{"id":80364,"date":"2020-06-11T08:21:22","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T08:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=80364"},"modified":"2022-07-31T22:49:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T22:49:09","slug":"giochi-mentali-che-le-donne-fanno-agli-uomini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/giochi-mentali-che-le-donne-fanno-agli-uomini\/","title":{"rendered":"I 24 giochi mentali pi\u00f9 comuni che le donne fanno agli uomini"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Anche se di solito si rifiutano di ammetterlo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che le donne giocano. Anzi, nella maggior parte dei casi, lo fanno pi\u00f9 spesso degli uomini.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t mean that all women are manipulative. In fact, most mind games women play on men are actually directed towards making you chase them even harder or making you commit.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite their intentions, if you don&#8217;t know much about these <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/3-giochi-mentali-di-ogni-singola-persona-tossica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">giochi mentali<\/a>, you can easily be tricked into doing something you don&#8217;t want.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we&#8217;ve decided to let you know about the most common mind games women play on men.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/che-cosa-significa-un-contatto-visivo-prolungato-tra-un-uomo-e-una-donna\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Giocare duro per ottenere<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve heard about hard to get games. This is a set of tactics many women use when they want you to try a little bit harder to make them yours.<\/p>\n<h2>1. \u201cI won\u2019t look at you\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80404\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che fissa una donna a distanza in abito da ufficio\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The hard to get mind games women play on men usually start even before you actually get in touch with a certain girl. It all begins with the \u201cI won\u2019t look at you\u201d stage of your flirting.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet a woman you still don\u2019t know, the first contact you have is usually through the eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Si cerca di fare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/che-cosa-significa-un-contatto-visivo-prolungato-tra-un-uomo-e-una-donna\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">contatto visivo prolungato<\/a> e fai del tuo meglio per capire se le piaci o meno in base al suo aspetto.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 facile di quanto sembri. Infatti, la maggior parte delle ragazze utilizzer\u00e0 questo contatto visivo per giocare con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019ll look at you at first but as soon as she sees you staring at her, she\u2019ll probably look away.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, at this point you don\u2019t know what to think: does she like you or did you just misinterpret her initial look?<\/p>\n<p>Well, in this scenario, there is a possibility of the girl being shy. Maybe she is too embarrassed to look at you directly or is afraid that she\u2019ll blush once you figure out that she is indeed flirting with you.<\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, c'\u00e8 una possibilit\u00e0 ancora maggiore che questa ragazza vi stia prendendo in giro.<\/p>\n<p>She simply doesn\u2019t want to be perceived as too available and she sees herself as a female character who is always being chased by men.<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u201cI won\u2019t respond to your texts\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80405\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike.jpg\" alt=\"donna che va in bicicletta tenendo in mano uno smartphone in mezzo alla strada con molti alberi\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure there isn\u2019t a guy out there who hasn\u2019t struggled with a thing called delayed responses while hitting on a girl \u2013 or even when they have already started dating.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most women act like they have this timer installed in their brains. According to them, there is a specific time frame in which they\u2019re allowed to respond to a guy\u2019s text \u2013 even if they like him.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not unusual for a girl to turn off her mobile phone and only get back to you hours later.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re texting a woman who behaves like this, it\u2019s normal to wonder if she is interested or not.<\/p>\n<p>Is she just being polite when she answers your texts every now and then or she is interested but doesn\u2019t want you to see how crazy she is for you?<\/p>\n<p>Well, that is exactly what this woman wants you to think. She doesn\u2019t want you to be certain of her intentions and she wants you to spend some time trying to figure her out.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u201cI won\u2019t accept your date invitations\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80406\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda un uomo negli occhi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This might be a new one for you: most girls won\u2019t accept your date invitation the first time you ask them out. As a man, this probably makes no sense but it is actually very common female behavior.