{"id":8103,"date":"2020-05-07T11:50:21","date_gmt":"2020-05-07T11:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8103"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:45:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:45:45","slug":"lasciarsi-finalmente-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lasciarsi-finalmente-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Questo sono io che finalmente mi lascio andare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Questo \u00e8 il momento in cui finalmente smetto di fregarmene di noi due.<\/strong> Alla fine ho rinunciato alla ricerca dell'oca selvatica. Ho risolto tante cose che non erano chiare da molto tempo.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m so tired of being the only one who is investing in our relationship and always going the extra mile to make everything work. I\u2019m so tired of thinking and acting for the both of us.<\/a><\/p>\r\n

I didn\u2019t sign up for this kind of relationship. This is something I never wanted and definitely something I never expected to happen to me.<\/p>\r\n

Credevo di essere pi\u00f9 intelligente di cos\u00ec, ma a quanto pare non si sa mai cosa ci aspetta in futuro.<\/p>\r\n

Sono io che finalmente agisco.<\/strong> Mi sono reso conto che c'\u00e8 una sola vita da vivere. All'improvviso ho capito che si ha una sola possibilit\u00e0 di realizzare tutto ci\u00f2 che si vuole.<\/p>\r\n

Quindi, se qualcuno vi ostacola, invece di farvi aspirare a qualcosa di pi\u00f9 e a migliorarvi, deve andarsene. Non vi rende felici e non lavora per voi.<\/p>\r\n

I realized I won\u2019t waste my only chance of living the kind of life I want to live. I want everything and I won\u2019t let you stop me from getting it.<\/p>\r\n

The truth is, you really don\u2019t deserve me. Not even a bit.<\/p>\r\n

Finalmente ho smesso di provarci.<\/strong> I\u2019m tired of making excuses for you every time you fuck things up.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m done fooling myself into thinking you won\u2019t be making the same mistakes over and over again. I\u2019m done trying to approve everything you do, just because I love you.<\/p>\r\n

You won\u2019t be getting any second chances. You\u2019ve fucked up so many times.<\/p>\r\n

Hai prosciugato me e la forza che ho messo nel salvarci e nel cercare di farci diventare qualcosa che durasse per sempre.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t want to be the bigger person anymore. I want to stick to what I believe in and that is that I don\u2019t want or need you anymore.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t want to continuously swallow my pride and bend over backward for you. I\u2019ve been doing that for so long and I\u2019ve been getting absolutely nothing back. Well, not anymore.<\/p>\r\n

Ho finalmente capito quello che voglio e non \u00e8 una relazione unilaterale<\/a>. Mi merito molto di pi\u00f9 e ci arriver\u00f2. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Ma la prima cosa che ho in programma \u00e8 liberarmi di te.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"Questo<\/p>\r\n

Sono io che finalmente vedo la vera te.<\/strong> I was blinded by love. I couldn\u2019t see things straight.<\/p>\r\n

Ma ora che mi sono svegliato dal sogno che io stesso ho diretto, la nebbia \u00e8 sparita. Posso vedere chiaramente e so chi sei veramente.<\/p>\r\n

Riesco a vedere attraverso ogni tua convincente bugia e il tuo impeccabile inganno.<\/p>\r\n

Those empty words that come out of your mouth don\u2019t mean anything to me. Everything you say or do is nothing but a perfectly-constructed lie.<\/p>\r\n

When I first met you, you pretended to be something that you\u2019re not. It was all a carefully made-up game only to charm me and to make me fall in love with you.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c8 stata la migliore performance che avete fatto finora e l'ho comprata.<\/p>\r\n

Finalmente sto riacquistando un po' di rispetto per me stesso.<\/strong> Sono io che finalmente prendo posizione per me stessa. Sono io che metto fine al tuo essere irrispettoso e non apprezzabile.<\/p>\r\n

I finally realized that you will never be there for me. You won\u2019t be celebrating when I accomplish something. You won\u2019t be my shoulder to cry on when I fail.<\/p>\r\n

You will always be somewhere in the middle and I don\u2019t need that. I need someone who will be there at any moment of my life, whether a happy or sad one.<\/p>\r\n

Ho bisogno di qualcuno che mi faccia credere in me stessa e che mi costringa a lottare per ci\u00f2 in cui credo e che voglio. Ho bisogno di qualcuno che mi nutra e che aiuti la mia autostima a crescere e non a scomparire.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally making peace with the fact that I\u2019m so much more than you deserve.<\/strong> Ora so cosa voglio.<\/p>\r\n

I want real unconditional love and you\u2019re not the one who can give it to me. I want a good morning text just because someone remembered me.<\/p>\r\n

Voglio qualcuno che non si stanchi mai di parlarmi o di ascoltarmi quando ho un problema.<\/p>\r\n

Voglio una persona con cui condividere i miei segreti, le mie paure e le mie aspirazioni.<\/p>\r\n

Voglio qualcuno che si guadagni la mia fiducia incondizionata. Voglio qualcuno per il resto della mia vita. Purtroppo, questo non sei tu.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally realizing that I don\u2019t want to waste any more of my time on you or any other guy like you. I\u2019d rather be single and wait for the one I know I want to spend the rest of my life with.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

This is me finally giving up on anyone who makes me feel like I\u2019m hard to love. I\u2019m not, it\u2019s you who never learned how to love me.<\/p>\r\n

But it\u2019s even better that way because we never belonged with each other.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally taking control over my life and my happiness. This is me deciding I\u2019m worth so much more than you were willing to admit and this is me letting go of un uomo emotivamente immaturo<\/a> – voi.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n

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