{"id":79102,"date":"2020-07-09T11:15:57","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:15:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79102"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:08:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:08:58","slug":"motivi-per-cui-lo-stai-ancora-inseguendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/motivi-per-cui-lo-stai-ancora-inseguendo\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui lo stai ancora inseguendo anche se sai che non dovresti farlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re not stupid or foolish. You know that this guy isn\u2019t worthy of your attention and you\u2019re aware that he doesn\u2019t deserve you giving him a single thought, let alone something more.<\/p>\n

You know that he is good for nothing. You know that he doesn\u2019t treat you right and that you shouldn\u2019t look at him, even if he was the last man in the world.<\/p>\n

However, despite all of this, you can\u2019t seem to get yourself to stop chasing him. Why is that so?<\/p>\n

1. Deep down, you hope he\u2019ll change<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Even though you keep telling everyone that you\u2019ve lost all hope that this guy will become the man you deserve him to be, the truth is actually quite different.<\/p>\n

Even though you keep convincing yourself that you\u2019ve finally accepted that this guy will never come to his senses, the fact is that you still expect a miracle.<\/p>\n

In fondo, nascosta sotto la superficie e la faccia che si presenta al resto del mondo, c'\u00e8 in realt\u00e0 molta speranza.<\/p>\n

Che vi piaccia ammetterlo o meno, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che una parte del vostro essere pensa ancora che questo l'uomo finir\u00e0 per cambiare<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, si vuole essere presenti quando accade.<\/p>\n

You keep giving him \u2018one last chance\u2019 because you think that he is almost there, that he is about to start treating you right and that he is about to see that you\u2019re the woman for him.<\/p>\n

2. You assume that you\u2019ll be the one who will save him<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Another reason why most women continue chasing the men they know they shouldn\u2019t is the fact that they want to salvarli<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You see yourself as this wonder woman who can help this man with all of his problems. You think you\u2019re the only one who can cure his emotional instability.<\/p>\n

Quella che pu\u00f2 abbattere tutti i muri intorno al suo cuore e aprire la sua anima all'amore.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you\u2019re not leaving him for good because you don\u2019t want to give up on him.<\/p>\n

You refuse to walk away from him because deep down, you don\u2019t see him as a toxic man who plays with you.<\/p>\n

Instead, you see him as a lost soul who needs your guidance. You refuse to let him be because you think that he couldn\u2019t make it without you and that his well-being has become your responsibility.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re scared of ending up alone<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As crazy as this might sound, the undeniable fact is that this man has become your comfort zone. You\u2019ve gotten used to running after him.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you don’t know what you would do with yourself if he wasn\u2019t around. After all, the breadcrumbs of his love and affection are way better than not having anyone.<\/p>\n

You might not see it but the truth is that you\u2019re terrified of ending up alone. So, it\u2019s better to have half of a man than no man at all, right?<\/p>\n

Well, if you think this way, it\u2019s time to reconsider your attitude. If you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll admit that you\u2019re more than alone next to this man.<\/p>\n

Quindi, quali cambiamenti cruciali avvertireste nella vostra vita se vi liberaste di lui? Cosa cambierebbe?<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014you don\u2019t have him and you\u2019re already alone and single.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re sorry for all that time you\u2019ve wasted on him<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been chasing this guy for as long as you can remember. You\u2019ve invested all of your energy and patience into him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve wasted months or even years of your life on him. You\u2019ve put so much effort into this quasi-relationship.<\/p>\n

So, now, you don\u2019t want to give up when you think you\u2019re so close to the finish line. You want to have your way, after all the sacrifices you\u2019ve made to finally have him as your boyfriend.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014it\u2019s much better to throw away all this time you\u2019ve wasted until now than to continue wasting more days and weeks of your life.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, l'intera esperienza vi ha insegnato nuove dolorose ma preziose lezioni di vita. Consideratela come un periodo di tempo in cui avete avuto l'opportunit\u00e0 di imparare, anzich\u00e9 come un periodo trascorso invano.<\/p>\n

5. Non c'\u00e8 nessuno di meglio in giro<\/h2>\n

\"silhouette<\/p>\n

Infine, si continua a inseguire questo ragazzo perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 convinti che tutti gli uomini sono uguali<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Even if you decide to give a new man a shot, he\u2019ll also end up hurting you and breaking your heart so why wouldn\u2019t you just stay next to this douchebag?<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s always better to stick to your enemies than to allow new friends into your life, who will also end up becoming your enemies.<\/p>\n

You know the essence of this man\u2019s being. You know what you can expect of him and you don\u2019t want to bother with someone you have no clue about.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you think this way because you never really gave someone else a chance. You can\u2019t know what will happen until you try, can you?<\/p>\n

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You\u2019re not stupid or foolish. You know that this guy isn\u2019t worthy of your attention and you\u2019re aware that he doesn\u2019t deserve you giving him a single thought, let alone something more. You know that he is good for nothing. You know that he doesn\u2019t treat you right and that you shouldn\u2019t look at him,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":79146,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79102","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Reasons-Why-You\u2019re-Still-Chasing-Him-Even-Though-You-Know-You-Shouldn\u2019t.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79102","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79102"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79102\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79146"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}