{"id":79229,"date":"2020-06-11T07:53:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T07:53:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79229"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:05:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:05:22","slug":"devo-rompere-con-la-mia-ragazza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/devo-rompere-con-la-mia-ragazza\/","title":{"rendered":"Dovrei lasciare la mia ragazza? 15 motivi per lasciarla"},"content":{"rendered":"

Everyone thinks that the worst part about breakups is being the one left behind. However, the truth is that it\u2019s not any easier being the one wondering Dovrei rompere con la mia ragazza<\/a> o fidanzato?<\/em><\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 esattamente la domanda che vi sta passando per la testa in questo momento. Pi\u00f9 si cerca di arrivare a una conclusione definitiva, pi\u00f9 si \u00e8 confusi.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here. To give you 15 signs that it\u2019s time to end your relationship and to help you answer the question, Dovrei rompere con la mia ragazza?<\/em> that\u2019s been bugging you.<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re together for all the wrong reasons<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

The first warning sign that you should without any doubt put an end to your relationship are the reasons why you\u2019re in it in the first place.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that love is enough for a couple to work out, but it definitely has to be one of the things keeping you together.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you are with a certain girl just because she, let\u2019s say, takes care of you and you\u2019re convinced you\u2019d have a hard time finding someone else to parent you, that\u2019s reason enough to break up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a mother; you need a girlfriend. Besides, this woman isn\u2019t your servant, and this shouldn\u2019t be the only thing keeping you by her side.<\/p>\n

Un altro motivo sbagliato per cui alcune persone rimangono in relazioni sbagliate \u00e8 la paura di rimanere soli.<\/p>\n

Your romantic partner has become your comfort zone and you assume that you couldn\u2019t handle life as a uomo single<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Non avete energia o voglia di rimettervi in gioco. Non avete voglia di cercare una nuova relazione e vi siete abituati ad avere una fidanzata.<\/p>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re in this relationship because all of your friends are taken as well. You don\u2019t know what you would do with your life and how you would spend your time without this girl by your side.<\/p>\n

This is especially true if you\u2019ve reached a certain age where you\u2019re expected to have a committed relationship.<\/p>\n

Basically, you don\u2019t have the strength to fight society\u2019s norms. So, you stay right where you are even though that\u2019s not what you want deep down.<\/p>\n

Another wrong reason why some people remain in unhappy relationships is because they think they can\u2019t have anyone better.<\/p>\n

They are stuck with their partners since they\u2019re convinced that they\u2019re good for nothing and could never find someone better.<\/p>\n

After all, having any girlfriend is better than having no girlfriend, right? Well, no, this is not true. It\u2019s always better to be single than to waste years on the wrong person.<\/p>\n

2. Volete cose diverse<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re young and restless, the only criteria you have for being in a romantic relationship with someone are your feelings. In that age, things are pretty simple with most people.<\/p>\n

Durante il fase di luna di miele<\/a>, it’s enough for you to feel butterflies in this girl\u2019s presence.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s enough that you two find each other physically attractive, you get along in the bedroom, and you feel like you love each other.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, con il passare del tempo e l'avanzare dell'et\u00e0, ci si accorge che non tutto \u00e8 cos\u00ec romantico nella vita reale. Le farfalle e i fuochi d'artificio spariscono.<\/p>\n

La fase della luna di miele \u00e8 finita e altre cose diventano pi\u00f9 importanti.<\/p>\n

When this happens, you realize the importance of being compatible with your loved one. You understand why it\u2019s crucial to share similar moral values and opinions about life with your significant other.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 esattamente uno dei primi problemi nella vostra relazione<\/a>: Tu e la tua ragazza volete cose diverse dalla vita.<\/p>\n

Therefore, deep down, you\u2019re aware that you have no future together.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that the two of you must have identical viewpoints regarding all aspects in life.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se la vostra relazione \u00e8 seria e si sta facendo strada, ci sono alcuni punti cruciali su cui dovete semplicemente iniziare a mettervi d'accordo.<\/p>\n

