{"id":81349,"date":"2020-06-22T12:37:42","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:37:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81349"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:29:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:29:14","slug":"miti-sugli-appuntamenti-da-sfatare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/miti-sugli-appuntamenti-da-sfatare\/","title":{"rendered":"5 miti sugli appuntamenti da sfatare se volete una vita sentimentale felice"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni epoca di appuntamenti, compresa quella odierna, ha delle regole non scritte. Queste sono le linee guida che la maggior parte di noi segue solo perch\u00e9 \"le cose funzionano cos\u00ec\".<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, vi siete mai chiesti se queste regole non stiano rendendo la vostra vita sentimentale ancora pi\u00f9 difficile? Ecco 5 miti sugli appuntamenti che dovete sfatare se volete una vita sentimentale felice.<\/p>\n

1. The right girl can \u201cfix\u201d any man<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quante volte vi \u00e8 capitato di assistere a una situazione in cui un uomo problematico sarebbe stato guarito dalla donna giusta?<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about a serial cheater, a player, a commitment-phobe, or about an emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n

In tutti gli scenari, tutti si aspettano che cambi quando incontrer\u00e0 una brava donna che gli aprir\u00e0 il cuore all'amore.<\/p>\n

Una donna che lo ispiri a essere diverso e che lo aiuti a diventare la migliore versione possibile di se stesso.<\/p>\n

Well, I say that\u2019s a load of rubbish. Women are not rehabilitation centers for uomini danneggiati<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your job to repair them or to save them from themselves. Even if you\u2019re a part of a couple, you\u2019re both still responsible for your own choices and actions.<\/p>\n

2. La prima impressione \u00e8 tutto<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: the vibe you get when you meet someone new for the first time can help you form an opinion about them in many cases.<\/p>\n

However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t give men a chance to fix the first impression they made.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up on a guy just because your first date was awkward or because he failed to knock you off your feet. He might have been nervous or maybe he just needs some more time to relax.<\/p>\n

So che questo mito \u00e8 stato inculcato in voi insieme all'idealizzazione di amore a prima vista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, trust me when I tell you that you can fall in love with someone you didn\u2019t feel butterflies with when you first laid your eyes on him.<\/p>\n

3. L'amore \u00e8 sempre sufficiente<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Wherever you turn, you\u2019re surrounded by romantic comedies and novels which glorify romance. In these stories, love is all that matters.<\/p>\n

Era cos\u00ec nelle favole che leggevate da bambini, in tutti quei film di ragazze che guardavate da adolescenti e persino in alcuni libri e film classici che sono molto popolari tra tutte le et\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Love is this force that can beat everything and everyone but can\u2019t be beaten. It has the strength to overcome all possible obstacles and if it\u2019s real, it will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019ve been taught that love is enough for two people to work out. Well, guess what: it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you and your ex didn\u2019t love each other enough just because your relationship failed.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll succeed with some other guy just because you share some deep emotions.<\/p>\n

Yes, love is crucial. However, if it\u2019s not accompanied by trust, respect, compatibility, and many other things, l'amore non pu\u00f2 bastare<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. L'uomo deve sempre fare la prima mossa<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

According to some old fashioned dating rules, it\u2019s the man who courts the woman.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 lui che deve inseguirti, che deve mandare il primo messaggio, che deve iniziare la comunicazione, che deve chiederti di uscire con lui. primo appuntamento<\/a>e fare tutte le altre mosse importanti nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, lasciate che vi dica che questo non \u00e8 altro che un mito che dovete dimenticare se volete una vita sentimentale felice. Dopo tutto, questa regola non ha assolutamente nulla a che fare con la logica e il buon senso.<\/p>\n

What if you like a guy who simply doesn\u2019t notice you? Does it mean that you should sit around, patiently waiting for him to magically become a mind reader and to approach you just like that?<\/p>\n

Of course, you could always do that. However, if you do, you\u2019ll miss out on a lot of opportunities.<\/p>\n

Besides, we\u2019re all about equality. So, let\u2019s be equal when it comes to this as well.<\/p>\n

5. It doesn\u2019t matter what your friends and family think<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

La scelta della persona per sempre deve essere una decisione solo vostra.<\/p>\n

After all, this is the person you\u2019ll be spending the rest of your life with and you\u2019re the only one who has a say when it comes to this huge decision.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, quasi tutti vi diranno di ascoltare voi stessi quando si tratta di questa scelta.<\/p>\n

Le persone vi consiglieranno di ignorare tutto ci\u00f2 che la vostra famiglia e i vostri amici hanno da dire e di seguire i vostri desideri.<\/p>\n

A rischio di sembrare antiquato, non sono d'accordo. Infatti, \u00e8 anche uno dei miti sugli appuntamenti che dovreste sfatare il prima possibile.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not telling you to blindly listen to your loved ones, to live your life under their terms, trying to please them.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m asking you to take their opinion into consideration, if nothing else. Never forget that these are the people who love you and only want what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

Besides, they\u2019re not in love with this man, so they don\u2019t idealize him. They don\u2019t have their rose-tinted glasses on so they can be more realistic and see some things you probably don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

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