{"id":81203,"date":"2020-06-22T11:52:50","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T11:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81203"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:39:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:39:24","slug":"relazione-transazionale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-transazionale\/","title":{"rendered":"Tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere su una relazione transazionale"},"content":{"rendered":"

I bet that right now you’re probably wondering what on earth a <\/span>relazione transazionale<\/span> is and whether you’re unknowingly in one!<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t worry, I’m here to answer all of your questions \u2013 and then some! <\/span><\/p>\n

Let’s start with the obvious. When you look up the word “transaction,” you’ll notice it has to do with buying and selling. It’s a <\/span>transazione commerciale,<\/span> so in this sense we can say it’s sort of like <\/span>marketing relazionale<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s the type of relationship that is based on need. Two lovers are like <\/b>partner commerciali<\/b>, ognuno dei quali beneficia della relazione a modo suo (<\/b>quid pro quo<\/b>).<\/b><\/p>\n

Doesn’t sound very romantic, right?<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s because it isn’t.<\/b> A differenza di <\/span>relazioni trasformazionali<\/span> che si basano sul desiderio e sono in realt\u00e0 <\/span>relazioni significative<\/span>, quelli transazionali riguardano <\/span>interesse personale<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Avete mai notato che quando le persone vogliono qualcosa dal proprio partner, fratello o amico, la via pi\u00f9 semplice \u00e8 quella di offrire loro qualcosa in cambio?<\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

And isn’t that kind of like a <\/span>accordo commerciale<\/span> mascherato da autentico <\/span>interazione sociale<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

There isn’t necessarily anything wrong with <\/span>matrimoni transazionali<\/span> and relationships, it’s just that they lack love, and <\/span>they’re not based on <\/b>ci\u00f2 che si desidera<\/b>, ma quello di cui avete bisogno.<\/b><\/p>\n

We don’t<\/span> anche rendersi conto che molti dei nostri <\/span>relazioni a lungo termine<\/span> tendono a finire proprio per la loro natura transazionale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quante volte avete chiuso con il vostro partner perch\u00e9 continuava ad avere bisogno di qualcosa da voi, invece di darvi amore disinteressato?<\/span><\/p>\n

How many times have you been forced to settle for mediocre love due to your partner’s inability to see you as anything more than a possession that keeps on giving?<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando <\/span>sapere come<\/span> much you’re worth, you are able to draw a line that nobody gets to cross anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’re sick and tired of the transactional nature of your relationship, isn’t it high time you did something about it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>10 segni sinceri di essere sposati ma innamorati di un'altra persona<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 dovremmo evitare le relazioni transazionali e puntare a qualcosa di pi\u00f9?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When we’re so focused on the need as opposed to desire, we lose the sense of what relationships are all about in their core.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensate a questo. Quando l'intera relazione si basa su ci\u00f2 che si pu\u00f2 offrire e su quanto si \u00e8 bravi <\/span>accordo commerciale<\/span> si pu\u00f2 fare, si perde il senso di una vera relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? <\/span>Because when your partner is only willing to offer something based on how much you’re willing to contribute, that’s a business partnership, not a loving union.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

On the other hand, a different approach would allow your bond to strengthen and you’d see each other as actual life partners, and not a business team.<\/span><\/p>\n

Avete mai detto al vostro partner, <\/span>“Why should I do this for you, when you’ve never done it for me?”<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

That’s an excellent example of a transactionally-oriented relationship. One partner is unwilling to put forth anything due to the fact they haven’t received the same from the other party.<\/span><\/p>\n

Relazioni transazionali<\/span> sono condannati fin dall'inizio. Sono dannosi e malsani e, se ci sono bambini coinvolti, inculcano loro valori sbagliati.<\/span><\/p>\n

By exposing your child to this type of environment, you’re teaching him to appreciate people based on how much he can get from them<\/i><\/b>. <\/span><\/i>E si spera che non sia una cosa che si vive davvero.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 una triste realt\u00e0 in cui viviamo tutti, e anche i nostri figli. Le nostre interazioni con le persone tendono a essere transazionali, con nostro grande disprezzo.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’ve been living this reality for long enough, it becomes difficult to fight it and seek something more genuine and honest like a <\/span>relazione trasformazionale<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Come costruire la fiducia in una relazione? Strategie semplici ma efficaci<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

La bellezza delle relazioni di trasformazione<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Come dice chiaramente il loro nome, <\/span>relazioni trasformazionali<\/span> sono di dare, aiutare e cambiare in meglio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sono caratterizzati dalla ricerca di un <\/span>vincente<\/span> way to handle couples\u2019 hurdles as they presuppose that together (as a united front) you are much stronger than as individuals.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma c'\u00e8 molto di pi\u00f9 di questo!<\/span><\/p>\n

Non si pu\u00f2 affermare di essere in un <\/i><\/b>relazione trasformazionale<\/i><\/b> if it hasn’t changed you in some meaningful way<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/i> Il modo di pensare, il modo di vedere le cose o il modo in cui funziona il mondo.<\/span><\/p>\n