For example, a problem will arise if your girlfriend wants to start a family while you don\u2019t plan on getting married just yet or don\u2019t want kids at all.<\/p>\n

The same goes with other things Perhaps you\u2019re determined to live in a big city, while she would prefer a cozy little house in the countryside.<\/p>\n

The same is with finances, your lifestyles, daily schedules, and so on. Whichever way, the point is that you can\u2019t seem to reach a compromise with this girl regarding your potential future.<\/p>\n

You might think that this is something you shouldn\u2019t consider just yet, since you\u2019re still not married.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you\u2019re aware that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere and that each one of these problems will appear on the surface sooner or later, why waste any more time one something that clearly has no future whatsoever?<\/p>\n

3. She doesn\u2019t respect you<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Oltre all'amore, il rispetto reciproco \u00e8 una delle basi principali di ogni relazione, soprattutto di quelle sentimentali.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if your girlfriend doesn\u2019t respect you at all, maybe it\u2019s time to break up.<\/p>\n

Che vi piaccia ammetterlo o meno, la maggior parte degli uomini, voi compresi, ha un ego fragile. Ci\u00f2 significa che si viene insultati molto pi\u00f9 facilmente di quanto si sia disposti ad ammettere.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una cosa che la vostra ragazza dovrebbe sapere. Pertanto, se vi ama, non vi sminuir\u00e0 mai in alcun modo, n\u00e9 far\u00e0 nulla per farvi sentire male e indegni.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that your fidanzata perfetta<\/a> should kiss the floor you walk on. It doesn\u2019t mean that she should behave like your submissive. That is not an act of respect.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, putting you down is also not acceptable. She shouldn\u2019t treat you like a second class citizen in your relationship, nor should she act like she is above you in any way.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che la tua ragazza continua a fare. Sfrutta ogni occasione possibile per farti sentire inutile e non all'altezza.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che lo fa anche davanti agli altri. Questa ragazza ha un'incredibile voglia di prenderti in giro davanti a tutti quelli che conosci, compresi i tuoi familiari e i tuoi migliori amici.<\/p>\n

Se questo \u00e8 un aspetto che vi riguarda, la risposta a Dovrei rompere con la mia ragazza?<\/em> \u00e8 abbastanza ovvio.<\/p>\n

Your partner is clearly one with some serious self-esteem issues she\u2019s trying to resolve by putting you down, since it\u2019s the only way for her to feel worthy.<\/p>\n

Sembra complicato, lo so. Ma questa non \u00e8 la persona a cui dovreste dare la possibilit\u00e0 di far parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

4. You think that you\u2019re settling for less<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect. You have your own set of flaws, just like any other person in this world.<\/p>\n

However, at the end of the day, you\u2019re a good guy and a uomo di alto valore<\/a>. You treat girls right, you\u2019re faithful, and you\u2019ve never taken advantage of any woman.<\/p>\n

Questo vale soprattutto per la vostra attuale relazione. Amate la vostra ragazza pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa, vi prendete cura di lei e dei suoi bisogni, le date tutta la vostra attenzione e la mettete al primo posto.<\/p>\n

Looking at things objectively, you\u2019re the tipo di ragazzo che quasi tutte le ragazze vorrebbero<\/a> di essere il suo ragazzo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, the harsh truth is that you\u2019re not getting the same amount of effort from your partner in return.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019re accontentarsi di meno<\/a> than you deserve. Not only that \u2013 you\u2019re also convinced that some other girl would appreciate everything you have to offer much more.<\/p>\n

Well, in that case, it looks like you have a problem because you’re not in a relationship with the right person.<\/p>\n

Everyone has these kinds of thoughts every once in a while, but if you\u2019ve become obsessed with thinking how your life would look next to someone else, it\u2019s definitely time to break up with your girlfriend.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s much better to remain faithful and end things in time than to go out in search of someone who\u2019ll give you what you\u2019re looking for while you\u2019re still romantically involved with your girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, all of this doesn\u2019t make you ungrateful. You\u2019re a man who has his own standards and rompiscatole<\/a>, and you shouldn\u2019t lower them for anyone.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if your girl hasn\u2019t reached these expectations you had, it\u2019s fair for you to break up with her and go look for someone else who will give you what you need and want.<\/p>\n