<\/p>\n<p>After all, if you like someone, you are more than happy to go out with them. However, many girls\u2019 brains don\u2019t function like that.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, for them it\u2019s important to act like they\u2019re hard to get. So, many girls will turn you down the first time you ask them out on a date just to see if you really want to see them.<\/p>\n<p>Sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-segni-che-lei-ti-sta-mettendo-alla-prova-per-decidere-se-sei-un-fidanzato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">test<\/a> you to see whether you\u2019ll give up on the first obstacle or you\u2019ll be more persistent or ask them out again.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this is where you\u2019ll have to be extra wise and see the subtle differences between a girl who is turning you down because she really doesn\u2019t want to go out on a date with you, and a girl who is sending you a hint to ask her again.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 difficile, lo so.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to her answer. Is she saying \u201cno\u201d without much explanation and without leaving the possibility of seeing you some other time?<\/p>\n<p>In questo caso, mi dispiace dirtelo, ma probabilmente non \u00e8 interessata e sarebbe meglio per te non insistere ulteriormente.<\/p>\n<p>D'altro canto, se vi propone di rimandare l'appuntamento o vi dice che le piacerebbe uscire con voi quando vi conoscer\u00e0 meglio, avete sicuramente una possibilit\u00e0 con lei.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u201cI\u2019m not so interested\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80407\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che spinge un uomo in piedi all&#039;aperto indossando un abito invernale\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be straight about one thing: a girl can be head over heels for you but she\u2019ll rarely show it to you directly.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most women think that it\u2019s a guy\u2019s job to chase them and this is exactly what they\u2019re trying to accomplish by pretending to be not so interested.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they&#8217;ve seen it in movies and read about it in books. All female characters are chased by these strong men while they have second thoughts about their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, don\u2019t expect some big love declarations from a woman in the initial stage of dating.<\/p>\n<p>Many girls think that saying simple things such as \u201cI like you\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m interested in you\u201d are out of hand and will make them look desperate.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll usually try and find a balance between showing you that they\u2019re interested but not too interested.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Il gioco dell'attesa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80408\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad.jpg\" alt=\"uomo su ipad seduto all&#039;interno della stanza vicino alle finestre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a girl is playing hard to get, she\u2019ll make you wait. First of all, she\u2019ll make you wait on her text responses and on her calling you back.<\/p>\n<p>After that, once you finally arrange a date, she\u2019ll probably be late. This waiting game is another way of her testing you: will you walk away or will you wait for her to show up?<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, la maggior parte delle ragazze vi far\u00e0 aspettare per qualsiasi tipo di affetto o contatto fisico.<\/p>\n<p>A woman who plays games won\u2019t kiss you right away and any bedroom activity will be postponed, even though she probably wants the same things as you.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, quando si tratta di questo tipo di attesa, l'ultima cosa da fare \u00e8 spingere i suoi limiti.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you find her attractive and that you\u2019re dying to kiss or hug her but respect her personal boundaries unless you want to be perceived as a creep.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Passive aggressive games<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Women are generally not abusers. They&#8217;re rarely aggressive or violent.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, il loro potere risiede nella capacit\u00e0 di essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segnali-relazione-passiva-aggressiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">passivo aggressivo<\/a>. \u00c8 una pratica che li aiuta a evitare il confronto diretto.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the habit of indirectly expressing their thoughts, feelings, and desires.<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u201cI\u2019m not angry\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80410\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che bacia la donna a letto mentre la donna \u00e8 impegnata con lo smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Unlike men, in most cases, a girl won\u2019t tell you that she\u2019s angry or upset about something you did.<\/p>\n<p>Infatti, anche quando le chiedete apertamente se \u00e8 tutto a posto, \u00e8 improbabile che sia sincera e probabilmente mentir\u00e0 dicendo che tutto \u00e8 in perfetto ordine, il che \u00e8 ben lontano dalla verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, sarebbe molto pi\u00f9 facile se ti dicesse qual \u00e8 il problema, in modo da poterne discutere in modo maturo e trovare una soluzione al tuo problema.