It has to have affected some profound part of you that has allowed you to express yourself in new, exciting ways. But the thing is, it isn’t all about you and your needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s about you and your partner in a synergy that allows you both to grow as individuals while keeping you together as loving partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not in a <\/span>relazione trasformazionale<\/span> if it doesn’t give you the urge to make changes for the better. In your own life, the lives of those you love, and the world in general.<\/span><\/p>\n

La sua portata \u00e8 estremamente ampia e tende a farvi desiderare di essere migliori, di fare meglio e di continuare a superare le vostre stesse aspettative.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s genuine and deep, based on mutual appreciation, respect, and adoration. It consists of two people willing to go to the ends of the earth for each other without expecting anything in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

Il motivo per cui ci si sforza di raggiungere un <\/span>relazione trasformazionale<\/span> \u00e8 abbastanza ovvio. Sono l'unico modo per resistere alla prova del tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se si desidera un partner che <\/span>massima priorit\u00e0<\/span> creer\u00e0 un'atmosfera emotivamente ricca e felice. <\/span>vita privata<\/span> that you can share, you’ll never get it if you stay in a <\/span>relazione transazionale<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

In questo modo si tratter\u00e0 sempre di <\/span>reti sociali<\/span> e trovare il pi\u00f9 <\/span>modi efficaci<\/span> di trarre profitto dalla vostra partnership. <\/span>Cosa volete<\/span> is unwavering love, support, and knowing they’ve got your back.<\/span><\/p>\n

You want to hear “<\/span><\/i>Ti amo<\/span><\/i>” and you deserve to know you’re appreciated and loved. But how do you get there? How do you turn things around? The answers are below.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Superare il cuore spezzato: 16 consigli per guarire il cuore<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Come si fa a coltivare una relazione a lungo termine pi\u00f9 significativa?<\/h2>\n

Vi fornisco i consigli pi\u00f9 preziosi su come creare qualcosa di pi\u00f9 trasformativo dal vostro <\/span>accordo commerciale<\/span> di una relazione. Ecco i passi da compiere per ribaltare la situazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Abbandonare ogni aspettativa<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti che si possono dire delle relazioni basate sulle transazioni \u00e8 che sono piene di aspettative.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re stuck on maintaining certain expectations the moment you enter a relationship, you’re not giving it a solid chance <\/span>in primo luogo<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn’t provide you with the clarity you need to see what’s actually happening, as you’re too sidetracked by what you need from it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Le aspettative uccidono il romanticismo, la spontaneit\u00e0 e l'eccitazione e fanno fare gli straordinari alla vostra testa. Come? Tenendo costantemente il conto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Are your expectations met? Has your partner fulfilled his\/her purpose? What’s the next goal on the agenda? And so on!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If you’re entering a relationship, there is only one expectation you should keep in mind. To be truly present in the now!<\/span><\/p>\n

Scegliete di prendere ogni giorno come viene. Svegliatevi senza secondi fini e amate il vostro partner a prescindere da tutto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Try to have a conversation with your partner and express your dissatisfaction with how your relationship has unfolded. If you’re seeking a deeper bond and a solid foundation, ask for it openly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Molti <\/i><\/b>relazioni trasformazionali<\/i><\/b> iniziano a essere basati sulle transazioni.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ma una volta che si scopre che questa persona \u00e8 pi\u00f9 di una semplice <\/i><\/b>partner commerciale<\/i><\/b>, si ha la possibilit\u00e0 di svilupparlo in qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lasciate le aspettative fuori dalla porta e mantenete una mente aperta. Se quello che cercate \u00e8 l'amore, siate disposti a offrirlo. Tutto inizia con voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se il vostro partner \u00e8 davvero quello giusto, le cose dovrebbero iniziare a districarsi verso un ambiente migliore, pi\u00f9 caldo e genuino.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Essere sempre se stessi in modo autentico<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is something that differs from one individual to another. Nobody knows who the “real you” is but you! Try to figure out who you are when there’s no one around and commit to being that person all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s challenging, but ultimately, it’s what ensures your happiest self.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being your authentic self is the most personal thing ever. Nobody can tell you how to do it and what you should do to get there. It’s up to you to uncover your true self to a person you share your life with.<\/span><\/p>\n

One thing that’s for certain is that being real and authentic in a sea of fake people is beyond noticeable. Any deviation from what we are exposed to in the world is appreciated and welcome.<\/span><\/p>\n

Essere reali giover\u00e0 alla vostra relazione in pi\u00f9 di un modo. Vi aiuter\u00e0 a creare un legame basato sulla vostra capacit\u00e0 di esprimervi liberamente, in modo non ostentato e feroce.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si creer\u00e0 una zona sicura, in cui il partner sar\u00e0 incoraggiato a togliersi la maschera e a mostrare chi \u00e8 veramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chiss\u00e0, forse sono stanchi del vostro <\/span>relazione transazionale<\/span> e desiderano segretamente di pi\u00f9!<\/span><\/p>\n

L'autenticit\u00e0 \u00e8 fondamentale quando si tratta di mantenere <\/span>relazioni significative<\/span>. Le persone possono fingere a lungo e lo fanno molto bene.<\/span><\/p>\n