Remember: By settling for less than you deserve, you\u2019re not doing either of you any favors.<\/p>\n

5. Cerca di cambiarvi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se volete un relazione sana<\/a>\u00e8 necessario essere pronti al compromesso.<\/p>\n

Incontrare il partner romantico a met\u00e0 strada a volte significa cambiare alcune abitudini o routine, o addirittura adattare la propria visione del mondo alla sua.<\/p>\n

However, the essence of your personality should always remain the same, regardless of the girlfriend you\u2019re currently with.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. This doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not allowed to change during life. You can grow as a person and modify elements of your character as much as you like.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, there is a difference between these changes happening spontaneously and happening under someone\u2019s pressure.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you\u2019re the one who feels motivated to change, but quite another if your girlfriend is the one trying to turn you into a different person.<\/p>\n

Voglio essere sincero con voi. Se lei continua a fare cos\u00ec, nessuno di voi due sar\u00e0 felice se la storia d'amore continuer\u00e0.<\/p>\n

In pratica, avete tre opzioni.<\/p>\n

First case scenario: You can do your best to change in order to please her. In this case, sooner or later, you\u2019ll start feelings miserable the moment you realize you\u2019ve lost yourself.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You might think that, in this scenario, your girlfriend will be completely satisfied. Well, she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

In fact, she\u2019ll lose all respect for you once she sees that she can mold you however she wants. Also, she\u2019ll always want you to change some new things about you and never be happy with your progress.<\/p>\n

The second option you have is to pretend that you\u2019ve magically become someone else in front of her.<\/p>\n

Needless to say, this is completely pointless. It\u2019s deception and developing several parallel personalities can be potentially dangerous for your mental health.<\/p>\n

Infine, l'opzione migliore per voi \u00e8 rimanere fedeli a voi stessi. In questo caso, per\u00f2, la vostra ragazza rimarr\u00e0 infelice, e anche questa non \u00e8 una ricetta per il successo.<\/p>\n

Whichever way, the bottom line is that this girl doesn\u2019t accept the real you and never will. Therefore, it\u2019s easy to conclude that she doesn\u2019t love you either.<\/p>\n

Invece, ama l'idea di te. Lei ama il tuo potenziale<\/a> \u2013 the man she imagines you\u2019ll become.<\/p>\n

With all this in mind, you\u2019ll realize why the only healthy option you have here is to put an end to this relationship.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ll have to do it sooner or later because these things have a tendency to escalate, so it\u2019s better to leave without unnecessary bitterness from either side.<\/p>\n

6. La comunicazione \u00e8 scarsa<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you are well aware of the importance of communication in a relationship, especially between romantic partners.<\/p>\n

After all, this is the person you spend most of your free time with \u2013 someone you hope to build a life together with \u2013 so it\u2019s crucial that you two are able to talk.<\/p>\n

When I say communication, I\u2019m not referring to small talk or everyday conversations. I\u2019m talking about your ability to argue, reach a consensus, and most importantly, understand each other.<\/p>\n

Well, the problem is that you and your girlfriend don\u2019t have healthy communication.<\/p>\n

First of all, you don\u2019t know how to fight productively. Don\u2019t read me the wrong way, I\u2019m not blaming you for arguing every now and then. All couples do it.<\/p>\n

Besides, whether some like to admit it or not, fights can be beneficial for a relationship. Sometimes, they\u2019re the only way to solve a certain problem.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il problema \u00e8 che voi e la vostra ragazza litigate sempre, senza un motivo preciso.<\/p>\n

Il vostro rapporto \u00e8 costantemente pieno di tensioni e ogni cosa tra voi due diventa inevitabilmente un problema.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, le vostre discussioni non sono mai produttive. Vi insultate a vicenda e l'unica cosa importante \u00e8 chi ha ragione.<\/p>\n

Sembra che il vostro ego sia pi\u00f9 importante del raggiungimento di un terreno comune.<\/p>\n

