{"id":81289,"date":"2020-06-22T12:36:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81289"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:31:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:31:58","slug":"la-chimica-non-porta-a-una-relazione-forte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-chimica-non-porta-a-una-relazione-forte\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi per cui una forte chimica non porta necessariamente a una relazione solida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deep down, most of us want a fairytale kind of love. You want someone who will shake the ground under your feet, make you lose your mind \u2013 someone who will rock your world.<\/p>\n

Beh, tutte queste cose sono in realt\u00e0 segni di una chimica incredibilmente forte<\/a> tra due persone. Tuttavia, questa chimica porta sempre anche a una relazione forte?<\/p>\n

1. Compatibility in bed doesn\u2019t make you compatible in life<\/h2>\n

\"moglie<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be dead honest with you: Lovemaking is an extremely important part of every relationship. Whoever tries to tell you otherwise is lying.<\/p>\n

Non si tratta solo di piacere fisico, ma anche di una forma di legame tra i partner. Aumenta l'intimit\u00e0 e serve ad alleviare lo stress.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, \u00e8 un mito che le persone siano buone o male a letto<\/a> in general. The only thing that counts and guarantees both of the partner\u2019s complete pleasure is actually physical compatibility.<\/p>\n

However, getting along in the bedroom doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019ll also get along outside of it. In fact, the two usually have very little in common.<\/p>\n

Essere compatibili<\/a> nella vita reale significa essere in grado di raggiungere un compromesso. Significa avere visioni del mondo e progetti futuri simili e desiderare quasi le stesse cose nella vita.<\/p>\n

In sostanza, si pu\u00f2 essere un'accoppiata fantastica con qualcuno sotto le lenzuola, il che \u00e8 senza dubbio un segno di chimica incredibilmente forte.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se avete problemi a incontrarvi a met\u00e0 strada durante la giornata, la vostra relazione \u00e8 tutto fuorch\u00e9 forte e sana. S\u00ec, l'intimit\u00e0 fisica probabilmente vi terr\u00e0 insieme per un po'.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, as soon as the passion fades away (and it will), your disagreements in real life will come to the surface and you\u2019ll start seeing your relationship for what it really is.<\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s not a healthy basis for a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Una relazione romantica sana tra due persone si basa su molti elementi. Certo, la chimica \u00e8 una di queste, ma non pu\u00f2 essere l'unica.<\/p>\n

In fact, there are many more important foundations of a real relationship, including unconditional love, mutual respect, appreciation, willingness to put in the effort and make sacrifices, understanding, compromise\u2026<\/p>\n

If you have chemistry and passion, that\u2019s great.<\/p>\n

But if you want to know more about the future of your relationship, it\u2019s time to ask yourself whether you two as a couple share all of these other things mentioned above.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that it\u2019s not enough for you and your romantic partner to be lovers only. Instead, you two should also be migliori amici<\/a> e partner nel crimine, e la chimica non \u00e8 sufficiente per questo.<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe essere la persona con cui ci si connette a livello intellettuale, emotivo e mentale. Qualcuno di cui amate l'anima e che vi completa in tutti gli aspetti della vita.<\/p>\n

3. Gli opposti si attraggono, ma raramente durano<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Secondo la maggior parte degli esperti di appuntamenti, le persone di solito sperimentano la chimica pi\u00f9 forte con i loro opposti polari.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s perfectly normal that you show a special interest in someone who is different than you. It\u2019s difficult for you to be intrigued by a person who is similar to you.<\/p>\n

You know how they\u2019ll react in most situations, you can guess what they\u2019re thinking, and you know what to expect from them because their behavior often mirrors yours.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, quando incontrate il vostro opposto, vi mette alla prova. Avete l'impulso di scavare in profondit\u00e0 sotto gli strati della loro personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Sentite il bisogno di svelare il loro lato misterioso. Il bisogno di conoscerli e di andare a fondo di una persona che non \u00e8 neanche lontanamente simile a voi.<\/p>\n

Di conseguenza, ci si sente attratti da queste persone. Provate questi incredibili fuochi d'artificio e passate attraverso una montagna russa di emozioni.<\/p>\n

Quindi, s\u00ec, si pu\u00f2 dire che gli opposti si attraggono come calamite. Tuttavia, raramente durano.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, nella maggior parte dei casi, le vostre differenze diventano un problema nella vostra relazione. Tutto ci\u00f2 che vi piaceva dell'altra persona inizia a darvi fastidio.<\/p>\n

Besides, when it comes to these couples, everything is always dramatic. You can\u2019t help but fight and disagree all the time since you have different attitudes and opinions.<\/p>\n

Anche se all'inizio la relazione pu\u00f2 sembrare interessante, con il tempo diventa estenuante e prosciugante.<\/p>\n

4. It\u2019s all about your own needs<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

True love is always selfless, while chemistry is not. When you think that you\u2019re in love with someone, the truth is that you\u2019re looking for a way to satisfy your own needs.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re using this person. However, you want them all to yourself and the only thing you\u2019re concerned about is how this relationship makes you feel.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, a strong relationship that has a firm basis is all about meeting both of your needs and desires. In this case, you want the other person to be happy, even if that doesn\u2019t include you.<\/p>\n

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