But with time, they get tired of it. It becomes exhausting constantly playing a role that’s simply not you. So why not do yourselves a favor and just be who you really want to be?<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not <\/span>partner commerciali<\/span>Siete amanti che condividono la loro vita l'uno con l'altro. Iniziate a comportarvi di conseguenza e vedrete come sar\u00e0 bello per voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Essere disposti a correre qualche rischio<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

\u201cBut he’d learned long ago that a life lived without risks pretty much wasn’t worth living. Life rewarded courage, even when that first step was taken neck-deep in fear.\u201d<\/span><\/i> \u2013 Tamera Alexander <\/span><\/p>\n

Life and love are all about taking risks, giving yourself fully and completely, and hoping for the best. You can’t always have a safety net. Sometimes you just need to go all in and see where it takes you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Taking risks with your partner forges a stronger bond and creates a sense of deep trust. Why? Because it shows your partner that you’re willing to go all-in for them.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t always play it safe, can you? You can’t always keep waiting for others to do something for you in order to give something back! Sometimes you just have to follow your gut and let go of your need for control.<\/span><\/p>\n

Relazioni transazionali<\/span> sono afflitti da continui rifiuti, che finiscono per chiudervi alle persone e non permettervi di amare veramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

It leaves you feeling alone and scared of reaching out to your partner out of fear of being turned down. And that ends up being the voice inside your head that’s always telling you to play it safe.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it’s time to stop listening to that voice. Start moving in a direction that allows you to share your deepest wants and needs, and stop living in your comfort zone.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So what if it ends up biting you in the ass? It’s not the end of the world! Do <\/span>ci\u00f2 che si desidera<\/span>Quando lo volete. Nessuno pu\u00f2 dirvi il contrario.<\/span><\/p>\n

Take risks, share your “failures,” and be proud of every little step in the right direction you take as a couple. Life is too short to live in any type of fear, don’t you think?<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Fare domande scomode (e necessarie)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It’s beyond difficult to connect on a deeper level if you’re not willing to dig deeper. You know exactly what I’m referring to, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete essere in grado di fare domande difficili e scomode e far riflettere il vostro partner! Altrimenti, la vostra relazione sar\u00e0 di natura superficiale, con un tocco di transazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Create a safe, secure environment in your relationship by daring to ask what you haven’t been able to ask so far. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Key elements of a relationship are breaking what’s supposed to be “taboo” topics and digging deeper than ever. That is ultimately the only way to penetrate your partner’s core and find what makes them tick, and vice versa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cercate di dimenticare ci\u00f2 che il vostro <\/span>relazione transazionale<\/span> e combattere l'impulso a stare sul sicuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Get to know the person you’re spending your life with and share your innermost thoughts with them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eventually, you will start realizing that you’ve transcended into a much deeper, more genuine territory that you didn’t think was there.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dare to go where you haven’t gone thus far and you will find the truth that was hidden for so long. <\/span><\/p>\n

Who is your partner truly? What’s the thing that has truly made them think that you’re the one? What is their biggest fear in life? How fearful are they of what the future holds?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Without asking the tough questions, you will forever be stuck in the gray zone. You’ll be partners, but your relationship will resemble a <\/span>accordo commerciale<\/span> che \u00e8 privo di qualsiasi emozione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bloccate la transazione sul nascere e scegliete di evolvere, trasformare e creare qualcosa che trascender\u00e0 tutte le vostre aspettative. Siate una squadra nei modi pi\u00f9 intimi che solo voi due conoscete.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what a real, raw relationship is at its very core.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/span> 9 modi allarmanti di cedere il proprio potere quando si \u00e8 innamorati<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Relazioni trasformazionali<\/span> sono qui per trasformarvi in modi che non siete stati in grado di cogliere mentre eravate bloccati nel vostro <\/span>relazione transazionale<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

They provide you with a brand-new outlook on life that allows you to see all you’ve been missing thus far. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mentre le relazioni basate sulle transazioni si basano su <\/span>interesse personale<\/span> e necessit\u00e0, quelli trasformazionali si concentrano sul cambiamento, sulla crescita e sui valori fondamentali.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love isn’t a <\/span>accordo commerciale<\/span> che si tratta di <\/span>quid pro quo<\/span> action. Love isn’t supposed to be void of intimacy and authenticity.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love is an affectionate collaboration between two people who show up for each other. Not because they are forced to \u2013 because they want to.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cercate un amore che vi trasformi e che vi permetta di crescere insieme fianco a fianco, pur restando in grado di mantenere il vostro io autentico e crudo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 la chiave della vera intimit\u00e0, del legame genuino e di un legame duraturo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u201cMost people are slow to champion love because they fear the transformation it brings into their lives. And make no mistake about it: Love does take over and transform the schemes and operations of our egos in a very mighty way.\u201d \u2013<\/span><\/i> Aberjhani<\/span><\/p>\n

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I bet that right now you’re probably wondering what on earth a transactional relationship is and whether you’re unknowingly in one! Don’t worry, I’m here to answer all of your questions \u2013 and then some!  Let’s start with the obvious. When you look up the word “transaction,” you’ll notice it has to do with buying…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":81207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-A-Transactional-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81203"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81203\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}