Besides, you never learn from your fights. You\u2019ve never adopted a practice that a problem should be forgotten the moment it\u2019s solved. On the contrary, you actually never resolve your problems.<\/p>\n

Eventually, you just get tired of fighting and make up until the next occasion where one of you rubs the other\u2019s nose in the same old thing.<\/p>\n

Un altro elemento che rende la vostra comunicazione scadente \u00e8 il fatto che nessuno dei due si impegna per migliorarla.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t listen to each other, there are no deep talks, you know nothing about each other\u2019s fears, hopes, dreams\u2026<\/p>\n

7. Qualcun altro ha attirato la vostra attenzione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo motivo \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che sufficiente per dare una risposta affermativa alla vostra domanda: Dovrei rompere con la mia ragazza?<\/em><\/p>\n

Trust me, the moment you notice that some other woman has captured your attention, it\u2019s time to end your current relationship.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about physical attraction here. After all, you\u2019re a human being made of flesh and blood, and it\u2019s perfectly natural to find other women besides your girlfriend beautiful and pretty.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to notice a girl you consider attractive passing by or on TV. However, even if we\u2019re talking about Miss Universe, you still wouldn\u2019t trade your girlfriend for her, even if your life depended on it.<\/p>\n

Besides, you forget about this girl in a minute. You\u2019re not interested in who she is, whether she is taken, and if there is a chance to get in touch with her.<\/p>\n

Il problema sorge quando un'altra donna inizia a occupare sempre pi\u00f9 i vostri pensieri e sentimenti.<\/p>\n

If there is a girl you can\u2019t stop thinking about, it\u2019s only fair to your girlfriend to come clean and leave her.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Do it before you fall for the temptation of going behind her back and being unfaithful. Do it even if you don\u2019t stand a chance with this other girl.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it. Your relationship is not where it should be if you keep on thinking about a third person.<\/p>\n

La tua ragazza non \u00e8 la persona giusta per te se continui a immaginare come sarebbe la tua vita accanto a qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

This is especially true if something like this has been happening for a while. It\u2019s not that you were drawn to some girl and thought of her for one day only.<\/p>\n

Spesso l'altra donna assume la forma di un'amica intima o di una collega.<\/p>\n

Even though you didn\u2019t do anything concrete, the truth is that you have been spending time with her, you two have been texting, and your relationship is one step away from crossing the line.<\/p>\n

Deep down, you feel guilty for your actions because you know they\u2019re not right. You know you\u2019re betraying your girlfriend and that is reason enough to tell her your addio definitivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

8. La famiglia e gli amici pi\u00f9 stretti pensano che dovreste lasciarvi.<\/h2>\n

\"2<\/p>\n

You\u2019re an adult. You\u2019re a mature man who is capable of making his own decisions.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re the only one who suffers the consequences of your poor choices, so nobody has the right to interfere with your life and tell you what you should and shouldn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

Therefore, nobody is telling you to blindly follow your friends and family\u2019s advice when it comes to your love life.<\/p>\n

Nessuno vi chiede di lasciare che siano loro a scegliere una fidanzata per voi e a determinare con chi dovreste uscire.<\/p>\n

However, you have to realize that these are the people who love you, no matter what. They\u2019re the closest to you and sometimes they know you better than you know yourself.<\/p>\n

A questo proposito, vi \u00e8 venuto in mente che tutti loro sono contrari alla vostra relazione per un motivo valido? \u00c8 possibile che vedano qualche bandiere rosse<\/a> you can\u2019t?<\/p>\n

Remember: You can\u2019t be objective when your relationship is at stake. Your emotions are in the mix here and there is no way for you to see the bigger picture.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, queste persone hanno la possibilit\u00e0 di essere pi\u00f9 obiettive.<\/p>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Therefore, if they keep on telling you that your girlfriend isn\u2019t right for you, that she doesn\u2019t deserve you, or that she is using you, maybe it\u2019s time to at least consider their point of view.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s impossible for all of those people to continuously repeat the same story without any back-up.<\/p>\n