<\/p>\n<p>However, women want their men to be mind readers. This girl will expect you to magically know what\u2019s wrong without her having to tell you \u2013 and then make things right using that same magic.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, she wants you to be aware of your mistakes on your own without her having to explain herself. I know that this is extremely difficult to understand for guys but sadly, that\u2019s how the other sex works.<\/p>\n<h2>7. &#8220;You can do whatever you want\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80412\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che d\u00e0 spiegazioni a un uomo all&#039;aperto in pieno giorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando una ragazza ti dice di fare quello che vuoi, NON FARE QUELLO CHE VUOI in nessun caso.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me \u2013 this is one of the biggest and most common traps women will try to use.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably find yourself in this situation when you\u2019re asking her for a rain-check for your date so you can go out with your guy friends, or when you\u2019re wondering if she\u2019ll be bothered by you having coffee with your ex girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Your girl will never say \u201cno\u201d to these requests. She doesn\u2019t want to appear to be a naggy, jealous wife who controls every move you make.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll probably tell you to make a decision on your own and to do as you please. However, this is not an authorization on her part.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it is nothing but a test that many guys fail. You think that she is perfectly okay with you doing what you want and you continue with your plans, assuming that she doesn\u2019t mind.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, at the first occasion, she\u2019ll rub this in your face. You\u2019ll see that she wasn\u2019t happy with your choice and she\u2019ll make sure you realize it one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you should blindly obey your girl\u2019s wishes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just trying to prepare you for the consequences of your actions and trying to make you understand the real meaning hidden behind her words.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Il trattamento silenzioso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80413\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup.jpg\" alt=\"donna con in mano una tazza bianca e l&#039;uomo intorno a lei all&#039;interno della cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un altro dei giochi che le donne fanno con gli uomini \u00e8 chiamato \"il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-modi-per-reagire-al-trattamento-silenzioso-nella-vostra-relazione-di-coppia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trattamento silenzioso<\/a>. Avete presente il comportamento femminile quando vi ignora o vi risponde con una sola parola alle vostre domande?<\/p>\n<p>Well, this one is pretty similar to the \u201cI\u2019m not angry\u201d game. In both cases, your girl will act angry but will deny feeling like that.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, she\u2019ll probably use irony and sarcasm while talking to you. She might try insulting you indirectly or she\u2019ll just turn off her cell phone and decline your calls.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, she\u2019ll do anything besides actually telling you what\u2019s wrong. This is another case in which you\u2019re expected to use your magician skills and read her mind.<\/p>\n<p>Oppure potete aspettare che rinsavisca e sia pronta a parlarvi come un'adulta. La scelta \u00e8 tutta vostra!<\/p>\n<h2>9. Non darvi la possibilit\u00e0 di scusarvi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80414\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo.jpg\" alt=\"donna in polo bianca e blu accanto a un uomo in camicia bianca\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si commette un errore, l'ordine naturale degli eventi \u00e8 quello di dire che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/100-citazioni-mi-dispiace-per-lei-per-farsi-perdonare-dalla-persona-amata\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you\u2019re sorry<\/a> to the person you\u2019ve harmed.<\/p>\n<p>However, many women won\u2019t give you the chance to apologize to them.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll probably tell you that they don\u2019t need your apologies and that you saying that you\u2019re sorry means nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, ascoltarle e non chiedere perdono \u00e8 un errore madornale. Infatti, ogni ragazza si aspetta che vi scusiate, nonostante quello che dice.<\/p>\n<p>However, what most men don\u2019t know is that saying that you\u2019re sorry is not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you have to actually show it, and your actions have to reflect your words if you don\u2019t want them to end up sounding empty.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should form a habit of apologizing all the time, especially for the things you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Pretending she\u2019s not jealous<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80419\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna che fissa due coppie che si guardano gelose indossando un abito nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"521\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1-768x500.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you like a girl, it\u2019s normal to get jealous of other guys around her.