo \u00e8 pi\u00f9) \u00e8 l'unica cosa giusta da fare.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hold on to something that no longer serves you. The only correct thing to do when the person you love stops appreciating you is to walk away. Hai fatto la cosa giusta.<\/a><\/p>\n

L'amore che c'era una volta \u00e8 scomparso da tempo.<\/strong> The thing you had before faded away. But please, don\u2019t blame yourself. You gave it your best. You did everything you could.<\/p>\n

Your efforts were honest and sometimes even desperate, but they were there. You tried\u2014you tried so hard before you gave up. But you couldn\u2019t\u2019ve made it work out on your own.<\/p>\n

La vostra storia era destinata a finire senza lieto fine nel momento in cui la controparte si \u00e8 arresa.<\/strong> Because no matter how hard you try, if you are the only one fighting for both of you, it\u2019s in vain.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Forse siete riusciti a fare uno o due chilometri in pi\u00f9 nel vostro viaggio comune, ma quella strada era un vicolo cieco in ogni caso.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 dovresti essere tu a continuare a lottare?<\/strong> I admire your passion and your faith that you could make things better, but it didn\u2019t work, did it?<\/p>\n

At what point of being the only one that\u2019s trying did you realize that it was in vain?<\/p>\n

At what point did you realize that you\u2019re breaking a sweat over someone who wouldn\u2019t even lift a finger for you? You did a good thing by giving up.<\/p>\n

L'amore che una volta significava il mondo per voi \u00e8 diventato solo un conforto per voi.<\/strong> Era accogliente e leggermente caldo, ma non c'era pi\u00f9 passione<\/a>\u2014the fire got burned out.<\/p>\n

Non c'erano pi\u00f9 scintille negli occhi. L'ammirazione reciproca si \u00e8 affievolita e tutto ci\u00f2 che rimaneva e vi teneva uniti erano i ricordi dei vecchi tempi.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not how you live and that\u2019s not how you love.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore nella vita \u00e8 ritrovarsi in fondo alla lista per qualcuno che si continua a mettere come priorit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

The worst feeling is when you\u2019d swim the oceans for someone who keeps finding excuses when you need him. I swear it\u2019s the ugliest feeling there is, but you know that too well, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

A una ragazza come te dovrebbe essere apprezzata<\/a>non dare per scontato.<\/strong> Because you\u2019re so selfless with your love and your kindness.<\/p>\n

And if that\u2019s not worth the fight, if you\u2019re not worth the fight, I have no idea who is.<\/p>\n

Proprio per la sua gentilezza, trova difficile lasciare le persone.<\/strong> \u00c8 difficile allontanarsi e lasciare le persone a cui si tiene da sole, indipendentemente dal modo in cui ci trattano.<\/p>\n

A volte, per\u00f2, bisogna essere gentili con se stessi, scegliendo di amarsi e valorizzarsi quando non c'\u00e8 nessun altro disposto ad accorgersi dei tuoi sforzi. Hai fatto bene ad andartene.<\/p>\n

So che allontanarsi \u00e8 stato difficile.<\/strong><\/a> So che rinunciare a tutto ci\u00f2 in cui credevi ti ha spezzato. So che \u00e8 stato doloroso doverlo fare, anche se non avevi altra scelta.<\/p>\n

So che avete pianto e vi siete sentiti come se mancasse qualcosa nella vostra vita e nel vostro cuore, anche se avete fatto l'unica cosa giusta da fare.<\/p>\n

Because of the person you are, you can\u2019t help but stop wondering if there is something else, something more you could\u2019ve done to make things better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But you gave your all\u2014there wasn\u2019t anything else to give anymore. So, stop second-guessing your decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando \u00e8 troppo \u00e8 troppo.<\/strong> The pain you feel now will eventually go away. The feeling you\u2019re the one that betrayed someone will fade away. Because it\u2019s not real.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t betray anyone\u2014you just saved yourself when there was nobody else to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you\u2019re bound to do the right thing even though it hurts like hell.<\/strong> A volte \u00e8 necessario rompere se stessi per poter andare avanti.<\/p>\n

By walking away you get to be broken only once by doing the right thing. To stay would mean you\u2019re choosing to let someone keep breaking you over and over again just because you love him.<\/p>\n

Hai fatto la cosa giusta quando hai finalmente trovato il coraggio di andartene.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cordiali saluti,<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che era gi\u00e0 l\u00ec<\/p>\n

\"Lettera<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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