Despite all of this, don\u2019t forget that this is just one of the signs that you should break up with your girlfriend.<\/p>\n

So, if your closest people\u2019s disapproval of your relationship is the only thing you can relate to among all of these reasons, maybe you should ignore them.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re in doubt about what to do, take their opinion into consideration. Of course, even in this case, the final call is on you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who\u2019ll have to keep on living next to this girl if you choose to stay in this relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who will suffer after this breakup and have to deal with emotional pain if you choose to break up with her.<\/p>\n

Your life \u2013 your decision!<\/p>\n

9. Ti maltratta<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La maggior parte delle persone, in generale, ha il presupposto che abusatori<\/a> sono esclusivamente maschili, mentre le vittime sono quasi sempre donne.<\/p>\n

Pensano che tu, in quanto uomo, sia fisicamente pi\u00f9 forte di quasi tutte le donne sul tuo cammino, quindi non c'\u00e8 assolutamente modo per una ragazza di abusare di te.<\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019d be surprised how far from the truth this is. In fact, there are more male victims of domestic abuse than you could even imagine.<\/p>\n

Besides, there are other forms of abuse except physical violence. You can be mentally, emotionally, or even financially abused by your partner, even though you\u2019re a man.<\/p>\n

The trick here is that most victims have a hard time admitting that they\u2019ve been suffering abuse. This is even truer when it comes to men. Guys in these situations are scared that they\u2019ll be ridiculed.<\/p>\n

Pensano che la gente rider\u00e0 di loro e le considerer\u00e0 deboli fisicamente, mentalmente ed emotivamente, perch\u00e9 hanno permesso a una ragazza di abusare di loro.<\/p>\n

Il miglior parametro per riconoscere un abuso \u00e8 il senso di paura.<\/p>\n

\"ragazzo<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be afraid of your girlfriend regarding any aspect of your relationship and life. If you do, something is without doubt off.<\/p>\n

Some might wonder how you can be scared of a woman who is probably shorter and smaller than you. Well, if she is a skilled abuser, she\u2019s gotten into your head.<\/p>\n

Besides, in most cases, fear is irrational. Abusers do something to make you afraid of them, and that doesn\u2019t have anything to do with their body size.<\/p>\n

Also, you don\u2019t have to necessarily be afraid that she will get physically violent. Maybe she is emotionally blackmailing you or makes other types of threats.<\/p>\n

If your girlfriend is bullying you, she\u2019ll probably try gaslighting you as well. She will try to play down the traumas she\u2019s caused you and make fun of you even calling her an abuser.<\/p>\n

However, if you do feel like a victim in your relationship, trust your gut. You don\u2019t need anyone\u2019s permission to feel abused \u2013 the way you feel is more than enough.<\/p>\n

In that case, the only choice you have, if you want to save yourself in time, is to walk away from this woman. She obviously needs professional help and you\u2019re not the one who can provide it.<\/p>\n

Also, if this is something you\u2019re going through, I\u2019m begging you not to be ashamed to look for help for yourself.<\/p>\n

10. I contro superano i pro<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 tutto tranne che un'equazione matematica.<\/p>\n

Everyone will tell you that you can\u2019t describe it, there is no logic behind it, and the only way for it to work out is to follow your heart and see where it takes you.<\/p>\n

However, if you are in a situation where you\u2019re asking yourself, Dovrei rompere con la mia ragazza?<\/em> it\u2019s pretty obvious that weighing things in your relationship is a necessity.<\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m advising you to do is to start writing a type of relationship diary. Put all of your relationship problems and good things about this girl on a piece of paper.<\/p>\n

You probably won\u2019t think of everything right away. So, take your time and remember everything positive and negative about her that is relevant to your relationship.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, if your cons outweigh the pros, it’s a good sign that your romance has come to its end.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t have to mean that there are numerically more cons. In fact, one negative thing alone can outweigh ten positives and vice versa.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s important to be as realistic as possible here. Yes, your feelings also have a say in this decision, but they shouldn\u2019t be the only reason to choose to stay in this relationship.<\/p>\n