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll become a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/11-segni-di-un-partner-maniaco-del-controllo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">maniaco del controllo<\/a> who will cage her and keep her just for yourself, but it wouldn\u2019t be normal if you felt nothing when you see her around another man who might represent a threat to your relationship or your place in her life.<\/p>\n<p>In questo caso le ragazze funzionano quasi come i ragazzi. Quindi, non c'\u00e8 dubbio su una cosa: se una ragazza \u00e8 interessata a voi, sar\u00e0 gelosa fino a un certo punto.<\/p>\n<p>However, most women won\u2019t admit this, even if their life depends on it as that would be proof of their feelings for you, which is something they\u2019re trying to hide at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll pretend that they don\u2019t care who you see, where you go, who you\u2019re texting, and if you\u2019re flirting with someone else.<\/p>\n<h2>11. \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal.jpg\" alt=\"donna che rifiuta la proposta di matrimonio di un uomo durante un appuntamento a cena\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How many times have you heard this empty phrase? I don\u2019t think there\u2019s a man out there who has never been told the infamous words \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you a big secret: in a girl\u2019s head, it\u2019s always you. Even if she doesn\u2019t want to tell you, there is a reason for her losing interest or dumping you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, there is also a chance that she simply doesn\u2019t like you enough to actually be with you. Maybe she thinks she can do better or perhaps there is another guy she\u2019s chosen over you.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Negazione dell'affetto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80427\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che ignora l&#039;uomo con attenzione all&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another popular form of passive aggressive behavior is something known as \u201cwithholding affection\u201d. This is a mind game women play to emotionally blackmail and manipulate you.<\/p>\n<p>Quando una ragazza sta cercando di fare un punto della situazione o vuole che tu la insegua di pi\u00f9, tratterr\u00e0 l'affetto.<\/p>\n<p>She wants you running after her like a little puppy, since she is convinced that, as a man, you\u2019re dependent on physical touch.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>&#8211; Hot and cold games<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Giocare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-psicologia-che-si-nasconde-dietro-il-gioco-degli-appuntamenti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">giochi caldi e freddi<\/a> Spesso gli uomini non sanno da che parte stare.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever found yourself in a situation where you had absolutely no clue what a girl wanted from you or whether she was even interested or not, she was probably playing these games, without you even noticing.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Amare e non essere indifferenti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80433\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top.jpg\" alt=\"un bel ragazzo in top blu in piedi sulla porta con in mano un occhiale da vista\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei giochi caldi e freddi pi\u00f9 comuni che le donne fanno agli uomini \u00e8 quello di lasciarvi all'oscuro dei loro veri sentimenti.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trapped in this kind of game, the girl you\u2019re into will probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/segni-di-un-bombardamento-damore-e-non-di-un-vero-amore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bomba d'amore<\/a> you at first. In the beginning, she will act like she\u2019s too good to be true.<\/p>\n<p>She will behave like you\u2019re the man she\u2019s spent her entire life waiting for. She will treat you like her Prince Charming.<\/p>\n<p>Questa ragazza vi mander\u00e0 messaggi in continuazione, accetter\u00e0 i vostri inviti a uscire, vi chiamer\u00e0 per uscire e potrebbe persino arrivare a presentarvi ai suoi amici e alla sua famiglia.<\/p>\n<p>She will probably tell you that she loves you and if she doesn\u2019t say those exact words, she will definitely act like she does.<\/p>\n<p>However, as soon as she sees that you\u2019re hooked, she\u2019ll change. All of a sudden, she\u2019ll start acting indifferent and there will be no sign of the girl you used to know.<\/p>\n<p>Just like that, she\u2019ll become too busy to see you, she\u2019ll stop putting you first, she won\u2019t initiate communication, and she\u2019ll start treating you like her last resort.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, when this starts to happen, you\u2019ll assume that she\u2019s lost interest with time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be convinced that she\u2019s fallen out of love with you and after a few initial tries to revive the flame between you two, you\u2019ll want to give up on this girl.<\/p>\n<p>However, that\u2019s when she\u2019ll go to being her old self. She\u2019ll sense that she\u2019s losing you and she\u2019ll start to love you again.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, you\u2019ll find yourself trapped in an endless cycle of this girl playing her hot and cold mind games.<\/p>\n<p>In that process, you\u2019ll fall madly in love with her, which is exactly what she wanted all along.