{"id":81028,"date":"2020-07-09T11:33:51","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:33:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81028"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:05:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:05:43","slug":"non-tutti-i-viaggi-sono-finalizzati-a-trovare-lamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-tutti-i-viaggi-sono-finalizzati-a-trovare-lamore\/","title":{"rendered":"Non tutti i viaggi servono a trovare l'amore, a volte servono a trovare se stessi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\"<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qual \u00e8 lo scopo della nostra vita<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u201d This is a question that bothered me for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo aver avuto una vita sentimentale cos\u00ec turbolenta, soprattutto dopo la fine della mia ultima relazione, ho finalmente capito la risposta giusta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Prima<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho pensato che <\/span><b><i>la vita era un viaggio senza fine alla ricerca dell'amore<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> In un certo senso, \u00e8 vero. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Che lo si voglia ammettere o meno, tutti noi attraversiamo la vita alla ricerca di qualcuno che amiamo e che sia in grado di ricambiare il nostro amore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know that I&#8217;m not the only one who has felt that way. It seems like it&#8217;s our only life goal; to find someone who&#8217;ll love and cherish us. To find someone to spend the rest of our life with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, we are afraid of being single. We&#8217;re scared of growing old alone without a partner to take care of us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Una cosa che dimentichiamo spesso \u00e8 che <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/romantic-love\/being-single\/6-consigli-per-stare-da-soli-senza-sentirsi-soli\/\"><b>essere single non \u00e8<\/b><\/a><b> la stessa cosa dell'essere soli. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you&#8217;re feeling lonely, starting a new relationship won&#8217;t help you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81031 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi nel campo durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se volete vivere una vita appagante, dovete innamorarvi di voi stessi prima di innamorarvi di qualcun altro. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 necessario costruire e mantenere un rapporto sano con se stessi prima di decidere di iniziare una relazione con qualcun altro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Otherwise, no matter how much you love someone or someone loves you, you&#8217;ll never be completely happy because you&#8217;ll always have a feeling that something is missing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Truly, something will be missing. The most important part of your relationship will be missing. Without enough self-love, you&#8217;ll never be able to fully enjoy any relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il fatto \u00e8 che <\/span><b><i>most people think that the feeling of loneliness is connected to our love life. It&#8217;s not!<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Our relationship status doesn&#8217;t affect that at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should never feel lonely because you&#8217;re always in such great company. You always have yourself. If you learn to love yourself, you&#8217;ll see that I am right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81032 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"donna con poncho marrone che guarda la montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-mountain-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself, if you learn to love yourself, you&#8217;ll see how your life will change completely. I guarantee it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parlo per esperienza personale, <\/span><b>Ero alla ricerca cieca e costante dell'amore e questo mi ha portato a fare molte scelte sbagliate.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Choices from which I&#8217;m still suffering consequences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi ha portato a molte delusioni. Mi ha portato a spezzare il mio cuore tante volte. Mi ha lasciato tante cicatrici.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Innamorarmi di me stesso mi ha fatto capire che devo anche amare e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-modi-per-abbracciare-il-se-imperfetto\/\"><b>abbracciare tutti coloro che<\/b><\/a><b> scars. They are also a part of me and they made me the person I am today. I&#8217;m proud of all my scars.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I tried so hard to find someone who would love me no matter what and I was entering into new relationships too quickly, hoping that it\u2019d finally be the real thing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non lo \u00e8 mai stato. Tutte quelle relazioni sono state un fallimento. Erano condannate fin dall'inizio. Tutto a causa della mancanza di amore per se stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81033 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-post.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito a quadri appoggiata a un palo nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-post.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-post-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-post-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People say that you&#8217;ll find true and pure love only once you stop searching for it. I agree with it but I would only add to this: &#8216;and once you find love within yourself first&#8217;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La vita ha assunto un significato completamente nuovo per me il giorno in cui ho smesso di inseguire l'amore e ho iniziato a prestare maggiore attenzione all'amore per me stessa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t need to seek love when love is always there. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/passi-verso-lamore-incondizionato-per-se-stessi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'amore \u00e8 dentro di te<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>This doesn&#8217;t mean that you&#8217;ll never find someone to ride this journey of life with, it just means that you don&#8217;t have to force it. When the time is right, true love will find you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qual \u00e8 lo scopo della vita per voi? <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it&#8217;s finding your soulmate and true love, then you should change it before it gets too late.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prima di rimanere feriti e con il cuore spezzato. Trovate voi stessi e innamoratevi dell'essere umano bello, adorabile e intelligente che siete.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81036 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non tutti i viaggi servono a trovare l&#039;amore, a volte servono a trovare se stessi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWhat is our life purpose?\u201d This is a question that bothered me for a long time. After having such a turbulent love life, especially after my last relationship ended, I finally understood the right answer. Before, I thought that life was a never-ending journey of searching for love. In a way, that is true. Whether&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":81034,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself.png",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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