11. You\u2019re only with her because of your history together<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Contrariamente a quanto si crede, il presente e il futuro sono sempre pi\u00f9 importanti del passato.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re still stuck in an unhappy relationship just because of your history together, it\u2019s time to break up.<\/p>\n

Una volta, tu e questa ragazza stavate benissimo insieme. Vi amavate pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa, sapevate parlare, vi divertivate insieme e, soprattutto, eravate felici l'uno accanto all'altra.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, tutto questo \u00e8 finito. Anzi, con il tempo le cose si sono incasinate e la vostra relazione \u00e8 diventata uno scheletro di ci\u00f2 che era prima.<\/p>\n

Deep down, you know that it was nice while it lasted. You\u2019re perfectly aware that the good days are over and they\u2019re not coming back.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, every time you\u2019re about to leave, you decide to give it another chance exactly for the sake of those old times.<\/p>\n

You hope that the love you two once shared will awaken and that you\u2019ll magically return to the first days of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Non solo. Il fatto che voi due abbiate una storia insieme include anche le vostre vite che si intrecciano reciprocamente.<\/p>\n

You know each other\u2019s best friends and closest family members, and you think you two have been together for too long to break things off now.<\/p>\n

Besides, this relationship has become your comfort zone. You know this girl beside you and you\u2019re terrified of the unknown that awaits you outside of this relationship.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, lasciate che vi dica che avere una storia con qualcuno non \u00e8 una ragione sufficiente per affidargli anche il vostro futuro.<\/p>\n

Trust me, it will be much better if you end things now. Don\u2019t worry, you\u2019re not ruining everything nice you shared by breaking up with her.<\/p>\n

Infatti, entrambi avrete per sempre il ricordo dell'amore che avete avuto, nonostante la sua fine.<\/p>\n

12. \u00c8 eccessivamente possessiva<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Whoever tells you that a certain amount of jealousy isn\u2019t flattering is probably lying. Let\u2019s face it. All of us love to see our significant other crazy for us to the point where they don\u2019t want to risk losing us.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, quando si tratta della vostra ragazza, la sua gelosia \u00e8 tutto fuorch\u00e9 carina. Anzi, questa donna \u00e8 possessiva e controllante.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve lost all of your freedom next to her. You feel like a bird in a cage \u2013 suffocated and trapped \u2013 and that is not how a healthy relationship should ever make you feel.<\/p>\n

All'inizio eravate contenti che volesse passare molto tempo con voi. Pensavate di aver finalmente trovato una ragazza che si preoccupa profondamente di voi e vi mette al primo posto.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, dopo un po', la sua appiccicosit\u00e0<\/a> ha iniziato a stancarvi. Invece di avvicinarvi a lei, questa ragazza riusciva solo ad allontanarvi ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s started making a fuss about every other girl around you. It\u2019s like she can\u2019t accept that you had a life before she came along.<\/p>\n

In fact, your girlfriend expects you to cease to exist just because you\u2019re with her now.<\/p>\n

Ti chiede di abbandonare tutti i tuoi amici (soprattutto le amiche donne) e di ignorare persino tutta la tua famiglia perch\u00e9 lei dovrebbe essere abbastanza per te.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La sorprendi a pedinarti, a controllare le tue telefonate, i tuoi messaggi e i tuoi social media e a sviscerare ogni tua parola in una folle ricerca di segnali di infedelt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 gelosa di tutti coloro che hanno un qualsiasi tipo di contatto con lei, compresi i colleghi e gli amici d'infanzia.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you\u2019ve never given her any reason to doubt you. It\u2019s like this girl is imagining things and making a big deal of something that isn\u2019t there.<\/p>\n

Not only that, she is also incredibly controlling. It\u2019s like she wants to run all aspects of your life and put her in the center of it, without caring for your opinion and feelings.<\/p>\n

If this sounds familiar, it\u2019s time to run for your life, especially if you tried talking to her about this but without progress.<\/p>\n

Remember that you\u2019re nobody\u2019s property and you shouldn\u2019t allow anyone to treat you this way. You’re stuck in a relazione tossica<\/a> con un narcisista sotto mentite spoglie!<\/p>\n