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that: you\u2019ll also be under her complete control. Without even being aware of it, you\u2019ll be ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent her entering her \u201ccold phase\u201d once more.<\/p>\n<h2>14. Invio di segnali contrastanti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo geloso di una donna che parla con un altro uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anche se i ragazzi sono spesso accusati di inviare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/i-tuoi-segnali-contrastanti-mi-fanno-dubitare-di-me-stesso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">segnali contrastanti<\/a>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle ragazze sono in realt\u00e0 campionesse di questa disciplina.<\/p>\n<p>In effetti, una delle tattiche pi\u00f9 comuni che le donne usano per farti impazzire per loro sono questi messaggi nascosti che fai fatica a decodificare.<\/p>\n<p>Vi siete mai trovati in una situazione in cui una ragazza \u00e8 chiaramente gelosa di altre donne della vostra vita, ma lei stessa si rifiuta di darvi una possibilit\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>Where she tells you that she\u2019s been dying to see you but can\u2019t make it every time you invite her on a date?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever been in a situation where a girl\u2019s actions don\u2019t match her words? Where she doesn\u2019t let you move on but doesn\u2019t want to be with you either?<\/p>\n<p>Well, in that case, my friend, you\u2019re in the trap of a woman\u2019s mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You spend most of your time dissecting everything this girl does or tells you and before you know it, she\u2019s becomes the only person you think of.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">&#8211; Making you jealous<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nessuna donna vuole avere una relazione con un uomo possessivo o controllante. Tuttavia, raramente ammetteranno che gli piace vedervi un po' gelosi.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, a certain amount of jealousy often serves as proof that you&#8217;re really into them. Therefore, girls will sometimes try to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-far-ingelosire-un-ragazzo-13-modi-per-farsi-desiderare-da-lui\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">renderti geloso<\/a> di proposito, solo per ottenere una reazione.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Paragonarvi al suo ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che litiga a letto con l&#039;abito da notte\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una ragazza che cerca di farvi ingelosire tirando in ballo le sue precedenti relazioni non lo far\u00e0 mai direttamente.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll never say \u201cMy ex was better than you\u201d or \u201cI loved my ex more than I love you\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>However, she\u2019ll constantly compare you to him in subtle ways. She\u2019ll mention the romantic gestures and the surprises he made for her, she\u2019ll casually talk about his presents and the attention he gave her.<\/p>\n<p>In questo scenario esistono due opzioni.<\/p>\n<p>Nel primo caso, una ragazza mette il suo ex su un piedistallo. Continua a parlare di quanto fosse perfetta la relazione con lui.<\/p>\n<p>Se questo \u00e8 un caso che vi riguarda, lasciate che vi dica che probabilmente sta esagerando. In realt\u00e0, sta idealizzando la sua storia d'amore passata per stabilire uno standard che si aspetta da voi.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole che tu inizi inconsciamente a competere con il suo ex. Vuole che le compriate cose migliori e che la trattiate con ancora pi\u00f9 cura di quanto abbia fatto lui.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if she is talking trash about her ex, it\u2019s her way of sending you a message. This way, she\u2019s actually warning you of the type of behavior she won\u2019t tolerate in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is also a form of manipulation. When you hear all of this, you\u2019ll do your best not to repeat this guy\u2019s mistakes and prove to her that not all men are the same.<\/p>\n<h2>16. Showing you that you\u2019re replaceable<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80611\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato con la sua compagna che risponde e ridacchia per una telefonata proprio accanto a lui\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una ragazza che cerca di farti ingelosire far\u00e0 di tutto per dimostrarti che puoi essere facilmente sostituito.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, le piaci, ma pu\u00f2 trovare un altro te in un minuto.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, una donna intelligente non ve lo dir\u00e0 mai apertamente, perch\u00e9 sa che sarebbe scortese e inappropriato.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, she\u2019ll make sure you\u2019re perfectly aware of this fact at all times so you never take her for granted.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, she\u2019ll casually mention all the guys who are hitting on her. Of course, she\u2019ll convince you that she remains immune to their courtship but the point is that she has other options.<\/p>\n<p>She might even tell you that one of her exes is going out of his way to make up with her. She\u2019ll point out that only now has he realized what he lost.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto questo ha uno scopo: questa ragazza vuole che voi diventiate <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-cose-che-gli-uomini-hanno-paura-di-perdere\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">paura di perderla<\/a>. Inoltre, vuole avvertirvi di essere abbastanza saggi da vedere il suo valore prima di sentire la sua assenza.