{"id":8018,"date":"2020-04-06T13:51:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T13:51:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8018"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:10:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:10:40","slug":"la-ragazza-dal-lato-brutto-vede-bene-gli-altri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-dal-lato-brutto-vede-bene-gli-altri\/","title":{"rendered":"Il lato brutto di essere una ragazza che vede solo il bene negli altri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si \u00e8 una brava persona si tende a proiettare la propria \"bont\u00e0\" sugli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Avete questa tendenza innata a osservare le persone come se fossero migliori di quello che sono e tendete a dimenticare le cose brutte che vi sono successe.<\/p>\n<p>Tendete a perdonare chi vi ha fatto del male e a dare nuove possibilit\u00e0 all'infinito. Continuate a scrivere nuovi libri con gli stessi personaggi di prima.<\/p>\n<p>Per la persona che siete, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/tech-support\/201403\/the-trouble-trust\" rel=\"noopener\">continua a fidarsi delle persone<\/a>Continuate ad amarli e a dare loro tutte le chiavi per aprire le porte che conducono al vostro cuore.<\/p>\n<p>You often forget to take care of yourself because you\u2019re too busy taking care of everyone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non imparerai mai, vero? Non smetterete mai di portare il vostro cuore sulla manica, vero?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You stay even when people show you their ugly sides. When you see the ugly parts of someone you don\u2019t run away.<\/p>\n<p>You decide to love them even more for showing you that they\u2019re only human and you keep thinking your love will make their bad sides a bit less bad. You stay even when things get rough.<\/p>\n<p>You stay even when the other person doesn\u2019t deserve you because you\u2019re a believer. And you can\u2019t stop believing that each tomorrow will be better than ever today.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a good person, but the ugly side of being a good girl is a little fact you keep forgetting and that\u2019s that you live in a cruel world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82554\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna con pensieri profondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You live in a world and in an age filled with toxic people, filled with narcissists and self-centered people who\u2019re just waiting for someone like you to drink from their cup.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/brianna-wiest\/2014\/10\/16-things-we-expect-of-others-but-rarely-consider-changing-ourselves\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Vi aspettate che gli altri siano presenti per voi<\/a> quando si ha bisogno di loro solo perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 sempre stati presenti per loro. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You expect others not to betray you, just because you\u2019d never betray them. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re like that little Little Red Riding Hood, who expected a wolf not to eat her just because she doesn\u2019t eat wolves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What happened the last time you got broken? Actually, don\u2019t tell me, I know exactly what happened.<\/p>\n<p>Per una volta nella vostra vita, avevate bisogno di qualcuno a cui appoggiarvi. Avevi bisogno di qualcuno che ti tenesse la mano e ti dicesse che tutto sarebbe andato bene.<\/p>\n<p>You needed them to hug all the bad from you, just like you\u2019d do if they needed you. But, \u2018surprisingly\u2019, nobody was there.<\/p>\n<p>Siete stati lasciati soli ad affrontare i vostri problemi. Si sono allontanati perch\u00e9 qualsiasi cosa avessero in ballo era pi\u00f9 importante che esserci per la persona che c'era sempre stata per loro.<\/p>\n<p>And your naive little heart never saw that coming. You thought you could count on them, didn\u2019t you? Unfortunately, that didn\u2019t turn out as planned.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing those who should\u2019ve been there walking away from you broke you. It left you empty-handed and speechless.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82556\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta su una sedia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci si chiedeva cosa si fosse fatto di sbagliato e cosa ci fosse di sbagliato anche in loro.<\/p>\n<p>You know they should\u2019ve been there for you, you know they should\u2019ve asked how you were, but nothing like that ever came from them.<\/p>\n<p>E avete finito per essere spezzati da altre persone, dalle vostre stesse convinzioni e dal fatto che le vostre aspettative non sono state soddisfatte.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/5-tips-heal-broken-heart\/\">Ti sei rotto<\/a> by not getting in return the love and care you\u2019d been giving so selflessly to others.<\/p>\n<p>So esattamente come ci si sente. \u00c8 stato un dolore incommensurabile. Eri ferito fino alle ossa, piangevi un po' e continuavi a mettere in discussione tutto.<\/p>\n<p>You tried to turn the other cheek, you tried to be rude, you tried to push them away, out of your life, you tried to be mad, but it didn\u2019t last.<\/p>\n<p>Vi siete arrabbiati per un giorno. Li avete odiati per un attimo e poi avete cercato di spiegare il loro comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>Li avete resi vittime di circostanze sconosciute, mentre voi eravate l'unica vittima.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, avete deciso che avevano bisogno del vostro amore e della vostra gentilezza pi\u00f9 di quanto voi aveste bisogno del loro. E quindi li avete perdonati.<\/p>\n<p>La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che dimenticherete qualsiasi cattiveria vi abbiano fatto. La dimenticherete in men che non si dica.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82558\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna seduta alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pretty-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll allow those who hurt you, those who broke you, to get back in your life again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re just not the kind of person who uses others. You\u2019re the one who keeps giving herself, keeps firing love like fireworks, even though she\u2019s broken on the inside. You just don\u2019t have a mean bone in your body.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che quella debole voce in fondo alla mente cerca di ricordarvi quanto gli altri vi hanno ferito, voi ve la scrollate di dosso e sorridete come se non fosse successo nulla.<\/p>\n<p>Solo il tuo sorriso \u00e8 meno sorriso di prima. Solo nel tuo sorriso e nei tuoi occhi puoi nascondere ci\u00f2 che ti \u00e8 stato fatto.<\/p>\n<p>Ma si scuote la testa anche alla pi\u00f9 piccola apparizione di brutti ricordi e si sorride.<\/p>\n<p>You put your heart on your sleeve again and you go out loving people regardless of if they\u2019re gonna love you back or not.<\/p>\n<p>Si danno seconde, terze, quinte possibilit\u00e0 e si abbassa la guardia, sperando che questa volta sia diverso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You keep repeating the same mistakes day after day. But you couldn&#8217;t do it any other way because that&#8217;s just who you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ll keep giving the best of you and they&#8217;ll keep using it and your smile will be more and more broken each time, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/never-stop-smiling\" rel=\"noopener\">but you&#8217;ll never stop smiling.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You will never learn the science behind being mean because you&#8217;re just not that kind of person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82552\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il lato brutto di essere una ragazza che vede solo il bene negli altri\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you\u2019re a good person you tend to project your \u2018goodness\u2019 on others. You have this inborn tendency to observe people as way better than they are and you tend to forget bad things that happened to you. You tend to forgive those who did you wrong and you tend to give new chances endlessly&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82560,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Sees-Only-Good-In-Others.jpg",800,529,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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