13. She doesn\u2019t prioritize you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re officially this girl\u2019s boyfriend, the fact is that you don\u2019t feel like one. In fact, you feel like her second choice and someone she goes to when everyone else abandons her.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s actually pretty simple. At the end of the day, you\u2019re not important to her. She doesn\u2019t prioritize you and couldn\u2019t care less about your needs and well-being.<\/p>\n

In effetti, tutti e tutto sembrano essere pi\u00f9 importanti di voi. Non ha mai tempo per voi e continua a trattarvi come la sua ultima risorsa.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m not saying we should all put ourselves first, so don\u2019t be angry if your girlfriend ama se stessa<\/a> pi\u00f9 di quanto lei ami te.<\/p>\n

However, if you two are in a long term relationship yet she still hasn\u2019t given you the place you deserve in her life, it\u2019s about time to reconsider your entire romance.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 dovreste continuare a metterla su un piedistallo, mentre lei vi tratta come uno zerbino? Perch\u00e9 dovreste continuare a mettere lei al primo posto, mentre lei vi mette in fondo alla sua lista di priorit\u00e0?<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, potrei consigliarle di farle assaggiare la sua stessa medicina. Potreste provare a cambiare le carte in tavola essendo meno disponibile e dando a questa ragazza la possibilit\u00e0 di sentire la vostra assenza.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that would be unhealthy and childish. After all, the moment you put a stop to these immature games, she\u2019ll go back to being her old self.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, la cosa migliore da fare in questa situazione \u00e8 allontanarsi e non tornare mai indietro.<\/p>\n

Ha avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di trattarti bene e l'ha sprecata, quindi non hai altra scelta che iniziare ad amare te stesso pi\u00f9 di quanto ami lei.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: Testi di rottura: 50+ messaggi di testo per chiudere la relazione<\/a><\/p>\n

14. Non siete felici in questa relazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

One of the first and most important rules in life is that nobody can bring you happiness or take it away from you. In fact, you\u2019re the only one responsible for the state of your mind and life.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the creator of your own felicit\u00e0<\/a> and the only responsible for making yourself content. Therefore, you can\u2019t expect your romantic partner to do this on your behalf.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect a girl to walk into your life with a magic wand and suddenly make everything right \u2013 to resolve all of your issues, chase away each one of your demons, and make all of your worries go away.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s also true that a good relationship should make you happier. It should improve your existence and make life that much sweeter.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, the problem in your romance is that you\u2019re not happy. You might have \u201cvalid\u201d reasons for the way you feel or not, but the point is that your girlfriend is making you feel miserable and sad.<\/p>\n

Whenever you’re with her, your mood changes. You’ve stopped enjoying little things in life and you feel blue all the time.<\/p>\n

However, this can’t be classified as depression. After all, you’re only like this when you’re around her.<\/p>\n

This is not so easy to recognize if nothing extraordinary has happened between you two. There\u2019s been no things such as abuse, infidelity, or serious lying involved.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you\u2019re unhappy next to this woman and you have a full right to feel this way.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that this is not a good enough reason to break things off, because your inner peace is the most important thing in the world.<\/p>\n

15. Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 amore<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You know how we said that love alone is not enough to make a bad relationship work. Well, even though that is true, it\u2019s also true that love is crucial for a romantic relationship to succeed.<\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that you can have a seemingly relazione perfetta<\/a> all'esterno.<\/p>\n

Ma se tu e la tua ragazza ha smesso di amare<\/a> each other along the way, it’s a pretty darn good sign that there is no point in remaining together.<\/p>\n

The same goes if only one party doesn\u2019t have any more emotions.<\/p>\n

If you don’t sense her emotional support, listen to your gut, be brave, and admit to yourself that your girl doesn\u2019t love you anymore before she tells you that face to face.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, chiedetevi se la amate. Se la risposta onesta a questa domanda \u00e8 no, la risposta alla domanda<\/p>\n

Dovrei rompere con la mia ragazza?<\/em> \u00e8 s\u00ec!<\/p>\n

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