<\/p>\n<h2>17. Flirtare con altri ragazzi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomini e donne che flirtano in un bar mentre bevono birra\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Flirting with other guys in your presence is something girls will do, especially if they feel that they\u2019re not getting enough attention from you.<\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 un'altra delle loro strategie per mostrarvi che ci sono altri pesci nel mare.<\/p>\n<p>A girl will do this if you aren\u2019t exclusive or even if you are in a labelled relationship.<\/p>\n<p>When you try to confront her about this, she\u2019ll tell you that flirting is not cheating or she\u2019ll try to convince you that you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>Reagendo a lei <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-consigli-per-flirtare-veramente-testati-per-attrarre-un-ragazzo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">flirt<\/a> in the right way is not easy. If you stay silent about it, she\u2019ll start doing it even more since in reality she wants a reaction.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you tell her that you\u2019re bothered by her behavior, you\u2019re exposing your vulnerabilities to her.<\/p>\n<p>This way, she\u2019ll probably flirt with someone every time she wants to provoke you or hurt your feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>18. Usare i social media per farvi ingelosire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80612\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo che utilizza i social media su uno smartphone con commenti e icona di persona in colore blu\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Negli incontri moderni, le piattaforme dei social media sono una parte importante di ogni relazione romantica. Per questo motivo, la vostra ragazza ha anche la possibilit\u00e0 di farvi ingelosire.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case if we\u2019re talking about your ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she doesn\u2019t need to have any physical contact with you to make you jealous \u2013 it\u2019s more than enough to post an Instagram story with some other guy or to ask her friend to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/commenti-cool-per-instagram-2\/\">lasciate un commento sotto la sua foto.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you ever find yourself in this situation, don\u2019t think that she found someone else immediately after your breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente sta solo cercando di farti venire da lei.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole che tu reagisca e che tu abbia paura che lei vada avanti.<\/p>\n<p>Si aspetta che voi la contattiate e che lei voglia tornare insieme, ma si rifiuta di fare un primo passo verso la riappacificazione.<\/p>\n<h2>19. Uscire con altri ragazzi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna in palestra con indosso abbigliamento sportivo\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Technically, when you\u2019re not in a labeled, committed, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/15-characteristics-of-a-healthy-and-mature-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relazione sana<\/a>, you both have the right to date other people. Well, that\u2019s exactly what this girl uses to make you jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Anzi, si assicura che voi siate consapevoli del fatto che lei \u00e8 ancora in cerca di appuntamenti.<\/p>\n<p>Quando una ragazza parla di altri appuntamenti o porta altri ragazzi nei luoghi in cui si aspetta di vedervi, sappiate che lo fa di proposito.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Playing the victim<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Giocare la carta della vittima \u00e8 anche uno dei giochi mentali pi\u00f9 comuni delle ragazze. Infatti, utilizzano numerose tattiche di cui i ragazzi non hanno idea per farsi passare per innocenti in tutte le situazioni.<\/p>\n<h2>20. Le lacrime<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che piange accanto a un uomo sul divano in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a woman doesn\u2019t get what she wants or when things don\u2019t go her way, she\u2019ll go straight to using the proven method most guys immediately fall for: crying.<\/p>\n<p>After all, who can remain immune to an innocent girl\u2019s tears?<\/p>\n<p>Devo dire che molte ragazze sono in grado di piangere su richiesta.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that you\u2019ll forgive her or that you\u2019ll give her what she wants because no man wants to be the reason for his girlfriend\u2019s tears.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, in some cases, her crying is nothing but a form of manipulation. It\u2019s her game and a way for her to play with your head.<\/p>\n<h2>21. You&#8217;re always guilty<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80465\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste seduto sul divano marrone in una stanza buia\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch-768x501.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un altro gioco mentale delle donne \u00e8 il senso di colpa. In qualche modo, si finisce sempre per essere colpevoli di tutto ci\u00f2 che accade nella relazione.<\/p>\n<p>A girl who is into playing games will rarely take responsibility for her words or actions. Even when she admits that she\u2019s made a mistake, she\u2019ll turn the tables and accuse you of provoking her.