{"id":8099,"date":"2020-06-07T11:35:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T11:35:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8099"},"modified":"2021-09-21T12:22:34","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T12:22:34","slug":"il-ragazzo-della-lettera-non-e-stato-trattato-come-una-priorita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-della-lettera-non-e-stato-trattato-come-una-priorita\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera al ragazzo che non mi ha trattato come una priorit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Caro te\",<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is me telling the same story over and over again. I just don\u2019t know what bad luck I have with guys, as I always bump into someone who isn\u2019t worthy.<\/a><\/p>\n

And you were just one of them. You were just a number. One boy more who didn\u2019t treat me like a priority. Everyone was more important than me.<\/p>\n

Fucking neighbor\u2019s cat was more important than me. And I was always the second option. The one you came to when you had nobody to comfort you.<\/p>\n

Quello da cui andavi quando volevi fare sesso. Quello che era sempre presente e su cui potevi sempre contare.<\/p>\n

Hai visto quanto ti amavo e mi hai dato per scontato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You never appreciated my love and I loved you like I had never loved before – with my whole heart and soul.<\/p>\n

Ero innamorata di te e tu eri solo un uomo che voleva ottenere quello che voleva e sparire.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to commit. You didn\u2019t want our love to last. You never put a label on our relationship. And you don\u2019t know how much that hurt me.<\/p>\n

It hurt me like it would hurt any other woman. And even when I told you about that, you said that what we had was magical and that you didn\u2019t want to put a label on it. And I bought all your shit.<\/p>\n

Avevi trovato un modo malvagio per ingannare una ragazza che ti amava. Sei riuscito a trovare una strada verso il mio cuore e l'hai fatto a pezzi.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even ask me how I felt. You never asked me what my aspirations were. You thought about your needs only.<\/p>\n

Sei stato il mio aguzzino per tanti anni, ma ero incapace di lasciarti andare.<\/p>\n

Pensavo che il mio amore ti avrebbe reso diverso. Pensavo che saresti cambiato. Ora mi rendo conto di quanto sono stato sciocco.<\/a><\/p>\n

Sono stata una sciocca perch\u00e9 ero ciecamente innamorata di te. E quello che provavi per me era indifferenza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even know what you wanted in life. If you had told me, I would have listened to you.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Se avessi voluto lasciarmi, ti avrei lasciato andare. Ma no, era pi\u00f9 comodo restare vicino e approfittare di me.<\/p>\n

Lo hai fatto perch\u00e9 sapevi di poterlo fare. E io ho accettato ciecamente tutti i tuoi suggerimenti.<\/p>\n

I spent so many nights wondering what I did wrong. I thought I was the reason our relationship wasn\u2019t successful. I thought that I had to change.<\/p>\n

But the harsh truth was that I didn\u2019t have to change because I was the best girlfriend you will ever have.<\/p>\n

Eri tu a dover decidere cosa volevi dalla tua vita, senza comunicarmi la tua decisione.<\/p>\n

Ma sei stato un codardo anche solo a farlo. Hai seguito la corrente perch\u00e9 era la via pi\u00f9 facile. E io volevo combattere per te.<\/p>\n

But fighting for someone who didn\u2019t want to be fought for is impossible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Purtroppo, L'ho imparato in modo difficile. <\/a><\/p>\n

Ora che per me sei solo un passato doloroso, ho imparato alcune lezioni importanti. Ho imparato che non dovrei mai accontentarmi di meno di quello che merito.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I learned to love myself in the first place. And I will never let a man play with my emotions like you did. It happened only once and it won\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n

Ho capito che sono degna e che ho bisogno di un uomo che sia come me.<\/p>\n

Merito di qualcuno che mi tratti come la pupilla dei suoi occhi. Merito di un uomo che trover\u00e0 la mia felicit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 importante della sua.<\/p>\n

Merito un uomo il cui amore si senta come a casa. Merito un uomo che realizzi tutti i miei sogni.<\/p>\n

Too bad, that man won\u2019t be YOU!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cDear You\u201d, It is me telling the same story over and over again. I just don\u2019t know what bad luck I have with guys, as I always bump into someone who isn\u2019t worthy. And you were just one of them. You were just a number. One boy more who didn\u2019t treat me like a priority….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":88676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Didn\u2019t-Treat-Me-Like-A-Priority.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8099"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8099\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88676"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}