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you\u2019re the bad guy of the story. You did something to hurt her feelings, you are the one who caused her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-affrontare-il-crepacuore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mal di cuore<\/a>, and you\u2019re the one who caused problems between you two.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what happens, you\u2019re always the one who ends up apologizing. Not only that: you\u2019re also always the one who feels guilty.<\/p>\n<p>Se questo continua ad accadere nella vostra relazione, lasciate che vi dica che questa ragazza \u00e8 entrata nella vostra testa senza che ve ne accorgiate.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s practically impossible for you to be in the wrong all the time. A healthy relationship is a two way street and it\u2019s time for her to take her share of responsibility as well.<\/p>\n<h2>22. Portare in tavola il suo passato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80466\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"donna sofferente seduta accanto a un uomo che la consola\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando una ragazza ti dice che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segnali-di-una-donna-emotivamente-non-disponibile\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">non \u00e8 emotivamente disponibile<\/a>, she\u2019ll probably use her past as justification.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll tell you that she\u2019s been hurt and suffered from heartache more times than she can count and that consequently, she\u2019s lost her trust in men.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll probably tell you that she is too scared to open up to you, and that she is afraid that you\u2019ll take advantage of her and abandon her when she needs you the most.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s arguing that this girl was treated badly in the past. However, that is not an excuse for her nasty behavior in the present.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you didn\u2019t do anything wrong so why should you be the one paying for the debts left by her exes? Why should you suffer the consequences of their actions?<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t argue with the fact that she\u2019s been hurt. However, I\u2019m begging you not to allow this fact to become a weapon for her to use against you, nor see it as a justification for her bad behavior towards you.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Using you<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Quando si tiene a una ragazza, si ha l'impulso di proteggerla e di tenerla al sicuro. Questo spesso include aiutarla.<\/p>\n<p>However, you have to be careful not to cross the line and not to find yourself in a situation where she&#8217;ll use your kind intentions and take advantage of you.<\/p>\n<h2>23. Fingere di essere impotenti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che aiuta la sua ragazza in piedi indossando abbigliamento sportivo\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le donne sono il sesso debole secondo i ruoli storici di genere.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, quando una ragazza punta tutto sull'uguaglianza, fingere di essere indifesa e chiedere di essere guidata nella vita \u00e8 assolutamente fuori luogo.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is exactly what most girls do. They use you and trick you into thinking that they can\u2019t make it without you, even though that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>If your girl is acting this way, she\u2019s actually playing with your ego. She wants you to feel like a big, macho man and tough guy near her.<\/p>\n<p>She is giving you an opportunity to take over the role of an alpha male, so you feel important when you\u2019re with her.<\/p>\n<h2>24. Chiedere favori<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80468\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che gonfia un pneumatico d&#039;auto sgonfio durante la stagione della neve\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Chiedere favori \u00e8 un altro dei giochi che le donne fanno agli uomini.<\/p>\n<p>Una ragazza che vi piace vi pregher\u00e0 di aiutarla a traslocare, di darle una mano in casa, di cambiarle una gomma a terra, di occuparvi della sua auto e di diventare il suo tuttofare personale.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019ll feel flattered by the fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-cose-che-dimostra-che-ci-si-puo-fidare-completamente-di-lui\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">si fida di te<\/a>. She clearly sees that she can rely on you and you\u2019re glad that she counts on you.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you look at things closely, you\u2019ll see that she is not returning your favors. Most of the time, she is actually taking advantage of your kindness and is using you as a doormat.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest..jpg\" alt=\"I 24 giochi mentali pi\u00f9 comuni che le donne fanno agli uomini\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though they usually refuse to admit it, the truth is that women play games. In fact, in most cases, they do it more often than men. This doesn&#8217;t mean that all women are manipulative. In fact, most mind games women play on men are actually directed towards making you chase them even harder or&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":80474,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men.jpg",800,524,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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